If I went back to university at 27/28 years old, will the girls there wanna date me?

[Inthecraphole]

Do you think I am too old? Keep in mind I never had a real girlfriend myself. Maybe I can find a woman where we can be each other's first loves.

I am thinking Emory University in Atlanta.

Yes

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[MCheetah]

No they would not. That's too old for them. I was in college at that time getting my Masters degree. I was 28 at the time, and the girls there were 20. I was considered too old for them (not that I was trying to date all the girls on campus or anything). Even when I was the same age as them though, most of them didn't have the time or energy to be dating. They took their academic work seriously. I doubt college girls have gotten more lax in the last 10 to 15 years, either. I seriously doubt you'll get a girlfriend in college, but I still said No.

[ShadezMcgee]

For your sake this had better be for development and your career and not to chase women. Furthermore, go to a trade school if you want to make money and get a useful skill. You get paid in your apprenticeship.

If you are just going for tail, you will fail. Focus on your degree, your mental and physical health and establishing connections for employment prospects and friends before you even think of chasing women.

[KellyKOO]

Are you going back for an education or to find a girlfriend? If it's the latter, don't.

[Inthecraphole]

Both. I don't have a degree. I feel it is time to earn one for stability. I am also wanting to find a woman without a romantic past.

[Laciandmaci]

Message me I am in the same boat (not the college part)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Why do people assume that women in college who are close to your age do not exist?
You are 27, and you want to go back to college, if a guy can be that age in college, so can a girl.
I say do it, ignore the idiots saying its cringey, adults have literally no other avenue to find love outside of college (unless they are religious and go to church, or drunkards and go to bars, and I don't advise either, way too cringey).

[yeahthatskindacool]

Possibly. At the end of the day, it's about your personality, confidence, attractiveness, and social skills. Those are more important than your age in this situation.

[Curmudgeon]

Focus on getting a real job and a real skillset, and the rest will take care of itself.

[Inthecraphole]

I had one, but was laid off 2 days ago. I'd like to have a degree for stability. Plus, I want to find a woman without a romantic past.

[Curmudgeon]

OK, at your age, that's too tall an order. If I were you, I would start with "Cougar Dating", just to gain "experience points". No the relationship won't last, but she gets her groove back and you get experience. Win-win.

[Inthecraphole]

Eww... I don't like wrinkly old women. I like younger girls for sure.

[Curmudgeon]

Of course you do. But you need to start *somewhere* and currently you are giving off creepy stalker vibes when you pursue teenyboppers.

[zagor]

As long as that is not your reason for going back to school, OK.

I took some classes at a U when I was about 28 and there were definitely some girls interested. Probably more so than when I was 20.

[Citizenkirk]

With the cost of tuition, I'd think you would be more focused on your studies.

[jshm2]

You seriously don't want to go to uni, spend all that cash, and still end up with no poon, do you?

[cookiecrusher]

Sure, if you are fit and have a nice car, then you don't need to be a smooth talker. Just say hi to interesting women. And don't be nervous, be dominant but kind.

[Gangactivities911]

I’m 26 at university and the girls there still largely are willing to date me. But I’m otherwise quite attractive so I’m not sure if it would work for everyone.

[boobliker]

I want back at 40 and the girls where all over me chats dates and sex hay you only get out what you put in.

[Anonymous]

No, you give off a really bad vibe, so it is probably not going to happen.

[Inthecraphole]

How do I give off a bad vibe?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Don’t be that guy. Nobody likes that guy.

[Inthecraphole]

What guy? I never even had a girlfriend myself. I don't have a degree... what is the problem here?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

The problem is that you are a creep.

[youngmix]

Depends on how attractive you are.

[Inthecraphole]

So I just have to be really attractive? Do you think I can find a woman without a romantic past while I am there?

[youngmix]

You don't have to be "really attractive", just attractive to whomever you're speaking to. So, if you are clean, have nice teeth, nothing extremely unconventional about you, and you have a good attitude, then a late 20's person will be fine for dating.

I don't know what you're looking for in your relationships, if anything at all, but if you're confident, clean, fun, and serious about your work, then you'll be attractive. If you're poetic, a charismatic speaker, or both, even better.

The fact that you can purchase alcohol at will is a big plus with some people as well.

[youngmix]

And I'm not sure if you can actually find a woman with no romantic past in this country. If you can, and you are not unattractive, then you should be fine. But the fact that you are looking specifically for someone without a romantic past is big shrieking red light.

Makes me think you have some confidence issues, or that you're a religious zealot. If it's religious, find a woman at your church.

But, before I judge your confidence, why are you looking for someone who hasn't experienced any romantic interactions?

[LordOfThePines]

Dude... no, don't do that.

[Inthecraphole]

Why not? I don't have a degree... what is wrong going back?

[LordOfThePines]

Going back for educations, but going back seemingly based on how you worded this, to get dates, is cringey and manipulative.

[Inthecraphole]

Why not get a date why I am in school?

[LordOfThePines]

Again, based on how you phrased this, it seems like you're going back to school with the intent on dates, which is not cool. But nothing is wrong with happening to have a relationship in school, so long as it is a happenstance and not the main goal.

[Agape93]

Someone's a creep.

[Mavie123]

you are young

[888theGreat]

why not

[In_Trance]

Bruh..

[BestWoman]

Why not