Why did this guy put me into the hook up category?

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This guy that lead me on the entire time as he was already engaged to some other girl. I got really annoyed how I was treated in the end because he's never left his hometown and she seemed like some party girl. I believe I'm a person with substance I've travelled solo around the world, worked in another country in Canada to do marketing, lots of hobbies and I'm playing making themed birthday cakes on the side

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Honesttguy | 238 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Well hia a low life, low values so couldn't be honest obviosly cus thats a higher quality that he doesn't have

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awkward_author | 221 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

He's attracted to you and wants to fuck around before he gets married.

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Asker

5 d
His girlfriend looks ugly with squit teeth
awkward_author

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He's still with her, so it really doesn't matter. You're in the "hook up category" because that's all he wants from you.
Asker

5 d
Yeah but he's bored because he's got a kid on the way he has no choice
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awkward_author

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If you pursue this, you're going to be his side piece unless he leaves her. Even if he does leave her, it's not a good idea to trust him. I think moving on and finding someone available is your best option.
Asker

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Yeah blocked him he openly admitted he's cheating on her to me
awkward_author

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That's good. You deserve better anyways.
Asker

5 d
Yeah good luck to her he's putting on a show to impress his friends and family but behind closed doors he cheat on her
awkward_author

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A lot of people are like that.
Asker

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They are both cringy always posting couple selfies
awkward_author

5 d
Couples have a tendency to do that.
Asker

5 d
I'm just sick of guys

Answer 3

Asker

His girlfriend looks ugly with squit teeth

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awkward_author

He's still with her, so it really doesn't matter. You're in the "hook up category" because that's all he wants from you.

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Asker

Yeah but he's bored because he's got a kid on the way he has no choice

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awkward_author

If you pursue this, you're going to be his side piece unless he leaves her. Even if he does leave her, it's not a good idea to trust him. I think moving on and finding someone available is your best option.

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Asker

Yeah blocked him he openly admitted he's cheating on her to me

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awkward_author

That's good. You deserve better anyways.

Answer 9

Asker

Yeah good luck to her he's putting on a show to impress his friends and family but behind closed doors he cheat on her

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awkward_author

A lot of people are like that.

Answer 11

Asker

They are both cringy always posting couple selfies

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awkward_author

Couples have a tendency to do that.

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Asker

I'm just sick of guys

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Leonharted | 362 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Some people are just scumbags.

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All he did was drink whiskey mostly at the weekends... and his girlfriend is no better they always seem to have dome sort of drink in their hands

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Asker

All he did was drink whiskey mostly at the weekends... and his girlfriend is no better they always seem to have dome sort of drink in their hands

Why did this guy put me into the hook up category?

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