What's your love language?

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" There are  five  love languages:  Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.  Each one is important and expresses love in its own way. Learning your partner's and your own primary love language will help create a stronger bond in your relationship." My primary one is physical touch but I'd say words of affirmation is a close second! 😊

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Physical touch mainly , I can only give my heart to a girl that prioritizes me the same way she wants me to prioritize her , if she hesitates to be in my arms or she hesitates to want to be intimate and affectionate with me , when there was never an issue before , she is not the girl for me period. , I want a girl that wants me the same way I want her , if she starts with holding intimacy and affection from me like it’s a bargaining agreement and she doesn’t have a valid reason as to why she no longer wants to be in my arms , I will express my feelings of concern to her and make it clear to her if nothing changes , I am more than likely going to move on and leave her ass and I will probably be open to another girl that wants to be in my arms , When a partner doesn’t wear your shoes like they expect you to wear theirs , that relationship isn’t going to last period, You are best to walk away and not waste anymore of your time , just because you think you love someone , it doesn’t mean you have to be with them and tolerate their selfish behavior and bullshit, because if they truly loved you in the first place , they wouldn’t be making excuses and making you beg to be close to them , do not tolerate this nonsense in any relationship , A relationship needs to go both ways for it to last and for love to continue to grow with each other , it can not be one sided. When a relationship becomes one sided you are best to walk away and realize you deserve better than that shit. I will not stay with a girl that starts to make me beg for intimacy and affection , and I wouldn’t expect her to stay with me if I did the same to her so again it needs to go both ways or it’s not going to work period. It’s ok to not be in the mood for sex but it’s not ok to consistently deny your partner period. There are plenty of ways you can still please your partner if you are not in the mood for sex , you should never completely ignore your partner when you aren’t in the mood period , Completely ignoring your partner makes you a selfish person that only thinks about yourself , Sadly most girls’ have a selfish mindset when it comes to intimacy and affection , thinking it’s her way or no way and sadly that’s where most Girls are wrong , and then she wonders why she was cheated on or dumped for someone else , Most guy’s will not cheat on a girl that wears his shoes the same way she expects him to wear hers. Intimacy and affection is very important to most men, when a girl constantly denies her partner intimacy and affection she is digging her own grave , A guy more than likely won’t stay committed to a girl that makes him beg period unless he is a Simp When a girl puts her man in the doghouse , his ass is more than likely going to end up in the Cat House lol mark my words If you don’t want your partner cheating on you , you are best to prioritize him over everyone else period and wear his shoes the same way you want him to wear yours it won’t always be perfect , but when you choose your partner the same way you want them to choose you , your relationship will more than likely last and love will continue grow , it needs to go both ways or it’s just a waste of time understand you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong , Sadly a lot of girls’ have this mindset that she is always right and that’s where she goes wrong. Most guy’s want a girl that looks up to him , that is submissive to him , that stays loyal and faithful to him , that removes selfishness and resist’s temptations for him , When a girl does that for her man , he ks going to keep her by his side and protect her and love her , when she belittles him and criticizes him and compares him to other men , he isn’t going to feel loved and wanted , he is going to feel he is with a bitch and he is more than likely going to kick her to the curb where she belongs

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

For me it’s…

1. Quality Time
2. Words of Affirmation
3. Physical Touch

For my fiancée it’s…

1. Quality Time
2. Physical Touch
3. Words of Affirmation

We’re fortunate enough to have closely-matching love-languages.

And we’ve found repeatedly that tension and conflict arises within our relationship if one of these 3 have been neglected for too long or has been insufficient.

The love languages concept is really helpful!

DevikaButts95 · Accepted Answer

Physical Touch/Acts of Service/Quality Time.

Easiest way to my heart: give up as much of your time possible to letting me sit on your face. Lmao. I just love attention though where they're mine and dedicating themselves to me so like foot massages/kissing my feet make me so happy.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Quality Time - 30 %  Physical Touch - 27 %  Acts of Service - 17%  Words of Affirmation and Gifts - 13-13% I guess my main love languages are - Quality time and Physical Touch

Sonorous · Answer

My love language when it comes to any platonic interaction (where I like the people I'm interacting with):

Quality Time - 37%
Receiving Gifts - 27%
Acts of Service - 20%
Words of Affirmation - 17%
Physical Touch - 0%

My love language when it comes to any romantic interaction is:

Physical Touch - 37%
Quality Time - 27%
Receiving Gifts - 17%
Words of Affirmation - 13%
Acts of Service - 7%

ohsheeT · Answer

All 5 and more. When you become one with self. And with someone  . its a different world.. you can't have 1 with out the others. They all work together with each other

Avicenna · Answer

Physical touch and quality time

SquishyBuns2628 · Answer

I truly adore physical touch. I don't get to see my boyfriend alone since we both get tired after our jobs which is on different start times but we have the sane days off more or less. So I want nothing more then to let him know I miss you by holding his hand whole we watch movies at his place. Letting him cuddle me whenever he wants and so on.

His love language is giving gifts and I'm not comfy with it due to how I was raised and trying hard to undo that little by little mentally (aka iykyk that as bipoc children we ain't get shit unless them grades came through.) So now I'm learning that as a adult now; it's ok to receive gifts occasionally without producing results 🙃

Madilyn · Answer

Actions over words for me. If I'm willing to do things for you (cook meals I don't care for) or get things for you, or even spend time with you, you're important to me. I guard my time pretty jealously

SO's is touch. Even if we are sitting next to each other he always has his hand on my leg or an arm around me. Sometimes it's just a finger touching me to make sure I'm there. Buys me gifts randomly. Also lots of quality time.

Our relationship is pretty good. It took me awhile to get used to the touching thing though tbh.

HippoDino · Answer

Quality time is definitely it, I need someone who i just enjoy being around no matter what we are doing. If i couldnt enjoy a 4 hour car ride with them, they ain't worth it.

Matadorius · Answer

My favs are physical touch and quality time. Also, things like her making soup when I'm sick or preparing the dinner when I get home from work are small but important things that strengthen the bond of love between us.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

That's all? How about taking a bullet for your significant other? There is no greater love than this - that a person lays down his life for his friends. John 15:13

menina · Answer

It's funny. I recently talked about this with a friend and he sent me the test. I found out that mine is mostly "Words of Affirmation" and then "Acts of Service".

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not sure. I primarily care about loyalty being shown, so would that fall under acts of service? Not sure.

DermalPunch · Answer

Word of Affirmation but in my experience they are all lies anyway so Acts of Service then Quality Time. Gifts are nice but people use those to beguile you.

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Quality time and a close 2nd is physical Touch. My boyfriend is Physical touch and then quality time

DannyUk2017 · Answer

My love language is BODY LANGUAGE, that would give "away" any "signs" there are out there to see if there is any Chemistry or Not between the two. 🤔

Robzei · Answer

I would say physical touch. I love giving random attention to various parts of my partners body, like kissing her hips or feet

WillowofFeathers · Answer

First one is quality time and second is physical touch.

molonski2 · Answer

Physical touch is certainly the most important form of affirmation.

clampfan101 · Answer

Those tests take forever, so I’ll guess physical touch and quality time. Acts of service and gifts aren’t important to me. (Although I’d like to do both for her when I can.)

tzdc21 · Answer

I would say acts of service and quality time are neck and neck for me

Apple1996 · Answer

Physical touch

Jpisme · Answer

I took a couple tests. 1. Was physical touch & 2. Was quality time

bowenw · Answer

This is tough, but I would put them in this order: time, words, acts, touch, gifts.

sheikalana · Answer

Acts of service, quality time and physical touch.

Robertjo16 · Answer

Touch by far. A slight brush or a pat just to let me know that they are there is all i need

Unit1 · Answer

Cuddles with girls 😍

AydenHazor · Answer

Physical touch is primary with quality time being a close second. Gift giving doesn't register at all for me

StarWarGirl · Answer

All 4 except receiving gifts. More than gifts i value more about action of love or quality time and useful deep conversation

Anonymous · Answer

Quality time (first one) and then acts of service. Before falling in love, i thought it was physical touch and quality time.

Anonymous · Answer

Physical touch Quality Time. Screw the rest 🖕

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Usually gift giving or quality time, those are my top two

AmeerX · Answer

Acts of service, quality time, exchanging gifts. Not good on words or physical touch

Still-alive · Answer

Touch and Quality time. Words of affirmation would be right after those. :)

PeachesNCream98 · Answer

I am just looking for a women who I can spend time, talk, and eventually get physical.

Anonymous · Answer

Physical touch and words for me as well in that order. And quality time.  I have issues with loneliness and I do like physical contact but I'm not comfortable for the majority of it.

Shamalien · Answer

All of em but primarily physical touch and quality time

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I think I have two: Physical touch andActs of Service

Anonymous · Answer

None of those are appealing. I've been single since 2013 and never looked back. Only thing is it’s hard to make friends.

krin_m · Answer

Physical touch, kind and loving words, providing comfort, and expressing lust honestly!

azgınteke · Answer

I'm addicted to touch, I have to touch, I have to smell, I have to breathe in your breath

front2back · Answer

Calling her "Mommy" even though she's younger than me.  (I'm a good boy.)

OddBeMe · Answer

Jesus you chicks and labels. What crystal fits my star sign?

Guccipiggn · Answer

Sucking his cock. I only feel loved if he lets me feel throat his penis all the way down my throat and fucks my throat.

purplepoppy · Answer

Doesn't a BJ cover 4 of those?

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Is manipulation a love language?

Being_a_good_Indian · Answer

Words of Affirmation.

Xiu92 · Answer

Definitely physical touch for me

strateguy632 · Answer

Physical Touch, only one from these

rosemilk · Answer

always words of affirmation, to a fault.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Physical touch.

Yannae · Answer

Physical touch and quality time.

Grond21 · Answer

Quality time and physical touch

Massageman · Answer

Acts of service.

Nifrayu · Answer

Physical touch for me.

Morgador · Answer

Definitely physical

PrinceWalnut · Answer

Acts of Service. I'm so fucking tired lmao

Jennz6 · Answer

I love 💕 to touch 💃

Starrrboy · Answer

Literally all five mixed together ! lol..

boobliker · Answer

QT is what it takes here.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Mine are quality time and physical touch

AVirgoMan · Answer

Quality Time, and Physical Touch.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

*Hugs* And act of service

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