Are there any positive examples of guys that are single for a long time?

[Lionman95]

I feel like that there are so many guys that are single for a long or even for life that are miserable and still complaining. I´ve never been in a relationship and I probably never will be but I feel like there are no positive role models of guys being single and at least content about it.
I´ve been to some MGTOW forums and they kept complaining on and on about how their previous relationships and how bad women are.
I get their complains but I haven´t found any solution there.

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It´s not meant as a personal question rather to find out if there are more alternatives to becoming an incel or MGTOW.

[DonkeyDan]

The problem with people who are single and unhappy is they haven't worked out that being happy about themselves isn't someone else's responsibility, and to not rely on someone else for validation.
I've been married before and I'm currently single by choice and have veen for coning up to 5 years, i couldn't be happier right now. I have a good life with good friends, and a couple of fwbs, but unlimitedly i am alone at the end of the day, but I'm happy about that. I'm happy with myself, I love my own company, and its no big deal for me. Learn to be more self sufficient with your own happiness, and not rely on others for it. Above all else its nobody else fault for someone being single, just as its no one else's fault if you dont have work, or are fat, or an alcoholic etc. People are so quick to blame other or fibd fault with other for their own shortcomings, and never actually reflect inwardly on themselves, because that is where they will find the faults and reasons for their situation, and they can't handle that.

[DonkeyDan]

Thanks for the MHO 👍🏻

[slatyb]

I have never... and probably never will be...” That’s a choice. You can do nothing at your prediction will come true. Or you can change your behavior, meet some people, make friends, and change your life.

[Dchrls78104]

I have always been single and never dated anyone. It can get lonely sometimes, and there's always the temptation to take some desperate or stupid risk; but otherwise, it's fine. There are benefits to being single, like having more time for yourself to focus on your own personal (including spiritual) development.

[nickfontenot]

Well the bible does say Be Fruitful and Multiply to replenish the earth. But i guess the best way to interact with one is at the bar or work

[jahaims]

I was happy single