What are we and is he serious about me?

Anonymous
I’ve been dating this guy for about five months, he’s introduced me to friends and they already put the dating label on us. He’s meeting my family soon but here’s the thing, I haven’t met his. Recently he had an important ceremony at his university and his family came into town but he didn’t invite me to go and meet them. He did invite me to the club with his friends later on, but he didn’t even invite me to the party bus they had before then. Which I guess that one i understand since since it was only for the folks in his program. Going back to not meeting his family, his reasoning was because I had a friend from out of town I was hanging out with, and he didn’t want me to feel I couldn’t spend time with her and if I did meet his family he just wanted me there. I’m also realizing he hasn’t formally asked me to be his girlfriend. No posts about me either, besides one time on his story on Instagram. What do y’all think? I do really like this guy, he’s someone i considered out of my league but I’m not going to be tolerating a not so committed man either if that is the case
What are we and is he serious about me?
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