Do you think it's attractive or unattractive when a someone is mostly always thinking about the well-being of others?

[Rab1901]

I'm curious if people think this is a top tier quality person or if this kind of behavior is extreme and shows weakness or something else.

For example,
2 friends in their early 20s only have known each other for 5 months. Friend A who got a new job and his company actually staffed Friend B with a temporary job. B was injured and spoke to the agency and the management but didn't get help and kept trying to tough it out until he couldn't take it anymore. His job was cut short after complaining with the Director of Ops about how terrible the management is for providing an unsafe workplace. However, A was supposed to report it but he didn't because I guess he didn't know what would be the best course of action since he was new to the job. B could sue A's company but B doesn't want to because he doesn't want his friend to get crap for it and possibly get fired. B doesn't feel like a pushover though, and he is actually upset with the management for obvious reasons and think they should not be able to get away with this.

That's a real life recent example that B is still thinking about by the way. If you have any thoughts on it, please share.

What if they weren't really friends? Would that make a difference to you?

Please feel free to talk about it.

Very Attractive

Attractive

Unattractive

Very Unattractive

[OneNineZero]

Too long of a wall of text didn't read it at all looks too much hard work

Depends on that specific person
Being a Aquarius not trying to project anything specific about aquas coz we are the worst sign of zodiac and pretty much every other sign hate is
But I like people who. Think about others if they would be extremely selfish then I would certainly not like them
Now all the time I am pretty sure no one can think about others all the time coz I know these kind of people also live in the moment so they won't miss out on fun

[StoneFree]

I like kind people but that doesn't imply that I want someone to suffer at my expense.

If you believe that someone is unjust towards you, check if there are others like yourself who are also going through the same issue... if this is so... then perhaps suing the company will benefit many more employees than just one.

As for the friend who you want to protect, even if that person is the best person out there if they are potentially harming others and are not cut out for their job, it's best they find another job where they prove to be more competent.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You can definitely take it too far but yea I think it's hot af when it comes from a genuine place

[daster4442]

i like my girls selfish but kinda nice you get what am sayin 😎😒