It's an absolute deal-breaker. Because if someone is divorced, then that proves that a) they can't handle marriage, b) they pick their partners carelessly and/or rush into things, or c) both. Also, I'm not going to reward someone for making a vow to stay with their partner for life and then breaking that vow. To me, that's the absolute worst thing someone can do. I have zero tolerance for someone committing to marriage and then quitting. If you're not ready, don't fucking get married!

Its a personal choice... For me... Ya it is deal breaker in arrange marriage... But if I already love her then that is difference case...

Yes for me, but that's because I was never divorced and didn't have kids either. I think it's really hypocritical for people to have standards that they themselves don't meet.

Divorced no, having kids is an automatic dealbreaker

Both are dealbreaker, divorced women are untrustworthy, women with children have a baggage.

There are a lot of reason for a couple to get a divorce. BUT Tread with care, find all the facts because you do ot want to be involved in the second divorce.

It's not a deal breaker. But it is very concerning. A guy has to vet her for an extra long time for that reason.

Why would I being divorced or having kids be a dealbreaker?

Kinda humorous that women are stricter on this than men yet it’s generally women I see complaining that men don’t want to date single mothers

Divorce is in the past. Kids would be fine if they liked me and we planned to have more.

Children need a caring Father figure also.

When looking for a marriage partner, is them being divorced/has kids a dealbreaker?

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It's an absolute deal-breaker. Because if someone is divorced, then that proves that a) they can't handle marriage, b) they pick their partners carelessly and/or rush into things, or c) both.

Also, I'm not going to reward someone for making a vow to stay with their partner for life and then breaking that vow. To me, that's the absolute worst thing someone can do. I have zero tolerance for someone committing to marriage and then quitting.
If you're not ready, don't fucking get married!

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  100% agree👏
  
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Its a personal choice...
For me... Ya it is deal breaker in arrange marriage... But if I already love her then that is difference case...

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Yes for me, but that's because I was never divorced and didn't have kids either. I think it's really hypocritical for people to have standards that they themselves don't meet.

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Divorced no, having kids is an automatic dealbreaker

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  Any reason?
  
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  Who wants to take care of someone else's kids instead of having your own?
  
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Both are dealbreaker, divorced women are untrustworthy, women with children have a baggage.

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There are a lot of reason for a couple to get a divorce. BUT Tread with care, find all the facts because you do ot want to be involved in the second divorce.

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It's not a deal breaker. But it is very concerning. A guy has to vet her for an extra long time for that reason.

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Why would I being divorced or having kids be a dealbreaker?

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Kinda humorous that women are stricter on this than men yet it’s generally women I see complaining that men don’t want to date single mothers

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Divorce is in the past.
Kids would be fine if they liked me and we planned to have more.

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Children need a caring Father figure also.

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