It's quite a big question for me. We date a few times and text every day And he will report his whereabouts to me even I never asked him. I don’t know what he’s means💦💦
A lot of people are fine with it as it seems to become more and more of a fashion.
There are certainly more negative points than positive ones for cross-cultural relationships as well interracial relations. If both parties are fine with it, then all is (hopefully) okay. There are, however, a number of serious issues about both types of relations.
As to why your boyfriend/partner or crush thinks he feels the need to report to you would indicate that he is not really confident with this relation and that he thinks that you are watching his whereabouts.
Trusting each other is the base of every relation and the fact that he wants to call you leads me to believe that there is a suspicion that he needs to get cleared. He wants you to trust him.
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But it will make me to misunderstanding 🤦♀️ I will though we are in relationship
You need to talk with your boyfriend because you don't want your relation to start with misunderstandings. If you don't want him to let you know where he is, then you have to inform him. Also, communication is a 2-way street and you need to tell him what you like and dislike. Only like that can there be trust.
This is a questions, actually I even not sure he isn’t my boyfriend you know😵💫😵💫, he never to explain his actions I mentioned to me. When I try to figure out, he always ignores me questions or changes the topic
Then he is not the right person for you. Someone that refuses to talk and clear misunderstandings is a person you should avoid in a relation because he will create more problems than he will ever solve.
Did you two have sex yet? after a few dates now not taking you out… I think you should learn from this…
its not about cross cultural.. it’s basic respect that he isn’t giving you. I have lots of friends from diff. Culture/background… my husband is from a diff. culture… we communicate and respect each other.
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We don't have sex yet.. He did anything thing that makes me so confusing, I don't know why he never says I am his girlfriend but his actions are all like a great boyfriend, report to me what he doing and text me every day
As one familiar with Asia cross-cultural dating, specific cultural group delineation is required. White black Hispanic African Arab etc… Generally speaking that “? USA Guy?”could mean: -Rule me which usually does not work within traditional Asian culture. Some will provide you tracking app to install. Some will offer you physical means to assure that you do not have to worry about his deeds. -“Just take an interest in me…I promise I’m good…check-in any time…I really like you.”
From my experience, over the top and/or to needy does not work within traditional Asian culture. Gentle energy, not afraid to lead, and getting joy from providing fits the traditional Asian paradigm❓ 🤷🏻♂️
What I see is that you need to be frank with him and sort it out you too. Be honest and direct to each other and stop thinking alone. If there’s no honesty and direct communication then there’s no relationship. Any confusion in a relationship should be sorted out between the couple themselves and maybe with the interference of wise person from their family if they couldn’t find a solution. Asking people like this will just confuse you more because everyone will talk from their own experience and which might be wrong at the first place and that doesn’t apply for your situation.
If he’s telling you where he is without you asking, he just wants to keep you updated and probably show that you can trust him that he’s not doing anything bad.
Always, when a man likes a woman, he wants to see her many times It can be two case: 1- you are far better than him I mean you education, financial status, face and appearance and because of that he doesn’t have enough self confidence
2- He’s playing with you and I think he wants to make you love him by these texts and you know when you don’t see him a lot, you’ll become more interested on him and may finally abuse you
I've been married to a Mexican for almost 9 years and I'm from the US. I found out the Mexican people are very traditionally old fashioned. Maybe your guy is the same way? It's nothing to be worried about. That means he has respect for you.
There is an old saying, opposites attract, then they attack (later on). Especially if different religions at somepoint, but politics is getting up there these days too.
Be careful... He might want your where about's all the time to swoop you up in the best place possible. There is NO good reason why a guy would be like that without an alarming situation to follow. That is controlling you through text.
He just wants you to think of him in a honest good way meaning that he is not a creep
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he willing to report his whereabouts but not willing to go date with me😵💫😵💫 isn’t weird? I just confused about our relationship, are we really conform in be boyfriend and girlfriend? When I want to talk this topic, he wants to change or ignore me
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