Nothing makes my heart happier than quality time and physical touch with my significant other! I can't hesitate enough about the importance of quality time within a relationship, as I feel its the most important of the 5 love languages!
When I have the opportunity to be with my girlfriend, I feel this warmth of connecting and bonding together when it happens! It feels so good doing activities with her from cooking meals together, to playing a co-op video game together, to doing backyard work together, to even cuddling in bed at night, reading a book together! For even more intimacy and romance, that's where physical touch comes in to show your attraction and affection with your significant other! If my girlfriend and I want a gentle touch, that's where cudding and hugging comes in. If we want more intimacy, we often kiss each other whether on the lips or cheeks! Finally, if we want to go hardcore, sex is perfect for the occasion!
While I do appreciate all 5 of the love languages in their own way, I just find nothing to build a connection stronger than quality time and physical touching in my opinion! Ahh, there's nothing like showing your love to your significant other ā¤
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I always get the physical touch. The tests I've taken don't rank them and just conclude that mine is physical touch, but I suspect a close second is quality time. Words of affirmation, acts of service, and gifts do little for me.
It's not separate always... it is just normal and not hard at all for humans to affirm words when they are spending quality time with you... Even that quality time can be an act of service like a massage which is also physical touch haha... but there are combinations sometimes...
My love languageS are All, first being quality time, last being gift giving (I really don't care much... but I can see how I will appreciate gifts but most likely not be comfortable accepting expensive or "unnecessary" "gifts" .. I am a practical personin this sense. I might be bought a gift I never have use for :( .. we aren't considering buying me a drink gift giving, are we? Everything is like a gift but that isn't the type of gift they are talking about.
i think quality time is probably the most important thing in a relationship. i think that time is one of the most valuable things out there, so just spending a lot time with people you love is really showing a lot of care.
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I got 5/25 in all 5 categories.
well they say everyone has them all, its more about what is your no 1 or 2, or level of importance
for me its
1 quality time
2 physical touch
3 words of affirmation
4 acts of service
5 gift givingMine is most likely physical touch and quality time.
I have Virgo in my Venus sign, and I love to give gifts and do things for people to show them that I love them.
Words of affirmation and Acts of service. I like hearing how much I am loved and I like seeing positive actions that back up the words. My guy's love language from my experience is Quality time, Gift giving and respect.
I dont like receiving gifts that much, I just feel weird. Dont know why. Id probably say the rest are good though.
A bit of all. I would say Acts of Service is the least and Quality Time and Physical Touch tie for the most. If I had adequate financial stability, Gift Giving would eclipse Words of Affirmation, now they're mostly even.
Quality time, acts of service, and physical touch. No bullshit or bribes...
All of them but my primary one would be quality time together.
Quality Time and Physical Touch more than the others.
Act of service; i don't like it when my partner just saying what he can do he needs to show me instead of just saying
Quality Time, acts of service and gift giving would be mine in a relationship
All of those from the picture, but mostly physical touch and words of affirmation.
Words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service and physical touch, I guess.
My primary love language is quality. Thought I appreciate all others.
I "speak" all five languages, "Acts of Service" most often.
Gifts. I'm terrible at expressing my love, I don't know how to do that, so I get gifts.
And it doesn't work, of course, I'm not rich enough to be a good gift giver.i like to show my love by giving a simple card to let her know how i love her and what i think of her too. to tell her in a way i would not be able to tell her.
Physical touch and quality time. Too bad I don't get much of either
I utter my love, hug, kiss, touch and also do how much I can for him
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