What is you're ideal girlfriend/boyriend?

[kiki18]

Descrip there inside and outside

[crossdressingrihno]

A little bit taller than me maybe
Red or brown hair
I wouldn't say super skinny but thin nonetheless
Breasts that almost fit in the hand / just barely fit in the hand
A moderate amount of freckles would be great
A healthy but not fat ass
Maybe medium size thighs not super fat but also not like twiggy cuz twiggy never good
Fair-skinned
Straight teeth but not unnaturally straight teeth because that would be disturbing not like oh hey this is a pair of dentures straight teeth but you know like teeth that are straight enough but also look natural
A pretty average nose would be good
Green eyes would be awesome
Medium sized tips
A happy and confident facial expression
Normal eyebrows and eyelashes
A decent set of shoulders I don't know how to describe them and I don't know about ears either so I guess normal ears will do

I don't know if I should describe genitalia so I'm not going to unless someone asks

For the personality
Someone who would want to bake with me because I like to bake and would definitely love it if the person who I am with also loves to bake
They should like pasta and pizza
They should like meat because I really love meat and it should be a part of my diet at all times because otherwise I get grumpy and I start to feel sick
They should be logical but also have emotions
They should be smart because I am mentally incapable of dealing with non-intelligent people for long periods of time so that would be a train wreck of a relationship
Someone who's social and likes to hang out with their partner not clingy but just very social
Definitely someone who who likes cuddling and is likes touching because I am the same way
A gamer would be awesome not gonna lie
Also someone who's supportive of my projects because I do stuff I do a lot of stuff I make stuff I break stuff and then I fix the stuff I break and then I break it again just so that way I can fix it and I'm good at it
Every once in awhile I might go from making stuff to inventing stuff which also happens and I'm good at that too unfortunately I'm broke in low on resources so I don't do that very often but back when I had money fixing things was my hobby and it was my passion aside from romance of course romance was also a passion of mine I had two passions fixing stuff and love and I loved fixing stuff

Oh yeah that reminds me she also need to be a little bit weird in the cute kind of weird not the oh my God this person is creepy weird but the cute weird it's hard to explain but I'm sure the guys know what I'm talking about

[crossdressingrihno]

Also I know my post makes me sound picky but I just like to know that I'm not carrying around a checklist looking for things that a woman has to have for me to be willing to date them that is not how I work I date someone because I talk to them and I found them interesting and then I continue to date them based off of are they attractive and are they fun to talk to

And they only become a girlfriend when I decide they're really good to talk to and I actually develop feelings for them and they're attractive

[kiki18]

you're not picky you just know what you want, i Do aswell. Its a good thing:)

[crossdressingrihno]

Exactly

And sometimes we fall in love with someone who isn't what we think the perfect lover should be but we love them to bits anyways

[kiki18]

precisely

[crossdressingrihno]

What about you though
What's your ideal guy?

[kiki18]

[ ] Dominant
[ ] Overprotective
[ ] possessive
[ ] intimidating
[ ] territorial
[ ] determined
[ ] Comanding
[ ] Firm
[ ] Playfull
[ ] Teasing
[ ] Brave
[ ] Intens
[ ] serious
[ ] Gentle
[ ] Smart
[ ] Loyal
[ ] Rough
[ ] Correcting
[ ] Forceful
[ ] Stern
[ ] BDSM
[ ] Strict
[ ] Carring
[ ] Alpha male vibe
[ ] consequential
[ ] Controlling
[ ] obsessive
[ ] Brattamer
[ ] Threatening in a good way
[ ] Primal
[ ] observant
[ ] Jealous
[ ] Bossy
[ ] Private
[ ] aggressive
[ ] Demanding
[ ] mysterious
[ ] can think logical
[ ] Respectvol
[ ] Only nice to me
[ ] Enjoy The Hunt
[ ] Puts Me In Place
[ ] Makes Me His
[ ] Powerful
[ ] Strong
[ ] Tall/er (then me)
[ ] Cocky at times
[ ] Handsome
[ ] Ownership
[ ] guarding
[ ] ruthless
[ ] defending
[ ] Tattooed
[ ] Claiming
[ ] good dressed
And for looks i like men with a toned skin and that he is really tall and dark here maybe a bit curly and all eye colar is okay and i love it when men can speak something like Spanish, Italian or Papiamento

[kiki18]

Like i said i know what i want;)

[crossdressingrihno]

So what you want is the tough black man?

[kiki18]

no not necessarily, I like any kind of toner but its not like they have to im atracted to some white men. And i like a manly dominant (everybody has there own type)

[crossdressingrihno]

Ahh ok

[n4meAL]

honestly you all make my eyes hurt… 😴😴😴

[talka20]

Hmmmm idealllll... inside id say speakin her heart out n not being quite when something is wrong w her... if she assume stuff thats okay but accepts when the truth is told so she won't make stories in head... n lovin gcaring loyal thats obvious... funny either in a way that can take jokes or can joke or both... doesn't share our secrets outside anywhere

Outside... height till my eyes or nose or chin... dark tone... average boobs n butt... skinny to a bit curvy cuz im thin guy so it should be somewhere around me... shaves armpits n vagina once a month at least... long hair

[talka20]

Ty for mho Kiki

[Cherry234]

For physical traits:
5'7-6'3 in height
Good looking/handsome (or at least someone I consider handsome)
Muscular

For personality traits:
Is vaccinated since I am also vaccinated
Pro-choice
Has empathy
Is introverted like I am
Is into Star Trek
Is willing to travel
Will not make me choose between him and opposite gender friends

[jennifer_bloom]

My ideal guy is open minded and accepting and happy and inclusive and wants to share his time and life with me. I’ve rejected attractive guys when I thought they were too controlling cause if I have worked the day, I want a guy who will greet me with a warm blanket and not with more jobs to do around the house.

[kiki18]

You had guys that maked you do chores after work?

[jennifer_bloom]

No, but I have seen woman yell at their husbands after a day of work

[kiki18]

Shiii

[Phoenix-gb]

We have mutual attraction and matching libido, like similar foods (varied enough that I can introduce things I like to her and vice versa), wants to have a family. Honest, caring, supportive and wanting to do all the cute relationship stuff you see others do, happy going out exploring new places as much as joining in with a gaming night. If she could be dominant too, that would be great.

That being said, only the mutual attraction, wanting a family (but not already having one) and not having a veggie or vegan only diet are the main deal breakers.

[libsaretards]

She would be a true believer in Christ to the point where I could never bring myself to doubt Jesus in her presence because her very presence would be proof enough. She would be so far in the faith that anyone could tell instantly.

She would take her health serious. Bonus points if she is equally/more in shape than me and even more bonus points if we could workout together.

She would be bold. She would have no problem telling me how she feels.

Her integrity and honesty would be unquestionable.

She would be my peace and my strength and I would be hers. In her presence I would not have to keep a wall around my emotions. Not that they would stand anyways because she would be able to break through those walls if needed. Same for her.

She would be my best friend.

[libsaretards]

Forgot to add she would be my hero and make me strive to always be better.

[DWornock]

Provide she f**ks, this is my ideal girlfriend.

Looks and intelligence are highly correlated so she is going the be intelligent enough and nothing else matters.

[kiki18]

She is pretty

[Endlesslove7]

She must be a warm person. I love traveling and having fun. So an energetic girl is more suitable for me. She must be smart. Must be able to understand me and have advanced communication skills. Instead of fighting, they should be able to find solutions to problems. She must love and take care of me. She should look beautiful and have a tattoo on her collarbone

[kiki18]

😂😂😂

[exitseven]

She is 5'5" and average weight. She is athletic looking with heavy thighs. She has long brown hair and a pretty face. She dresses like a tomboy and loves all the local sports teams. She is intelligent and works in healthcare. She loves to help people. She is really sweet and would not be mean to somebody just because she could.

[HighlyVolatile]

Mentally and physically healthy if I try to summarize, especially mentally: doesn't get negative very often, and thinks very positively and productively and realistically.

[HighlyVolatile]

If I try to describe my wife (who is as close to ideal as I've ever found) in a way people can relate with, you know that girl in high school who is so popular with everyone without trying?

Like everyone just likes her even though she doesn't belong to a clique, isn't at all superficial or judgmental, but just so good-natured that almost everyone likes her. She's also funny, outgoing, and seems to be able to get along with almost everyone. She sees the good in almost everyone.

I married that type of woman.

[kiki18]

I love how you talk about your wife its beautiful and i hope you and her wil life long and be happy together:)

[HighlyVolatile]

Cheers!

[FinalFantasyBro]

Outside:
I don't mind which race is as long she is hot.
Either big boobs or a big ass!
I really love long straight hair but I can definitely date girls with short hair just nothing that resembles a man haircut.
A good kisser

Inside:
Independent
Sexy
Smart
Good Listener
Nice
And added bonus a video gamer so we can play together.

[Zeldaismyqueen]

Smart/educated and fun to be around. At least moderately in shape so we can do fun things together. Dresses nice. Has to accept the way I dress, which is a bit unusual.

[UniquelyBasic]

Kind, caring, funny, cool to talk to and attractive enough. As long as she isn't obese or extremely skinny to the point where its hurting her health then anything between Im good with.

[OneNineZero]

2 things
There is nothing called ideal everyone has flaws
And I dont have any ideal girls coz all women are banned in my life I dont care if that's a angel of heaven in human form

[kiki18]

I know everybody has flaws but you can have a ideal partner in your head i thought that wouldn't be hard to understand

[OneNineZero]

No it's not it's the expectations part that Is hard to understand
You know you can't find ideal coz there ain't one still you have a ideal one in your head
It's like having a useless thing

[kiki18]

So you dont have any Imagination?

[OneNineZero]

You have mistaken imagination for expectation they are different

[kiki18]

I know there diffrent, i just asked if you COULD choose what would you want bc I wanted to know. Its not that deep pls go and bother someone else with you're boring stupidity.

[Sonorous]

mofos be complicating everything 🤣

[Hedvika]

*NFJ personality, non-smoker, puts down toilet seat so that I don't fall in.
(Somehow the guys that I clicked most with and went on a date were all *NFJ. All different nationalities, heights, backgrounds, but it clicked)

[TheUniqueOne96]

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl

[Nahid1707]

Someone who is kind, wants a family and she would be honest with me.
i of course have a few qualities i look for, i don’t want to sound too difficult.
i Like natural in a Lady.

[Anzhus]

Basically someone compatible with me. Like a key and lock.

[Adogdog]

Honest, caring, and sweet on the inside and cute with pretty hair and eyes on the outside.

[JohnK123]

Nice, cute, funny, somewhat well known, and actually gives a f about me

[Rohaan2020]

Self dependent, supports you, help build up your career, motivates you, and ya great at sex😜

[n4meAL]

the brain changes every day

[n4meAL]

Frankly every day I'm getting confused how to choose the right partner, honestly all women are almost the same, have you ever felt like she is the ideal type but it turns out she has flaws? (I mean the lack here is very influential) to be honest, I often get it

[n4meAL]

Even unique women who only live in caves are finally the same as women, maybe I'm someone who gets bored easily

[kiki18]

Omg i get it i have the exact same thing with men i get very quikly bored of them bc i think a lot of them are the same

[n4meAL]

That's why, I now understand that if you want a long term relationship then start at the age of 35 and above,

so don't be easy to promise or dream if you are a teenager when you are in a relationship, someone says "I will stay with you until death, I can't live without you" ,

then a few months later that person left their partner because they were bored lol🤣

[n4meAL]

finally i know my ideal woman... , i will marry a daughter of a tribal chief who lives in the forest and teach them modern life maybe teach them to play PES 2020 or gta 5 hmm.. yes that's my dream 🔥🔥🔥

[GagsUgliestMember]

outside - attractive and hot

inside - dont care

[kiki18]

Well

[kiki18]

So if she's pretty but is a Total bitch to you, you're family and friends you dont care?

[GagsUgliestMember]

lmao im soulless

[GagsUgliestMember]

basically, i dont even want a girlfriend, i jus want a fuckbuddy lol

[kiki18]

Ahhh thats something else, then i get it

[GagsUgliestMember]

yeah lol, i dunno why i dont crave for a relationship or love, think i was jus born that way lol

[kiki18]

I know what you mean trust me, but i dont know "why" i wish i did tho.

[Anonymous]

No such thing. And I think it'd be foolish to put those kinds of expectations on people. People are mixed bags. You have to take the good with the bad and KNOW what your your deal breakers are.