Would you accept an apology from your high school bully two years later? (Page 2)

[Godsvengeance]

Yes you should apologize whenever you intentionally hurt someone. You are not entitled to her accepting your apology though. She might just ignore you and that's her right but that possibility shouldn't deter you from doing the right thing and giving a heartfelt apology

[FreyaRed]

If she was single and ugly, maybe you wouldn't have that dilemma at all.
It's very likely the first conclusion she will have, if you say sorry.

[CelineBV]

Are you just sorry because she has a boyfriend and is having more succeed in life or sorry because it's wrong bullying regardless of whether they are doing well in life or not?

[Anonymous]

I stole the bully's girlfriend best pussy so far made me realize why I have a dick that's right I took it there and if you let me take you to the promised land

[SnakeBoop]

sounds sketchy and more like you want to close in on the boyfriend

[cookiecrusher]

Exactly 😅

[Jazzimeshele1234]

@cookiecrusher you low down dirty shame

[cookiecrusher]

Why do you say that? I had a shower like an hour ago.

[TOMaxe]

Yes, but only if you are really sincere about the apology. Let her know that your bullying has begun to affect how you feel about yourself and that you have learned how hurtful and harmful it can be to the one being bullied.

[Anonymous]

Yes! I've been bullied way too often in the past and it would give me closure that the people who bullied me knew that they were doing was wrong and actually feel bad for it.

Why? Oftentimes people who bully other people move on and are happy with their lives while people who are bullied are left to pick up the pieces.

[SmolOrcaBoi]

Absolutely. Especially with the fact that this is you asking. I think it’s sweet that you want to apologize.
If she doesn’t accept it, that’s her loss. You seem genuinely sorry and that’s the start of a good friendship.

[supercutebutt]

Apologize and offer to join her in a threesome with her hot new boyfriend :)

[ajafaro]

I think it depends on the person how bad you bullied them. Dating her crush seems pretty bad but shoot your shot. Just apologize and don't expect her to forgive or say anything, just unload yourself of this so that you don't regret for not acting

[Staximus]

She may not forgive you, but tell her you are sorry anyways. At least you realized your mistakes, some people never do. It shows you have grown as a person.

[shaysh87]

I'm gonna tell you the truth about what commonly happens:

bullies usually get away with things and never ever apologize. The 6% of those who do apologize is very rare.

[designer1]

I wouldn’t try to be friends but nothing wrong with apologizing. Don’t apologize with expectations to be forgiven though. You should apologize so that she hears it.

[Siren777]

Tell her you're sorry, you don't expect her to accept your apology even friendship but hopefully she can forgive you someday. An apology is better than no apology.

[normalice]

I would just tell them if they are apologizing because they want to feel better, then no. But if they are apologizing because they want to be better, then no apology is necissary,

[lrina]

you should definitely apologize. whether or not she accepts, that's up to her but you only need to just give out a genuine apology and your part is done.

[sunflower00]

I would say apologise if you genuinely feel bad (not because you are jealous) but don’t expect forgiveness. Bullying can completely ruin someone’s life

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Just apologize. Do it for yourself if not for her. She may not appreciate it in the moment, but someday she will, and she might even pay it forward.

[annabananna]

Yes, it would be nice to know that they looked back and even realized they were mean. I doubt my bullies even think about the times they were mean to me.

[exitseven]

I would pretend that I was forgiving him. I would invite him to lunch then after a few beers I would follow him into the mens room and give him a swirly.