I think the ideal is like the metaphor of a lion that keeps its claws retracted, making people who don't threaten it feel safe and comfortable around it.
That's basically the idea of the classic gentleman. Yet the man part is tougher than the gentle part. It's easy to be gentle, and some people are gentle out of fear of conflict. The man part is the hard part.
Guys who are just gentle but don't look capable of being anything else aren't so popular with most women in my experience, and timid guys tend to be very unpopular. Some degree of assertiveness tends to be needed.
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Yep, and if women tell you otherwise, just remember they all tell you they prefer nice guys. But when / if they run out of options, they might give a 'harmless' guy a 'chance'.
Not at all. I like a guy that is friendly and approachable. Bonus points if you can make me laugh. 😊
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What he said. @highlyvolatile 👈
Be capable of being dangerous. You don't have to constantly act hard, though. But yeah, if you like you couldn't do harm to craft paper even when you're pissed, women are gonna see you as a little boy, not a man.
Let's see, Charles Manson was surrounded by young women. Ted Bundy got married in prison. So that may be a valid point. Though Mr. Rogers was also married...
A weak man is not a good man.
A good man is a dangerous man who is self-controlled.
-paraphrased from Jordan PetersonYes. No woman wants a pussy.
Yes. Seems likely.
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