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Recently my partner and I found out five love languages which are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of services, gifts and physical touch. I realized that I love having quality time with my partner and vice versa. Do you think having the same love language keeps the relationship much healthier or in a relationship we need different love languages ?
Love languages help you better understand yourself and your partner. They don't limit anything. If we're comfortable giving our partner what our partner appreciates, and our partner is comfortable giving us what we appreciate, how would that be a problem? Problems exist when people selfishly insist only their way will be part of the relationship. That would be a problem no matter what aspect of a relationship you're talking about.
Let's say you like getting gifts, while receiving gifts has no meaning to him. That doesn't prevent him from giving you gifts and enjoying the happiness it brings you. Let's say you like giving gifts, yet he doesn't like receiving them. That doesn't prevent you from giving gifts to others and then giving your partner what your partner appreciates (let's say quality time). Relationships generally fail when people are too wrapped up in themselves to see and understand and value what would be meaningful to their partner.
It's helpful, but it's still possible to adjust to give your partner what they need and for them to do the same for you. If you have a match, that just makes it easier. But it's helpful to know what each other's love languages are so that you can adapt appropriately.
I gonna be short with my answer..
Yes. It's completely important to have similar live languages. Why? Because maybe someone need more love words to feel loved and he/she with someone who is not expressive. What will happen? The person will think they are not important to the other one. Couple's problems will appear. They have to find a similar language in other case the relationship will not work
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If he says "next time we see us will be the last one.. Why he wait a lot?
All that matters is if you are willing to fulfill your partner's love language. I took one of those tests, and it both tested me on my love language and the one that I prefer to give my partner. Implicitly, people don't necessarily give their partner the same love language as the one they prefer. I actually had to really patiently complete that part of the test, because I could really go either way in terms of showing love to my boyfriend
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For sure…keeps that emotional bond and sex ends up in stratosphere somewhere. Long-term find 🎉
I don't think it is vital but it can make things easier. The key to the love languages is not so that you can find your twin, it's so that you can find out your partner's and speak theirs and they can speak yours. Knowing your own helps you teach them about you and vice versa.
It helps communication and connection. So, yes, it can be easier to have the same but it isn't vital. My wife an I have different love languages but we've learned to speak each other's.
Similar is okay. I have words of affirmation and quality time. My partner is heavy on the physical touch aspect which is something I’ve never liked. But allow him to be as physical as he needs with me; and I don’t mind his touch it’s more random strangers and sometimes close family members. He also likes gift giving and I had to set boundaries with that
So you mean you have the same giving and receiving love language? Or just what you like to receive? Because I'd the latter, then you may give your love differently though.
I wouldn't overly focus on providing one love language just cause it's what they prefer the most. Better to give some of each. Although I don't agree gift giving is anywhere close to importance as the other 4.
Having different primary love languages makes things very challenging. The truth is, compatibility is really a matter of two people being willing communicate well with one another. That's it. All of these checklists and cross-references people make are really useless if two people aren't willing to battle for communication.
No, but it's important to "speak" it well. You need to show them love in ways that they appreciate, even if that's not how you like to receive love, and that both of you love each other in ways that you both appreciate.
I need quality time and affection/physical touch. Occasional words are nice, but I need the other two much more often.
It helps, but it’s not necessary. You just have to know each other’s love language and convey your love that way. Loving someone is a choice you make
No but it's very important to understand eachother's love language so you bith get fulfillment out of it! Having the same one Would make things easier however! 🥰
I think you can learn what love language your partner prefers and use it. I think my relationship has all but gifts are parts of my love language with my girlfriend. I do get her gifts, but only on important days
It’s nice, but what is more important is understanding how each other feel loved and trying to provide that to each other.
s no I don’t think so… as long as both parts are compatible and complement each other, rather than repel, it should be all good😁
Yeah i think you should have at least one common love language with your partner, if you have a few
If I knew what "love language" is, I might be able to answer the question. I mean, I know what the words mean, but not what do they mean in this context. Care to explain?
It's important that your giving love language matches their taking love language. And vice versa.
Not necessarily, it's important that you understand what their love language is though
It makes it easier, I guess. More importantly is that you understand your respective love languages, whatever they are.
I haven’t been convinced by love languages, Meyers Briggs or even IQs to be honest. It’s all just one facet of a complex relationship.
Nope, I like a variety
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Nah.
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