Depends. If he ask you out as friends its not that difficult to offer to split the bill. But if he asks you out on a date then i feel that he should pay. But if that's the case unless specified before that it will be at a fancy place and it won't be an issue don't abuse his wallet by getting the super expensive stuff (heard stories of guys having to pay large bills)
Yes. It looks bad for anyone to ask someone else out and not pay for everything. And turn down any pro forma offers by the other person to pay some of the bill.
Well, what women would ask a guy out to eat? If the guy is always asking than he’s always paying right? So if that’s true than why won’t women do the asking? Like, ever!
A better way to express this would be, “if you are invited out, is it customary to assume the asker to cover all expenses?” Yes, it is. A few years back however this started getting blurred by some bizarre twisted notions.
its also traditional for women to stay at home and cook for men... but obviously women only want the good things from tradition so they don't cook but still want the guys to pay on date... but this is changing now if women can earn money then we can split bills too... and this is true feminism not the bull shit
i'm not talking about u... i'm saying in general women who don't follow the tradition of a woman staying at home and cooking... will always expect the guy to follow the tradition of paying on a date... why?
If I ask ask you out no matter what we do no matter where we go to eat I'm going to pay because I'm asking you out now let's say that you asked me out I'm still going to pay just because you asked me out and I probably would enjoy your company so yeah I would pay no matter what
Most women don't ask guys out, It's better to split or at least offer. The decent girls who are girlfriend material are always like this. If he asked you out, you accepted that too. Entitled women wander later why men are leaving after some dates and sex.
No, each person is supposed to pay for their own meal, unless it's the other person's birthday, or some other gift. Couples give eachother gifts all the time, but thats a two way street.
If the guy asks then he pays; if the woman asks she pays.
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Every guy on here is saying "I'm old school" lol and saying yes because it's the PC thing for guys to say even though feminists demand equality, men always give in because... women.
Yes. They're called simps and they end up being divorced and losing half their sh*t to some gold digger. But hey, at least they can say "I was a gentleman and gave her free dinners!"
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Depends. If he ask you out as friends its not that difficult to offer to split the bill. But if he asks you out on a date then i feel that he should pay. But if that's the case unless specified before that it will be at a fancy place and it won't be an issue don't abuse his wallet by getting the super expensive stuff (heard stories of guys having to pay large bills)
it's still better to pay half (recommended for people who not married yet, so when bad happens *like break up, there's no guilt and debt)
*pats for your half* ;)
lol ☺️😂
Hope you enjoyed your meal ;)
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A gift is a gift. There is no debt.
i forgot to mention that my opinion is depends on people, so want to follow it or not. its their choice
You can at least offer to buy dessert, or leave the tip. Just because he is a guy doesn’t mean that he is required to pay for everything.
Some of us want to.
@jerdanro and you can decline her offer.
Yes. It looks bad for anyone to ask someone else out and not pay for everything. And turn down any pro forma offers by the other person to pay some of the bill.
Well, what women would ask a guy out to eat? If the guy is always asking than he’s always paying right? So if that’s true than why won’t women do the asking? Like, ever!
This is why I'm an shouldn't ask out a woman. He should leave an open invitation she can pickup or not. That way there's no presumption on her end.
A man*
A better way to express this would be, “if you are invited out, is it customary to assume the asker to cover all expenses?” Yes, it is. A few years back however this started getting blurred by some bizarre twisted notions.
It’s traditional for the males to do so, yes, but it’s also old-fashioned.
its also traditional for women to stay at home and cook for men... but obviously women only want the good things from tradition so they don't cook but still want the guys to pay on date... but this is changing now if women can earn money then we can split bills too... and this is true feminism not the bull shit
@johnyash1324 ik I didn’t say I had anything with or against it did i, just saying how it is.
i'm not talking about u... i'm saying in general women who don't follow the tradition of a woman staying at home and cooking... will always expect the guy to follow the tradition of paying on a date... why?
All I know is I don’t usually…
@johnyash1324 Yup, they cherry pick and only choose things that better them. Bunch of hypocrites.
Not everything old fashioned is bad.
Bunch of angry guys. Take pride in being a man.
If I ask ask you out no matter what we do no matter where we go to eat I'm going to pay because I'm asking you out now let's say that you asked me out I'm still going to pay just because you asked me out and I probably would enjoy your company so yeah I would pay no matter what
@ohshee thats because you're a simp.. i'm not.. if she asked me out she's paying no matter how much it cost her... thats her problem not mine..
no, split the bill is the best option according to me
Chivalry is just a way for a man to show appreciation for the woman he is with. And perhaps indicating romantic intentions.
Most women don't ask guys out, It's better to split or at least offer. The decent girls who are girlfriend material are always like this. If he asked you out, you accepted that too. Entitled women wander later why men are leaving after some dates and sex.
Dating is for simps... I walked away from this bs decades ago!
Just ask him. "You wanna go out?" "Are you paying?" And then he'll either say yes, or let's split it, or it's your turn to pay. Easy.
No, each person is supposed to pay for their own meal, unless it's the other person's birthday, or some other gift. Couples give eachother gifts all the time, but thats a two way street.
If you ask someone out I think the expectation is that you are paying, UNLESS you make it clear that you're not upfront
Who ever asks pays the first time then after that split the bill
If I ask a woman on a date, I'm paying and I'm opening the door for her.
Okay, if you ask then yeah fine pay for it but if it's not the first date no matter who asks it should be split it's only fair.
It can be negotiated by I'd say that was fair and logical. If he asked you out it is implied he is treating you.
Not limited to a guy. The person that invites another out to eat should pay, whether that be a guy or a girl.
If the guy asks then he pays; if the woman asks she pays.
Every guy on here is saying "I'm old school" lol and saying yes because it's the PC thing for guys to say even though feminists demand equality, men always give in because... women.
Yes. They're called simps and they end up being divorced and losing half their sh*t to some gold digger. But hey, at least they can say "I was a gentleman and gave her free dinners!"
Yes, unless there are previous arrangements the asker should pay.