This is fairly common. All it means is that he is comfortable with you. He may love you very much, but at the same time he doesn't appreciatte you very much anymore. It's because you guys are just there now. Nothing special anymore. No passion or fire that people have in the beginning. This is why it's true when they say that a long term realationship is work. And as such if he can't take on some of the work and try to meet you half way, maybe it's time to think about whether or not you two have a future. Try this. Get a piece of paper out. Make a list of Pros on one side and cons on the other. Pros of course are what you do like and cons are what you do not like. See what you come up with and then decide if this is where you want to be in 5, 10,15+ years down the road. It's only been 2 years. Based on that what do you see in 5?
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It seems as if you dug yourself deeper into a ditch that just says to me that the connection is just not there anymore. Judging by the comments made and the replies and updates, you should move onto better things. The grass is greener on the other side. Hopefully that grass is not the kind that will get you high.
You deserve a good guy!
he's an ass. hun you deserve better. every woman has a breaking point, I just hope you reach yours soon before you invest too much.
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Smokes weed.
Makes a girl pay for his sh*t.
Those two are red flags. Unless you are into drugs.
Unless a man is really in the slums for some SERIOUS reason there is NEVER any reason as to why a girl should pay for anything of his. That's not a man hun.
There are millions of guys out there are loving and loyal. Go find one that values your time and having you in his life.dump his ass... that is all
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