I believe there is. But my issue is with people who feel the need to voice out the fact that they're "high value". When I hear people say that it's a complete turn off to me, because it comes off as arrogant. Sometimes it depends on the context, but it's still not nice to hear. People know that from the energy you excude. People know that from the way you talk, dress, set boundaries etc.
Men and women calling themselves high value reminds me of those who call themselves Alpha male/woman lol. It's lame 😂
There is such thing as a high value men and women.
I'm not going to get in too deep about the definitions or what it means to be a high value man or woman.
But I will say this that a high value man or woman bring to the table what the opposite sex wants. Or probably the same sex depending on their preference.
There is always a masculine and feminine energy that their partner is looking for and I'm not going to get into what it is to have masculine or feminine energy. But I will say this that high value men and women stay in their frame.
But I will say this, when it comes to love it doesn't matter the value the society has on the individual. The value the person gives to the love of their life can be different from what the society gives them.
They can be high value but unless they're partner loves them their partner looks at them with low value. Unfortunately they could be low value, even toxic, but if their partner looks at them with love then they will be looked on with high value. Why? Because the person that loves anyone looks at them with the highest value you can possibly look at them because they're in love.
We should always shoot to be of high value. Not for societal reasons but for personal reasons and for your own personal life. This way we can be the best partner we can possibly be for the love of our lives if we already have them in our lives or haven't found them yet. Regardless we should always shoot to be better people and to be the best version of ourselves we can possibly be every single day. I think that high value people also value themselves a lot and also values their partner. However not everyone who values themselves and values their partner are also High value. Not everyone who is in love also is of high value. It just means they're in love and that they look at their partner with high value. This is independent from high value and low value qualities.
So there you have it.
1. On one end you have people who have high value, and society will also look at them as high value individuals. High value people benefit everyone around them.
2. But on another hand you have people who are in love and look at their partners with high value independent from the fact if they have high value qualities or not.
Well honestly, I believe people would be honest. I would promote honesty in all thing in or with someone I would want to have a serious relationship with. Not not sure what you mean by "high value", but I often ask women if they are confident, secure and self assured, because nothing brings out someone's insecurities more than dating. That I am a very confident, secure, and self assured so if she is not in control of her insecurities I will be too much for her to handle and it will not work out. But I am very generous, gracious and affectionate.
Now some will and have called me arrogant, cocky and self centered... I accept that criticism for what it is, but that is because its usually more rooted in their own insecurities than my own. If my flaw is being too arrogant I am comfortable with it because I have seen the alternative... and I will not be ruled by my own insecurities, doubts and fears... and I will not be with someone else that is, or so easily intimated.
I read that the phrase was created by guys as a criticism of the general concept of girls/women classifying guys. It wasn't created by women. It was created by men being angry about feeling slighted. Some guys always find a way to criticize women. And I agree with you, a person who is 'high value' or confident or great in whatever ways, doesn't actually feel the need to flaunt it. It actually wreaks of arrogance... and worse, desperate attempts to affirm their ego.
Yes, but everyone has their own idea of what is "high value". I agree with the alpha comparison. It's kind of uncomfortable when people claim it outright, but ig for the people who are actually succeeding in life its less cringe because they know their worth? I don't know, you go gir yassssss queen whohoo 🤩 💕 💞 💓
Yes, there is such a thing. And those who happen to be just that don't call themselves 'high value'. Same thing that a true gentleman doesn't call himself a gentleman. On the contrary, in my experience, those who call themselves "alpha", "high value", "nice guy", "I'm not like all the other girls" or whatever are often not what they say they are.
True high value people have integrity, stand by their word, know their worth and actually prove they are worth something through self-development and bringing meaning to themselves, to society and the people around them. Often people use 'high value' to refer to materially rich people, but that's not always supposed to be the case. You don't have to be rich or famous to be high value. Plenty of rich people who simply have garbage personalities and are just toxic to be around. High value is the opposite of that.
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Anonymous
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“High value men”. Are usually compensateing for somthing they lack. And are actually pretty miserable.
most are broke, But put on an immage like they are royalty. 🚩
High value women, are usually WORES. Who think guys should bow down to them because they dress slutty, And have a vagina,
They too are also more than often. Broke as well.
the people that try to act, like their all that usually are not,
I know people who drive a BMW. Who dont have 1000$. In their bank account
and i know guys with beards, in work clothes. In a rusty old truck. That can buy your house. With 100$. Bills. Cash.
It's very much a matter of character than anything else.
Someone who is good to and for you. Puts in their 50% are higher value than someone who dosnt. So in my opinion lots of people can be high value to you
There is such a thing, but here's the rub. It's like the expression about being a lady or having power; if you have to TELL someone you're a lady, or you have power, then you're not and you don't. I easily understand why you're turned off by it. I am too.
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Anonymous
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Yes there are high value and low value men/women. While some of it is subjective, other times it's a clear fact. Who contributes most, who has the most, who carries the most power, these are all high value, even if you dont like em. There are also low value, no counts in society. That's just how it is.
I dont mind if someone says they are... i just expect them to back it up with actual reasons. For example a drunk fat girl at a bar saying it vs a woman i ask for coffee who says im high value and if you want to take me on an actual date ill say yes but coffee is just for friends. I respect that. High value is only a small part physical appearance and so its helpful to point it out to people and communicate it sometimes.
There are mature, classy, elegant, enchanting women on one end of the spectrum and loose, loud, heavy drinking, sleazy women on the other end of the spectrum. There are endless shades in between the two.
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There's no question there are high value men and women. But one thing I see constantly is women who think they are high value by the definition of a high value man as opposed to a high value woman. The things that make a man high value to women are NOT the same as what makes a woman high value to men. That's a fact that seems lost on many/most modern women.
I agree completely with your analysis. I have seen a great many people call themselves high-value because they have a lot of money or because they think they're pretty. But they would be terrible in a relationship.
High value partners are people who are likable, have a good career, can get along with people easily and are appreciated by a lot of people. Being wealthy doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re high value
Sure but like you say in regards to the alphaism, high value exists and is observed without any additional attention like a Patek Philippe or a Royce even a great bottle of Scotch can do it
I hate that expression. Evreryone has value. Just because some dickhead has rich parents or is tall and muscular does not make him more valuable than anyone else.
Well think of it this way: is there such a thing as a "low value woman/man"? Yeah, there is, just take a look at me. So it would make sense for there to be the opposite, in other words we can safely assume there is such a thing as a "high value woman/man" because... well to claim otherwise would be beyond retarded
I think there are, but we all value different things so it's a subjective thing. A person calling themselves "high-value" because they're physically attractive is a bit lame in my opinion.
Yeah people are always gonna judge and you just see some people as higher value than others. But yes anyone that calls themselves that isn't high value. I'm not sure if I am or not I guess it depends on the other person
