Crushing on the couple next door?

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I mean I’ve had more than one crush before but never on a couple, obviously i’m not gonna make a move that would be disrespectful to their relationship. And they’re older than me. How do I make a crush on two people go away quickly? Especially when they live beside
me

DeviousD · Accepted Answer

A crush is just a crush & it will expire itself eventually, but if you're set on that being expedited than I would suggests stepping into a perception derived from that of maturity & consider the many altercations likely too arise from such a pursuit. As you mentioned there's likely some resentment to form between each individual making up this couple, for instance imagine a scenario where you have into your list & presented them with your thoughts, there are many responses potentially too occur, but for this thought experiment let's just say that perhaps the guy's interest is peaked, but the woman is sternly in opposition. At this point there already may be tension brewing, but now let's consider now that the guy knows that you have this attraction to the couple that he decides to go behind his girlfriend's back & attempt to proposition you. At this point it doesn't matter how you respond because for him that line has been crossed & the damage will appear with in their relationship somehow I can assure you, & if you decided to take him up on his proposal than that damage only becomes amplified. There is also a whole other ethical side to such a situation regarding your young age, as I'm not sure of their age, but I'm assuming that since they live together in this unreasonably expensive society that they are likely at least a few years your senior, & this alone has questionable implications seeing as the absolute best case scenario is that they sincerely totally reject you as a couple & individually which will undoubtedly cause you too feel the negative emotion's resulting from rejection, while also producing a wedge between you & them creating a feeling of awkwardness whenever in each other's presence, & if you value their interactions as they stand currently at all than this is also a detrimental effect you'll need to be prepared for. Basically, in my old man opinion my advice is for you too consider the fact that it's just simply to much trouble for what it's worth, especially when the outcome is far more likely to have a negative soon than a positive one, & eventually you'll learn throughout life how to assess risk, & this just seems to risky for my meter & that alone can be an effective strategy for getting over this unreasonable crush, you're 17 with your whole life ahead of you. Focus on enjoying this time while you can, trust me. Don't occupy yourself with unachievable emotional arrangements that are doomed before even being pursued.

Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

Do you want them specifically or is it just their lifestyle and relationship type? They must not be very far from where you are economically if they live beside you however do they have a really awesome relationship and you wish you could have that for yourself?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's normal I was crushing on a guy ever since 5 grade he was in 6 until highschool. Yeah no worries it's a teenage girl thing.

AvaOneLasTime · Accepted Answer

How did you develop the crush in the first place? Interesting!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Well you already know they are both off limits, it’s really a case of building up on that. what about trying for someone similar  Look at what attracts you to them both and look for someone else

Makeushiver · Answer

yOU MAY NOT WANT TO MAKE A MOVE BUT STAY RIENDLY WITH THEM AND MAYBE A TIME WILL ARRIVE WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE DOING IT. i'VE HEARD A PRETTY EVEN TOSS UP FROM GIRLS WHO DID 3 WAY. iT SEEMS THAT TH3 3RD IS ALMOST OREFERABLY A WOMAN- AS IT WIOULD BE IN YOUR CASE SHOULD IT HAPPEN. Men aren't always the world's best loverws but another woman would know rxactly how it feels and how nmuch oressure is the best. Plis it is always very sexy for a guy to watch 2 women fucking. I love it at keast

omnivert · Answer

Just accept it,
That's what you want to do now.
If you did that, then the next step is to get good sleep then, no caffeine for 7 days,
And no alcohol, now you will don't like people next door and will love your life.

Try it and let me know what you felt real.

crmoore · Answer

That's tough, lol. You never know, though, they could be polyamorous.

red_knight · Answer

Welcome to gag... we share and get over things here lol Find someone else to do

Claudia233 · Answer

Aim for the woman. Get to know her. Be her friend and find out what she likes. If she is into these stuff I doubt the man would mind.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Sounds like you are interested in doing a poly relationship with these people or basically just have a threesome. I would be shocked but these relationships are starting to become quite common these days.

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest it sounds like you're interested in a threesome relationship with both. A word of advice just be careful what you wish for me personally I I wouldn't mind.

RealMarek · Answer

You just wait until you meet someone else who is attractive.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Just tell yourself that it is wrong to have a crush on a couple who's in a relationship

ArtemisSilver · Answer

The fastest way to dispel a crush is to get to know someone lol

Anonymous · Answer

Try doing yardwork in a skimpy bikini and see if they look, lol

Levin · Answer

Umm, you do know threesomes are a thing, right?

Anonymous · Answer

Women are so gay. And some people here are still delusional and they keep denying it

ohshee · Answer

Hurry find a new crush

exitseven · Answer

So you want to have a threesome with them?

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Are you bi curious? Try making friends with them.

msc545 · Answer

Find another couple, or just get laid.

Iron_Man · Answer

How old are these people and are you straight

OddBeMe · Answer

Come on over, saved a spot for you.

clemdenim · Answer

Flirt with them, they might enjoy you

SignedAutographs · Answer

Yikes

Joker_ · Answer

weird

JohnK123 · Answer

Lol ur 17

Hanrej · Answer

Why not make a move?

Anonymous · Answer

How old are they?

Xtendable · Answer

Sounds interesting

Anonymous · Answer

Are you nuts?

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