Do you show your partner love using your love language or your partner’s love language?

[caring__1]

[Sovereignty]

I try and sometimes I succeed, but mostly I fail. haha.

In any case... I can't bring my A game every round otherwise I'll soon find myself needing an S tier. And then what? Then you're fkd.

Sometimes take. Sometimes give. Sometimes share.

But so long as she cums we're goochie.

[Arabianhorse]

From my experience the woman specially like to be treated in her love language , if i try in my love language its not somthing she appreciate as much as when its in her love language

[MemeSupreme]

im quality time but my exes in the past were like physical and words of validation which i suck lmao so i made it up with gifts and showing i cared by my actions

[caring__1]

Always check to see if what you choose to do is what your partner values. Otherwise, it's giving him lemons and grapefruit when he wants bananas and peaches.

[electromagnetic]

I don’t share the same love language as my partner. He’s very straight to the point but with key romantic moments.
mine is satire humour with physical touch

[AviatorTom]

My partner's. That's much more important.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

HIS BECAME MINE. I am awkward when it comes to physical touch but nowI crave his touch.

[caring__1]

It's amazing how much we learn from others, when they share it in a considerate, respectful manner, and we aren't closed-minded. We all have the ability... or the ability to acquire the ability. You can learn to appreciate giving what you crave receiving.

A simple way to learn to enjoy touching others is to view them as a musical instrument. Ask them to lie down and enjoy... without reciprocating or taking over. Discover how their body reacts differently to different types of touches. You'll get a different response from different pressures or tempos, using your fingers, your lips, your tongue, your hair, your breath (all varieties), a piece of satin, fur, etc. Once you discover all the special nooks and crannies, create a symphony by combining the different notes. It will be a lot of fun for both of you.

[StarWarGirl]

Mostly by my own love language because this is the best way I know to express but sometimes with his love languages also.

[caring__1]

Let's say you show love by giving your partner a spotless house. You're running around 24/7 cleaning the house. As he sits on the couch, he asks you to take a break and join him. You respond with, "No, I need to give you a spotless house." Is the house cleaning for you or for him? Just make sure what you offer is what your partner values.

[StarWarGirl]

When I'm showing love to him through my own way doesn't mean I'm dumb. I'm doing whatever I feel to do because I love to do for him I'm not expecting to get anything in return but actually it makes me feel happy to do. And when he is asking for me to sit with him i do clearly listen what he wants from me I'm not deaf or blind to see what's his happiness and where does it exists. If I'm doing something my own without his demands I'm doing it in my own way but if i clearly know what he wants or what makes him happy ofcourse I'll go according to that only. Because at the end his happiness matters and I love him. I want to see him happy.

[caring__1]

What you say makes sense. There is nothing wrong with doing what you enjoy, as long as you consider the impact it is having on him, and it sounds like that is what you do.

[StarWarGirl]

Yes I do. And always I say him to be vocal about what he likes or what he wants or else I also keep asking him time to time could I do anything better way. And we both understands each other love each other. And this is how even when we are different our way are different still we keep enjoying each other's way.

[marrk]

I show it in theirs and by giving gifts which is neither of ours ironically.

[caring__1]

If gifts are neither of you love languages, ask your partner how it feels to receive gifts and what impact it has on them

[marrk]

I have :) he says he likes them because they’re useful/thoughtful and from me

[sheikalana]

Me and my partner share the same love language but apart from that I like to show acts of service and gifting.

[caring__1]

Just understand some people are very uncomfortable with receiving that which they don't give, as it just reinforces their insecurities and feelings they don't measure up. Make sure your partner truly does appreciate what you give rather than just say what he/she believes you want to hear.

[petitedollbabee]

We both have the same love language, just in different forms, so.. both.

[caring__1]

Just make sure your different forms are compatible with each other.

[Peanutbutter1221]

Both

My love languages are all so he is covered completely

[KrakenAttackin]

She doesn't care about your love language, only hers.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes. My partner's

[SonyaLB]

Theirs and we have communicated mine.

[caring__1]

That's excellent that you don't expect your partner to read your mind and know what you value. Hopefully, your partner reciprocates in kind.

[SonyaLB]

The best thing to do is sit down and explain your love language to your partner, and vice versa. The clear communication can put you two on the same page. :)

[WhitneySnow]

Probably mine but he’s cool with it

[clampfan101]

I’d try to find a good mixture to adapt to.

[Babyboricua]

Hell no he don't show me n no attention

[caring__1]

Don't complain about him when it's your choice to stay or go.

[LavLavLuv]

Both