What’s your love language or what’s a love language you look out for in a partner?

[Emorgan]

Mine has changed a lot over the years but recently it’s been act of service

Words of affirmation

Physical touch

Acts of service

Quality time

Receiving/ giving gifts

[Lliam]

My love language is physical touch, both giving and receiving. I like holding hands, kissing, hugging, caressing, and sex.
I also like quality time - doing fun things together. And words of affirmation, in terms of conversation, as well as both of acknowledging things that we do for each other and things we are good at.

My wife's is acts of service. She's a busy lady and does lots of thoughtful things for me and our two cats. She wants everybody to be happy, comfortable and cared for. She's even active in the community.

[Maxiebleu]

Honestly all of them in their each way. I’m in empath so I enjoy all of them either to give to others or be given to me.
Words of affirmation- I want compliments about me or anything I do they like (like if I’m doing at good job at something etc)


Physical touch-In relationships: I want to cuddle, hold hands, kissed, hugged, being intimate often


Quality time- I always want to spend time with you, not necessarily clingy but I enjoy hanging out with them, being in their presence, texting, face time etc


Acts of Service- I love doing things for people if they need help with something and I love it when people do it to me without having to ask.


Gift Giving: I’m 100% a gift giver, I love getting people gifts to show my love and appreciation to them or buying / making gifts for those who are sick, stressed, or struggling. Also I love receiving gifts (who doesn’t? 🤪) even if it’s small I still cherish it.

[LittleMelissa9614]

Mine is physical touch, quality time, and gift giving. I do act of service too sometimes. All to show how much I love someone❤️ I don't mind words of affirmation, but when it comes to that I'm just afraid of screwing up what I would want to say. So the first 3 I put are my love language.

[Emorgan]

I completely get that it’s easier to show how you feel instead of say.. that by saying u try not to screw up but end up screwing up

[lightbulb27]

https://tenor.com/view/leopard-big-cats-cats-hug-pet-gif-15446579

that.

[RebelinSteel]

It’s a mix of all of those at different times, it is knowing what the other needs without using words. The ability to communicate with their eyes, body language, and to understand yours. I guess love language is a silent language where words are not required. I agree with the acts of service, as that shows you understand what the other person needs without them needing to vocalise it, having that bath ready and bubbles on the go, washing the dishes without being asked lol

[menina]

According to a test mine is acts of service, which I agree with. But I'm also into words of affirmation. That's what I look for in a partner.

Physical touch is the least important to me.

[wolfcat87]

Same, acts of service then words of affirmation and quality time. Gifts are lowest for me. Unless they meant food, haha

[menina]

@wolfcat87 Same here. Food is the perfect gift for me hahaha

[SeymourBill420]

I chose quality time because a lot of those other choices that you mentioned are part of quality time. So, if you're spending quality time with somebody, you can definitely do all the other things in the list.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Mine is split between gifts and physical touch. Which basically means, show don't tell. A compliment is great but I feel truly loved cuddling my partner or wearing an old shirt he gave me. That kind of stuff lingers and lasts more than anything else

[LadyKitty]

With me and my other half, I prefer to recieve Acts of Service/Words of Affirmation and He is Quality Time and Touch for sure!

[Joshydavid25]

Probably all of them except maybe words of affirmation.. When you are in a relationship you learn a lot about yourself.. I learned that I like to do all of those in some way.. I can do words of affirmation, but I'm not the greatest at it.

[SolitarySolace]

Mine used to be gift giving but after my constant experience with doing so and never getting anything in return except being cheated on 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Maxiebleu]

I feel this

[Andres77]

What is your goal in life?

if you don’t know this for yourself and you don’t know this from anybody that you date at the end of your first date…Then you have failed this test.

[aceleon]

mine, physical touch.

looking for

act of service/physical touch.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm into quality time, which should involve physical closeness :D

[sawno]

Physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation.

[badkarma22]

My love language is quality time mostly, and I like acts of services. I do a lot of act of services to show my affection to people i care about because im not good with words.

[Anonymous]

I am a man and I don't have any emotional intelligence, mines is physical touch.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/bTyivlR2zMM

[KrakenAttackin]

Beware of women who focus on "acts of service" and "gifts" as they will bankrupt you and work you to death.

[Maxiebleu]

Hey not all women are like that

[SongBird03]

I love giving gifts but I hate receiving gifts. I feel this sense of looming anxiety if someone gives me something but I almost get this insane high when I give someone something and their face lights up!

[Massageman]

Another Gary Chapman fan?

Mine: acts of service

Wife: Words of affirmation

[BarryLiverstone]

Mine is physical touch.

[BarryLiverstone]

What I look for in a partner? Someone who knows there’s and can communicate. No one is a mind reader right?

[Emorgan]

I know what you mean feels like no one knows how to communicate sometimes lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Like I get it. People don’t wanna be boring or blunt, at times they can be joking around. But it’s funny how some don’t know their own love language. Have you taken the online quizzes?

[petitedollbabee]

Physical touch is the main one.

[Staximus]

It better be all of those

[Katebfun]

My Love language is: HONESTY 😅😂