What? I thought some men liked bigger women?

[Anonymous]

Kevin Samuels (Life coach and dating professional)

made tons of videos about how men with higher value never date big women. how you never see a rich dude with a big lady. Anyways, the comments got me. Saying how it's true and how he was right.

so the next time a person tries to tell me "you're good enough as you are" I'm laughing in their face.
I give up.

I'm devalued and I'm not important cause of my weight. wow. I'm done.

:) so the guys that are with big women are considered low quality. I rest my case

[genericname85]

well being fat is not exactly something you're stuck with. i think if you're fat, you're someone who doesn't take good care of themself and don't have a good lifestyle and also i wish my patner to be there for me for as long as possible but if she's fat, chances are super high that she's gonna die before her time.

so why should i go for a fat girl? it's like sure i can appreciate her as a friend and value her as a human being but at the same time not choose her as my life partner. i feel like that's what someone would do, who doesn't have a choice.

and it's not like that's some morally low decision. also it's not an "extreme" expectation at all. you can be reasonable slim. every girl "can" be slim enoughh for my preference. that's not outside of your ability. i'm not going for a supermodel or like super skinny. i just expect my future wife to have a somewhat healthy body.

yes you should love yourself and all that good stuff. but at the same time you shouldn't live in the delusion that being obese is "ok" for you to be. you should work at not being that. i've been chubby before in my life. i know this is not something that can't be fixed.

[Asker]

THAT wasn't my question. I thought men liked bigger women. Don't treat me like its any of your business what I do. I don't appreciate being treated like I'm less than because I'm fat. Like holy hell.

[genericname85]

why did you assume i'm telling you what to do? i'm simply saying that being fat is a choice. i didn't say you can't make that choice. i said you shouldn't, which is what i think but you're free to do whatever the fuck you want and ignore what i think xD. i just did say that it's not healthy and that is true. i'm not at allforcing you to do anything or telling you to do anything. i'm just saying what's better and what' worse from my perspective.

i just explained to you why i don't like bigger women personally. i can't speak on behalf of all men. so giving you my point of view is all i can do. i mean you didn't even ask a question at all xD so how am i supposed to answer a question?

[Novacane]

I wouldn't agree with what he said, but I would say that it is very rare, I mean if you are high value that's assuming the guy great looking, very wealthy, and if that's the case those types of guys won't really date bigger women and if they do whos not to say that's not the only girl he's seeing. But that's the beauty of women, no matter how big or small, tall or short, there will always be guys out there that find you attractive, sadly men don't get that same treatment.

[Asker]

I disagree there's guys I find hot and my friends don't like. Maybe they aren't as vocal about it.

[Novacane]

I believe you, beauty is subjective, but those guys are still hot in a sense to other women maybe not to your friends but are still considered great looking, there are stats from data that show women tend to only be like men that fall in that people would consider an 8-10 range vs men tend to be more disperse from 5-10. There are men who are literally disqualified just because of height.

[tatianamay]

Being obese is not healthy. I'm not bodyshaming anyone, but it can cause numerous health problems in the future. I'm well aware that some people may have some health conditions which may prevent them from losing weight... but either way, its not good.

[Sirenboobzilla]

You're devaluing yourself here. You're also suggesting You're after wealth, not the actual person. Financial stability doesn't equate to pure happiness. There's so much more that's needed and you've shut yourself out of it. Well played

[JCrockett]

I'm aware that some guys are into larger women, but only because I've seen evidence of it. One of my close friends has been in two serious long term relationships, both with overweight women who I consider to be physically unattractive (he's skinny and average looking himself) Personally, I can't relate at all. That's a compelling observation that men with lots of options rarely choose large women. That's worth reading in to, because it makes a lot of sense.

[Albino010]

Yes, you should lose weight, not because of looks or public perception, but because it's not healthy to be obese.


With this said, why people care so much about what those guys says? Do they make good points, yeah, but don't treat their word as gospel.

[bamesjond0069]

Kevin Samuels is 99% right about everything. I think he's 100% right here. No top 1% man going to get with a fat girl. Nope. Not even that id be shocked to see one even with anyone below a legit 7. And thats a legit 7 with no makeup and not womens fucked up scale where 90% of women are a 7 or higher.

[matts_back]

As a guy that prefers bigger girls, I don't understand your point? What makes me "low quality"?

[matts_back]

Can I ask what exactly happened that made you feel this way? You can DM me if you want

[Twalli]

They're not of low quality, they're of low wealth and means.

[VikingWarLord]

Get on Cole Robinson's "SNAKE DIET"

[Asker]

Stfu

[PrettyPriya]

What exactly do you mean by "bigger"? Taller?

[slatyb]

So date a big guy. They are devalued too.

[Hulk30]

can i see what ya look like please

[dudeinohio]

I do