Girls, would you be with a guy who is masculine, has a good physique, (tall, broad shoulders, big arms, abs) but with a below average looking face?

[Anonymous]

If the above guy did approach you with confidence, and also has an impressive athletic build but you notice that he has a below average looking face, (under-bite with beard) would you still consider going out with that said guy and being with him if he had a good personality?

[devilish-cutie]

no, i have to be attracted to his face. That being said, tastes are completely different, what one finds attractiv eanother may find ugly. But even if i was attracted to his face, body and he was a good person id still have to feel connection, a spark, mutual chemistry.

[Asker]

What if the guy in question was also pretty well off and highly successful?

[devilish-cutie]

wouldn't change it, attraction and connection are most important
but not all women are like me, some are gold digers, some find you more physically attractive if they really like you as a person or feel a connection, some settle so it depends

[Asker]

Thanks for the opinion, and it makes sense, face matters the most, and I know there's not a whole lot I can do to change that, and honestly I don't want to. I think some people are meant to be in relationships and some people aren't. Hey, thanks again lol

[devilish-cutie]

its just that you have to find someone who likes you for you and who you also like in that way
that is generally hard for everyone as everyone is so different

[Asker]

I think its easier for good looking guys to find partners and no so much for below average looking guys, good looking guys don't need to self improve either, and that makes sense, cause it's just evolution at play, and guys with good genes are highly desired. For me to find someone it would take like a lot of time and investment, which could also affect my mental health as well, if I'm rejected like 100 times on a constant basis, so I would rather not. Your opinion helped, I feel like being alone is the right thing to do, to save myself from wreaking myself up lol

[devilish-cutie]

sure, but you miss the point in it of like it alldepends on what you are looking for
Im an a attractive girl, above average looking and i look for a partner i share a connection with. I was in love before and guys i liked werent perfect. Otften a good looking guy is just looking for a hookup or has no personality so my options are limited especially as im looking for a real connection and attraction. And you may not be above average looking but i ffound rarely anyone is ugly and dating isn't really numbers games, you just have to be more selective and see with what women you have more chances, its easier to just give up. I've also been rejected and I've spent most of my life single. A lot of people have relationships they ae not happy in actually or they settle.

[Asker]

Thanks but I figure that I might be happier in the long run if I spent my wealth on myself and be alone. I just asked this question just to be sure if this was indeed the case, and the bottom line is that how your face matters a whole lot in dating, I don't aim to date above average women since most of them turn out to be interested in my wealth than me and that turns me off. Since I dont have any attachments right now, I kinda feel like I'm alone but for some reason I feel pretty good about it too, like a sense of independence. I think it's best for me or guys like me to just be bachelors and enjoy being single lol

[devilish-cutie]

Well the point is that whatever makes you happy

[prettygirl99]

No he needs a good face everything has to be what I like including the face because I have to be happy and satisfied 100% not just 75%

[Asker]

You fr?

[prettygirl99]

Yea why not?

[Asker]

If the face is attractive af, but his body is lacking, whom would you rather date, the guy in the question or the guy with the attractive face? The assumption here is that those two guys are the only guys remaining on earth.

[prettygirl99]

Damn lmao I don't know I feel like I'm automatically more likely to like the good face because that's what I'm looking at most of the time I'm not looking down I'm looking up kissing his face not his chest and when we make eye contact at least there's attraction

[prettygirl99]

I knew a guy like that in the question most girls didn't want him

[Asker]

Yeah what you are trying to say makes sense, I guess I just have to accept the truth, well I'm always self improving myself, I used to do it so that I might be a worthy partner to someone, but now I see that no matter how much self improvement you do, you will not find someone if you aren't blessed with a good looking face. I used to be insecure about this, but after realizing how pointless it is to be insecure about it, I'm just gonna enjoy life and still work on improving myself, cause that's something that makes me happy, anyways thanks for being brutally honest.