If confidence is so attractive to men, why are so many confident (and attractive) women single? (Page 2)

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Disclaimer: I know I’ll get a ton of comments invalidating this claim that say things like men want confident women, just not “masculine” or “entitled” or “arrogant” women or something along those lines. I’m not referring to that type. I’m talking about women who know who they are and stand up for themselves, etc.  It seems like a lot of insecure women have it easier finding relationships than confident women.

Luopio27 · Answer

Because the world is shalow as hell.  A girl with s perfect body and face is a walking master piece. Her confidence or insecurity is invisible and irrelevant as her career and income.

SlothySlob · Answer

I know what you mean, I know the contradiction and the only thing I can argue is, not all men.

Anonymous · Answer

Confident but feminine. Not someone with dominating masculine energy.

Tarapatrona · Answer

Cause they have more self worth, and has standards rather than settling with the first thing they see

Anonymous · Answer

It looks to me, that in such practices insecure girls and insecure boys get together rather than confident men and confident women.
Apparently either their insecurity is prevailing or they straight out lied.

Ninania · Answer

Most likely because those women have higher standards in the men they date.

Juxtapose · Answer

Because the "confident" women are dismissive and smug.

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

Cause they (obviously not all) dont actually want confident women who stand up for themselves, they want someone who they can take advantage of

Vegasrunner · Answer

Part of the problem is that words like confidence are subjective. Meaning the traits u consider confident in women could seem as annoying by men.

StickStickity13 · Answer

It's probably the woman's fault. If she's attractive and confident I guarantee she has some men interested.

dolemite89 · Answer

i think most women conflate being confident with being bossy/bitchy. She thinks she’s a real catch in her own mind for some reason but in reality the guy probably just thinks she’s insufferable.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

You can be confident and still be idiotic. Also a lot of seemingly confident women have some kind of hidden feminist agenda and most guys wouldn't want that drama

Jouth · Answer

Confident women are sometimes a bitch. Being confident in it's own: wildly attractive Being a bitch in combination with anything else: dealbreaker you're welcome

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

If you're confident and you didn't get the stamp of approval from me, you're just a punk.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

It's only attractive when it doesn't make us feel weaker

jahaims · Answer

Because it takes more than one appealing trait to be dating material

Djaay · Answer

Yes men love a cofident women , confident in being a woman , not exercising that of masculine man she's interested in.

tallcuck · Answer

It is a fine line between being confident and arrogant. May be your confident women are too arogant for us.

2021biguy · Answer

They might seem arrogant, self centered or bossy, so that's a turn off. Yes you can stand up for yourself, that's ok.

Pohjolan · Answer

Its not that confidence itself is what gives a confident woman a edge but taking her dating strategy beyond wallflowering.

grega239 · Answer

Being confident and being bitchy are 2 different things

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Just because you're attractive doesn't mean I want to date you...

xJayleenx · Answer

Because they probably turn men down or men feel intimidated by them

Loveisgirthy · Answer

There's a balance in confidence needed and a lot of women get the queenly treatment too often.

Anonymous · Answer

Women like “confidence”... men find females who act like they are the shit to be annoying and arrogant.  There is nothing worse than a female who thinks she is the shit.

zagor · Answer

Where are those confident women going to meet men? Bars and clubs? Good luck with that.

Srij23 · Answer

Great question... I have always wondered !! Maybe they are too confident to mingle who knows 😃 I always have dated normal girls only..

Canada2 · Answer

The issue I find with really confident women is they also carry themselves with a high level of arrogance. That is a huge no go for me.

Chthou95 · Answer

Confident or being a stuck up cunt? There's a difference

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are attractive guys just assume they're attached and don't want the rejection or her boyfriend/husband beating them to a bloody pulp

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why so many confident (and attractive men) are single.

McKellar · Answer

That's okay, there are plenty of confident guys in our world today and not all of them are taken.

In_Trance · Answer

Confidence is only one attractive attribute. It needs to be a complete package

scooogy · Answer

Because it isn't attractive for me to be single but for you to date me.

driven159 · Answer

Maybe smart women want to have a career before relationships which I feel is very smart

Anonymous · Answer

Confidence is not attractive to men, it is attractive to women. Just like how women are more attractive when single, and men are more attractive when taken

Shiningtempest · Answer

@Hot_Redhead Some confident & attractive women have an unpleasant demeanor that repels men.

Anonymous · Answer

You just answered your own question with that question.. confident attractive = ego stuck up I'm to good for you ego

Nozgrd74 · Answer

Are they? Hmm maybe the men are intimidated by the confident ones 🤷🏼‍♂️

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Because for women apparently confidence = entitlement

Anonymous · Answer

Me: there's no way this confident woman is single.  Narrator: She was in fact, single af.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm unaware of attractive women who somehow aren't attractive because they're too confident. Maybe you mean they're narcissists. Or masculine.

Anonymous · Answer

I think men with confidence is attractive. Women’s compassion is attractive?

Not_Average · Answer

Men love the damsel in distress

Cubus · Answer

You have to be confident, but not arrogant

Iron_Man · Answer

It happens just like I’m single

ragooo8 · Answer

Confidence is not being abusive or bossy.

Aphrodite801 · Answer

What a rhetorical question 🤡

whosnumber1 · Answer

maybe they confuse confidence with arrogance

anylolone · Answer

You are mistaking anti-sociality with confidence.

leighbee · Answer

I have no idea :(

Anonymous · Answer

Dating in today's society has lost the plot.

MJtheCoach · Answer

Just a bit

mikalynn · Answer

hard one

Anonymous · Answer

not too confident

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