Should I make a separate personality for trying to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Like should i try to be more cool and different and fake a personality just to get girls? Would the girl even notice? I need some advice cuz that’s what I’m doing now

[Anonymous]

Nope, be yourself. Maybe in theory this sounds like the efficient way to go, but it’s a lie, and you can’t build anything with anyone if they can’t trust you. If you’re just trying to sleep around then cool, keep the act up. But meaningless connections are pointless. You want a girl that you can grow with and who likes you for who you are, not a girl you have to fool to get, then when you show her your true personality it’s like meeting a stranger and she’ll leave. Why go through that?

[Asker]

People are shallow and only care about non-important things like looks and stuff that are totally inappropriate like Sexual and Looks. So faking personality is the only way to get people to notice you these days it seems

[Opinion Owner]

True, people can be shallow, and all the things that you mentioned. But those people don’t speak for the masses, and maybe you don’t see it now but you’ll come to find that not every girl is the same. You have to think, people aren’t born the way they are. Things happen in their lives to make them hard, emotionless, difficult, shallow, etc etc. That’s why you give people a chance to prove you wrong before just assuming they’re going to have all these terrible negative traits. Faking a personality will do nothing but sabotage you in the end, because it’s not YOU. And when the real person comes out, then you risk losing that girl you were faking so hard to get, since you’ll no longer be the guy she fell for.

[alcorriher]

no never! you be you. even if it means her not liking you. there's always someone out there for everybody

[Truthatanycost]

When you're on your purpose, discover who you are, what you stand for and what you have been placed on this planet to do, then you will only ever be yourself. Young men waste a lot of time chasing girls, when they should be chasing their purpose. This is why you feel the need to fake who you are, because you don't yet know who you are. The advice to be yourself... when you don't yet know who you are... it will not make much difference. Find your purpose...

[Asker]

People are shallow and only care about non-important things like looks and stuff that are totally inappropriate like Sexual and Looks. So faking personality is the only way to get people to notice you these days it seems

[Truthatanycost]

That fake personality becomes real once you've found your purpose and accomplished all of the things associated with it. You naturally become more attractive. When you get older, you start to realize how much better your life would have been if you focused on what matters. Chasing girls can mean the difference between retiring at 35 years old, or retiring at 65 years old...

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Be yourself but present your best self in the best possible light.

[UniquelyBasic]

If you do then you will have to keep up the act and thats just exhausting.

[whereismyjohnny]

No, just be yourself.

[Asker]

People are shallow and only care about non-important things like looks and stuff that are totally inappropriate like Sexual and Looks. So faking personality is the only way to get people to notice you these days it seems

[whereismyjohnny]

And what will you get from faking personality? If you start dating she will find out about it. You can’t pretend forever.