People who say looks don't matter are liars true or false?

[Heilelliotrodger]

In 95 percent of cases the woman will only wanna be friends if you have a good personality but not looks and sometimes they won't wanna be your friend. there was a guy on Reddit who said he went on dates but Never a second date. and then he met someone where he went on 10 dates and he thought finally someone who can finally get past my looks and then he said after date 10 she went quiet. he said he asked her what's wrong and she said I got carried away loving your personality but I realized I wasn't physically attracted to you at all. he said he appreciated her honesty and then he said he felt crushed. so yeah in 95 percent of cases you will not get love without some kind of physical attraction that's facts 💯

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Amazing how most men up here are admitting looks matter while whamen are lying and using shaming language

[Anonymous]

Liars. Especially women. The worst part is that they are lying to themselves. They really believe that looks don't matter to them, or they don't matter that much anyway. Then they pull out the part where he has to be six foot tall or he's not worth their time.

[Heilelliotrodger]

Believe it or not since a lot of men have been being raise by single moms even they are saying looks don't matter

[Opinion Owner]

They can say whatever they want. That doesn't make it so

[Dchrls78104]

False, at least for me; overweight or emaciated women or women who have tattooed or pierced their bodies, have fake body parts or overdo the makeup, or look androgynous (especially because they have too much muscle) are off-putting to me; natural beauty and femininity are attractive.

[lrina]

its not that deep, most of them are just trying to be nice and help insecure girls feel a bit more loved.

[chefsam]

True. Looks definitely matter to a lot of women. I have a friend who dated a guy for a while mostly because he had a six pack and was attractive but his personality was awful and had nothing going for him except drinking with his boys and hockey. Some will say “looks isn’t everything to me” but continue to go after guys that look like models but no personality

[Heilelliotrodger]

Yup. most women are the embodiment of deception 🤣. and it's funny I asked on quora why do attractive women date less attractive men and it's funny because women were of course saying looks aren't everything and they see the beauty in him. even a MAN (which tbh is disgraceful) he called me shallow. anyway the truth is this. if attractive women do date ugly men it is ONLY because of pity and they feel bad. as a matter of fact I was on a YouTube video and this guy said his ex wife told him she never loved him and he asked her why did she marry him in the first place and she said I was just pitting you (which he probably meant pitying because the YouTube video was called She dosent love you she pities you by the 33secrets

[exitseven]

They are liars. If I am not physically attracted to somebody then I will not pursue her. She does not have to be perfect and they get points for demeanor and personality too.

[Now_Here]

True. Looks matter. But depending on the individual, the taste in beauty and the level of its importance also matters.

[UniquelyBasic]

Looks matter but its how much do they matter to someone.

[megabamse]

Mmmm have you seen them ugly men some woman dates? I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

True. But so what! I don't need them to tell me they're lying to know their lying. Check the data!! Data doesn't lie. People do. 😉

[Heilelliotrodger]

Of course. people love to tell us uglies looks don't matter. they lie

[Opinion Owner]

No it really isn't amazing women will tell you looks don't matter because ugly or not the still want you to try. They want the psychological lift that being asked out gives them. Even if they already know they're going to say no. Notice most of the pinks are either anon or have no Pic with their profile? It's because they're probably a 5 at best. They don't get many offers and if they do they're a second choice. So they need as many guys hitting on them as they can get. For their ego's sake.

[msc545]

If you have a sufficient amount of money but aren't good looking the woman will stay with you for the money and just cheat on you.

[OddBeMe]

They’re trying to say it’s not the only thing that matters.

[Heilelliotrodger]

In most cases it is the ONLY thing that matters

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, psychology would say we’re attracted to a lot of things about women. Their body language, confidence, etc is part of it. The rest is usually our childhood experiences haunting us.

[Still-alive]

I don’t know about liars but i do tend to not believe it. Usually they care but how much they care varies. Some care more than others

[Anonymous]

100% false. Stop looking for excuses for your failures with women.

[Heilelliotrodger]

All women can come up with is shaming language. get lost

[Hawner]

Looks don't matter, but people tend to believe otherwise, so it is fucked up.

[Heilelliotrodger]

Yes they do. did you read the part I put with that guys experience?

[Hawner]

No, I didn't, but like with looks, it doesn't matter. Looks doesn't mean quality. Being a good person, responsible, caring... That is what matters in a relationship. Being with a cute blonde doesn't make the relationship better, but being with a kind fun girl does.

[Anonymous]

True, there has to be physical attraction.

[Heilelliotrodger]

You are 10000 percent correct. funny how there's people who disagree with us. they'd rather believe a lie

[Opinion Owner]

No woman is going to go out with someone she doesn't think is good looking and guys have to be attracted to someone too. Why are they disagreeing? What is the reason?

[Heilelliotrodger]

Because they don't wanna admit looks matter. and if they have success with women they wanna believe it's their ''game'' when in reality its their looks and women wanna protect the lie that their not as shallow as men hence the shaming language

[Opinion Owner]

I understand, not all women are the same but a lot of them are very shallow.

[TheFlak38]

of course they are liars.

[legalboxers]

looks dont matter to me

[In_Trance]

true

[Heilelliotrodger]

Ignore the people giving you those disagree marks

[SaoirseS]

False.

[Heilelliotrodger]

What a shame. even with proof I just provided you still choose to believe a lie

[SaoirseS]

Troll. And one with an amazingly low threshold of proof.