My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I haven’t been on a date in months. He never asks me or initiate anything other then going to the gym together. When we are there all he does is stare like stare long too. I don’t care who he stares at to be honest but the length of time bothers me. I pretty much see him everyday but no dates. When I ask he says he is busy and never gets rest, he does work really long hours so I give him that. Should I start to distance myself to make him miss me? Should I change the way I look? I do love him but at the same time I feel I’m falling out of love. Any advice would be great if you can.