I would think that's something is missing.
It's not like beauty and brains alone is going to keep a relationship
What's missing could be anything since we don't know anything details.
But a relationship is more than having a couple of appealing traits, we're not THAT simple.
Hi Jennifer. You neglected to mention whether or not she was also loyal, loving and respectful, which are traits I value more than beauty or intelligence!
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Often times a young mans heart chases after fine outward beauty and she captivates him with her eyes. He desires to walk the streets showing off his trophy wife. He chases after what his eyes see. He goes for that opportunity assuming it will never happen again, but with a less beautiful lady he may take more time to know and grow with her since the relationship is not triggered
by the outward appearance. Without knowing the specifics of this person, I will just give a example of a scenario.
She may be beautiful on the outside, but on the inside she may be a ticking time bomb, as all she learns through school, college and work was that she could get almost anything she wanted from men since she was the prettiest lady in the room. She seduced, manipulated, deceived and pressured people to get her way. Now that she has a husband, she can no longer bounce from one man to the next before they figure her out. through the relationship he knows her true colors and learns her motives and she may throw a big fit when she does not get her way. Thats just an example of development that may be lacking based on how she went through life without learning from her actions. She grows through life with men buying her whatever she wants to keep her in the relationship. It marriage that becomes a problem since she burdens the husband with debt and she is high maintenance. It really comes down to how she uses her intelligence, if it is used selfishly to get what she wants or to use it rather for what is best for the relationship. The same can be true with a woman who marries a famous movie star. It can happen either direction.
If one chases only after the other persons fame, fortune or beauty they are not chasing after the person they love; they are chasing after the feature, chasing after something they do not currently have or chasing after a challenge that is difficult to achieve.
It is much like a triggered reaction to win the grand prize, after you win the grand prize you show it off to your friends, then when you take the prize home, you dont know what to do with it since that was your goal, you accomplished it and now there is no goal or motive to take it further down the road, it just sits on display in the show room. When no one else sees it, it just sits there over time and collects dust.
In any relationship it really takes two people doing their part to love the other person without conditions and without expecting anything in return. A relationship is two different people raised in different traditions and values in life. Each person has unique attributes and differing opinions. It takes time and action to develop a good understanding and to make life pleasant for each other to live and grow under the same roof.
There just might be that missed opportunity with that curvy woman that none of the men talk to. She has had to work very hard in life to establish relationships and keep the relationship growing, she has had to study what patterns men enjoy, how to develop longterm friendships, connect and stay in touch with people long term, hoping that one day one of those friendships will come back seeking her later in life. She learns that long term friendship grow when one will be there for people through thick and thin. She learns how to make peace around others, she studies and learns how men stay happy and does everything to keep him. The curvy wife in these scenarios would be a better wife long term. The outward beauty will fade, but a selfless person will be a best friend for a lifetime.
Everybody's beautiful on the outside in their own way what you're missing is the girl on the inside that's where troop it is that's where her brains are and that's where her wisdom is that's where her smile is that's where her beautiful heart i
When you meet somebody just because you like what they look like on the outside doesn't mean that's who they are on the inside it's usually almost the opposite in a lot of different way if you want a relationship to last before you even look at the outside you have to know the girl on the inside but you get to know her then allow yourself to be treated and look at to the outside
I mean, that's a short subjective description for the many many reasons a relationship can fail. It takes both people to make it work, and likewise if both parties aren't working towards it, then it will fail. Personally In relationships that have failed when we are working together, it's because of personality. Mine, theirs, we're putting in more effort but getting nowhere. Maybe something is missing, but how would I ever know that unless it wasn't missing anymore?
If I didn't feel loved or want to give that, then it wouldn't be a relationship, but NSA.
I met a guy who had a really pretty wife. She was really nice too. I met this guy while I was in the hospital. One day the guy ells me his girlfriend was coming to visit. I thought that if his wife was so pretty I just had to check out the girlfriend. Well she shoes up. She was really nothing special and she had a real snotty attitude. I just thought. WTF?
Being beautiful and smart isn't enough to keep a partner satisfied.
If the person is boring. Or both people just aren't compatible it won't be sustained.
Also some people are just greedy as well and want more than they one person
I know a guy like that, but he doesn't really value the good things about her.
She's less of a wife and more of an employee to him as he builds his empire.
That's kind of how he talks about her.
There could be a plethora of reasons why, but ultimately his needs or a key interest is not being met for his comete happiness and investment. When you ask this are the beautiful women women that you know personally and think are beautiful or are seen as beautiful across the board by everyone, because that is subjective.
To go with that, there is a saying out there that goes along the lines of "For every beautiful woman, there is a man tired of her shit."
I have been exclusive with 3 or 4 very beautiful, very ambitious ladies. It can get overwhelming to a relationship, even when she is is clearly completely into you thus, that fidelity was never questioned.
people can marry many THINGS, and aren't really available enough for everybody.
Some people require 60-75% (or more) of their mate, and you may not be suitable b/c 'time together' is a higher priority to them than others.
But what do i know? They maybe just hate your face.
people are really weird lately, i think.
It's not that there's no appreciation, it's just that I see my marriage as en excellent working relationship and she's my Comrade no. 1.
She's the General to my Marshal, the First Mate to my Captain, the Prime Minister to my President.
doesn’t matter how pretty a female is
I guarantee he has to put up with childish entitlement and shit tests and he’s probably sick of it
@jennifer_bloom I suspect he's not satisfied with a girlfriend who has brain & beauty because of incompatible personalities & mismatch in political & religious views.
Beautiful and smart aren't always good things. They might be super boring and not interesting so it wouldn't be fun to be in a relationship with a person like that.
"Smart and Beautiful" isn't the end-all be-all, so I wouldn't think much because the guy in that situation has more information than I do.
Hopefully he addresses it swiftly.
I would have to be something missing because you can't be a woman with all that gift or traits and yet he's still not appealing to you or rather you're not appealing to him, yeah there's a bigger issues about that physical
There isn't really enough information to form an opinion. If she has a great personality and a sense of humor to go along with the other positive traits, then his standards may be too high.
They are immature and are the type always looking for better looking they need mental help and 50 % of the time these men are no prize beauty themselves
They're thrill seeking if they're looking elsewhere
Some men want drama in their relationships (it's not only women).
Stay away from them if you aren't a drama loving person yourself.
I think they think of them as trophies and nothing more, either that or the ones that don't there's something the woman is doing, maybe their personality is bad or something or they don't put much into the relationship
Most of those men have big appetite for women no matter how beautiful or smart their girls were
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