Now that you know what you know about him, do you still want him?
If this is how he's moving, he's not going to have a happy balanced relationship even if he gets married. You seem to want the marriage so bad that you're even willing to marry a terrible man to get it. He slept, he complained, he was rude, he lied, he manipulated and he was disrespectful... so, why do you want to marry him again? There's not one good trait about him mentioned. Seems like he needed somewhere to stay, promised you whatever to stay there, never wanted to get married which is why he was hard to deal with, (he was trying to get you to break up with him but it didn't work so he broke up with you) and got with someone else. Something's telling me he's pulling the same gameplay with the one he's engaged to now. Whatever it is he wants out of her, he knows he can't get it without a big gesture like getting engaged... and him telling you he'll never get over you is him planting a seed just in case he comes crawling back. The other girl probably doesn't know about his previous relationship before she entered the picture. He probably knew her longer than 2 months, he's just probably been lying about it. If he blocked you, your friends, and your family out of nowhere and popped up dating this girl, it's because he's been lying. Social media posts will always show the happiest moments. You rarely see a mess of a couple in pictures. Just because they are happy online, doesn't mean they are in real life.
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Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, you could have been married to an asshole that was rude to you for the rest of your life. Feel fortunate that he moved on.
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He was just using you. Be glad you're rid of him.
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