Do fuckboys pretending to be your friend never give up trying?

[Anonymous]

Why is he still texting/calling me just enough to keep me around despite being thousands of miles away. I feel like he's a fuckboy putting on a decent exterior to be in my good graces. He goes overboard on talking about the things I like, like cats. I've never been sent so many cat pics from anyone else. He's clearly trying something but the thing is we've never hung out, we've never been physically together in 5 years. What does he want from me?

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+1 y

How do I put an end to this? I can't believe my college friend turned out to be a opportunistic player.

[devilish-cutie]

yes, they will put an effort to have you as an option, they could also just be bored and want to chat

[Asker]

Five years though, what sane person does that... Yeeshh

[DavidRaul]

True both could be true

[Shy_Steve]

He wants to have sex with you and to be your Girlfriend.
Sometimes the best and only way to get him to stop is to be blunt and tell him.

[Asker]

Oh. I didn't think this could be a possibility. We're in different time zones for the past 5 years, I haven't seen him person all this time. Why does he still want these things. He knows I'm moving farther away from him.

[Shy_Steve]

You need to just tell him, Otherwise he will just keep going.

[Asker]

Okay I will. Why do guys do this though?

[Shy_Steve]

To get a Girl to want to have Sex with them, I would of thought that would be odvious.

[boggboss]

Ofc why burn a bridge rhat could always be avaliable in the future

[Asker]

How do I put an end to this

[boggboss]

Scope entertaining him talking to you call him out anything lol