I've been talking to this girl fir over three months?

[lemonstreetchump]

We say we love each other, I feel so strongly for her. But she's in Miami, I'm in sandusky. She's a 10 I'm average at best. I just feel she's too good for Me. But would she talk to ne everyday and say she loves me if shecdudht bean it?

[SueShe]

Well, wherever this Sandusky is, long distance relations seldom work and those created leagues should be abolished because they serve no purpose other than to create problems where there should not be any.

Also, you rating her 10 is totally subjective. By what scale are you going? Your own? A scale defined by a government agency? Perhaps she has a scale of her own to rate you and she rates you better than you do rate yourself.

It is a different thing to talk over the phone for months than to see each other. People tend to hide details because they know that meeting in real life is less likely to happen.

Be happy with the fact that she is talking to you and don't search or make problems where there are none. If she likes talking to you, she must have her reasons.

[lemonstreetchump]

It's in ohio. I work at cedar point. We're planning on meeting in person, and going from there.

[SueShe]

Well, until you meet face to face, don't start worrying yet. You only make your life miserable.

[lemonstreetchump]

Thanks. If it goes well I'll probably move to Miami with her. She's made ne the happiest I've been in years

[SueShe]

Well then, ride on this wave of feeling great. What more do you want? That makes you happy and that is all that counts.

[PrettyPriya]

Let's start with the you are talking to her for three months. That is a great sign. She hasn't lost interest or got bored. As @SueShe has mentioned, LDRs are not easy to maintain and very often fail.

I have looked on a map and I see the distance issue. Why not plan a trip? With summer here (in some places) it would be an ideal time. Also, this will tell you a lot about her thoughts. If she is excited, and gladly accepts, you can rest easy that she has feelings for you.

[lemonstreetchump]

She brought up coming to sabdusjy to visit xhz she'll begin school break, I'll be working but can still show her a good time. She's also offered to send ne money which I turned down (it felt good sge cared enough to iffer!(

[PrettyPriya]

I would work on that then. If she has offered to visit on a school break, then start planning some fun things to do. That will keep you both engaged and give you something to look forward to.

Please do remember, this will be her first time face to face. Do not pressure her to stay with you. Give her the option to stay somewhere close, on her own. I'm quite certain that if she is willing to travel to see you, she has a serious interest.

Best to be a gentleman and make her feel comfortable. I wish you best of luck and hope you both can connect and have a great time!

[lemonstreetchump]

Oh yeah I was gonna get her a room at a hotel cuz I live I didn't that'd but allow visitors. But we'll be absentia ride the cuaatwes atcxedar point and maybe a tour of lsie erie

[lemonstreetchump]

Thank you so much fir advice. I'm trying to marry this girl

[PrettyPriya]

Well, I think you have a good plan then. Not being familiar with that area, I will leave it to you for suggestions on what will be fun to do.

I think you have the right idea with a visit. Now, take this opportunity to get excited! This is something you can both hang onto and discuss, bringing your LDR a bit closer. It is something to look forward to.

It is also the perfect opportunity to get to know more about her as you plan her stay. What does she like to eat? What things does she want to see? Does she like to etc, etc, etc? You get the point. It is a perfect way to find out more about her as you plan this visit.

[lemonstreetchump]

She's from Europe, but has lived in Spain and Italy. So she's way mire cultured in cuisine lol then me. I honestly deeply feel just being tugergercwill be great

[PrettyPriya]

Excellent. Sounds like you have a great girl. I really do hope this works out and she has a nice visit. 😊

[lemonstreetchump]

Thank you she really is a sweetheart. A make friend if hers she rejected fucking cut himself the inherent night and sge was si upset. I told her if he's Wirth a damn he'd be happy to have you as a friend then nothing at all. He did that to hurt her and her if all people doesn't deserve that. Sorry I'm ranting

[Secret6620]

I think you should appreciate her interest instead of doubting it. Don't doubt yourself. It will easily turn her off.

If she likes your personality, intelligence, confidence, etc those all trump attractiveness.

[Anonymous]

If you are serious about her, you need to make a move.