Age gap relationships... Have you ever had one? Any reason you would or wouldn't go for it? (Page 2)

[helppls]

My parents have an age gap of 8 years but it doesn't seem like it. My father and mother look so young and look the same age.
Me, personally, the largest I would go for (I haven't) is def 4 years or 5.

[shaysh87]

I don’t think This is very difficult

for example , you are 20 and married someone who is 38. Let’s fast forward to by the time you hit 42, he is 60. Do you really think you would be enjoying married life by then? You’re still riding motorcycles , having sex, traveling. Meanwhile you find yourself married to a senior citizen who can’t keep up with you physically, sexually. You might want to travel to 2 countries while he wants to go on a quiet cruise. You might want to go out while he wants to go to bed early. You may be completely not physically attracted to him at all.

while other 50 something yr old married women are traveling with their husbands , you’re sitting at home changing your elderly husbands diapers and reminding him to take all his medication

most of the women who marry much much much older men tend to regret it on later in life.

[shaysh87]

Not to mention you will likely be spending the remaining 20-40 years dying alone.

[lilyanony1]

You're entitled to your opinion but you need to stop trolling people's comments. It's rude and unnecessary

[shaysh87]

@lilyanony1I’

Im not trolling. just because you don’t like it , it doesn’t mean it’s not true.

[shaysh87]

Most women that marry much much much older men tend to regret it later in life. I’ve known of many who regret it. And guess what? By the time they find out , it’s too late

[jirwin7979]

i have never had an age gap life but i also can say i am attracted to younger women but yet i dont stand a chance in hell at being involved with one a lot of them are to cold hearted and raised to judge off looks and Stereotypes and dont care how men feel i am 42 and have had my heart destroyed by my last girlfriend i just hope there is one that wants me for how kind and loving i am no mater my quarks

[Manuel2]

I have had a few. But it was the parents and sibles was more against it than the woman.
Funny though. The man they sibblinvs and parents accepted ,
Also treated her worse than me.

But the one I loved most, her parents will accept as long as I joined their faitb.
I will not do tbat

[Manuel2]

I saw a film call BREEZY starring William Holden than covers this subject bes.

[GingerGuy]

I recently dated someone that was 10 years younger than me. Wasn't intentional on my part, she actually made the initial contact. It didn't end up going anywhere, but not because of age. It did raise some questions for me though about relationship goals and wants, such as wanting children and things like that.

[Anonymous]

I dated a 20 year old when I was 34. It surprisingly lasted much longer than I expected (9 months). We had a ton of fun but when problems came up she didn’t have the maturity to deal with them.

I also hooked up with a 22 yr old when I was 39. We both agreed to keep it on the DL. We did it twice.

[t-8900]

I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 45 and I've never had so much chemistry with any other human being, ever. She's amazing and I'm absolutely crazy about her. She's got a heart of gold and she appreciates me and my Romantic side.

[Anon833]

My wife and I have an age gap of 38 years. I was 19 when I married her. She was 57. And after twelve years, we are still married and love each other so much.

[molonski2]

I would never NOT have one , I prefer women much younger than myself , the current age gap , is 22 years , I have had much larger gaps than that , but this gap is good via very many measures.

[InYourHead]

Yea I've done them more than once

[PapiiMijo]

I ain't nowhere near that old but message me lol.

[Cleo12345]

I think a 10 year gap is the most that I could handle. I think there would be too many issues otherwise and I know personally I would feel extremely insecure if I was the older partner

[TheLittleInnocent]

Yes all my boyfriend have been older than me. I just think older guys are hot-

[annabananna]

My husband is 25 years older than me. I have dated guys my age and he is the only one who treated me well and accepts and loves me for me.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

When did you met him at what age

[annabananna]

When I was 25

[adidas0169]

Pretty much everyone i have dated all were older accept 1. my ex before my wife she was 21yrs older and the one before her was 10yrs older and my wife now is 6yrs older. for the most part i get along with older people better

[Dragonpurple]

I do not really think about it, while I really haven't had a large age gap. I would still give it a decent chance and give it my all.

[linka_pat307]

I think age gap does not matter as long as you love each other, have the qualities u want in a partner

[Heartache0405]

No. But my dad is married to my step mom who is 20 years younger than him. He is in his 50s and she is in her 30s

[Avicenna]

Yeah, it's only an issue if you make it one ASSUMING there is compatibility between you (and that's a factor at any age).

[hhadeshatesme]

First relationship I was 15, he was 19.
I’m currently 18 and starting up something with a guy 23

[jeepthing]

Currently in one. I see no problem with them but also don't activly seek them out.