Should I ask the guy I’ve been seeing if he’s seeing other girls? Is it wrong of me to ask as we’re only seeing each other and not exclusive? (Page 2)
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Yes and no
Why yes? And why no?
You want to know whether you two are exclusive or not, right, then you must ask.
Okay so that’s the yes part, but you also put no? So how come you said no?
Smart girl. Wait a minute.
So no it's not wrong to ask. Only if you feel that way. Then I would wonder why you feel it's wrong to ask.
Thank you haha! I only feel like it’s wrong to ask because we’re not exclusive so it’s not really my business to ask if he’s seeing/talking to anyone else. I also feel like if I ask he’ll see it as me being clingy or needy
I would not worry about being clingy or needy.
If you're not a priority you're an option, are you ok with that?
You get what you negotiate for. Are you worried what if he says yes? 🙂 we are exclusive
Are you worried?
If it’s not going to make me seem clingy or needy then I’ll definitely ask! I’m definitely not okay with being an option which is why I want to know if he’s seeing other people. If he says he’s not seeing anyone else and we’re exclusive i won’t be worried I’d be happy as I like him☺️ just worried if he says yes he is seeing other people
Then you live him. That's the chance you would have to take. Or you may ask how soon is too soon to be exclusive. For how long you two are seeing each other?
leave him *
Or at least warn him genuinely with intended action of leaving, I know it's frightening
You know how to break new, don't you?
Break news *
If he tells me he’s seeing other people then I will leave for sure! If he’s not but he’s not ready to be exclusive just yet then I’ll stay until he is, well unless that takes months and he still says he’s not then I’ll leave
All the best
Please don't fall in never ending loop
People don't commit if they can get away without committing
Oh I definitely won’t fall into that loop! If he says he’s not seeing other people but not ready to make it exclusive then I’ll give it a little bit longer, and if he still says the same I’ll leave. I don’t want to be wasting my time so I know when it’s time to leave. Thank you!!☺️
You're welcome
!! 😊