Do you need lots of money and sports cars to get a girlfriend now?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

No you do not, but it never hurts. I was far more attractive in my 20's, I had pretty good pull power with the ladies. I was pretty handsome back in those days... but as 45 years old with money I do a lot better then you think with the ladies now vs then.

I like to think its because I have always been a good enough looking guy and ladies man... but truthfully the money definitely does not hurt when you can afford to wine and dine or romance them with weekend get a ways in a classy resorts or hotel in desirable locations. And yes I drive a sport car.

[Asker]

I don’t have the looks but I I’m a good cook

[DaveJord]

I cook a little, honestly looks is not most important think to most women. I mean it doesn't hurt, but average looking guy that cooks, that works if you make it work.

[Fireguy17]

No.
You need a good personality, a good outlook on life, stability in you ife, be a good person, have a sense of humor.
Being a good cook might not hurt either.
Otherwise is that person attracted to you, or what you have.
Are they looking for a wallet or a partner?
To many women having all of that stuff doesn't impress them at all.

[Asker]

I am a good cook both on stove and on the ninja foodie. people always ignore the qualities that I have

[Fireguy17]

you need to find better people that will appreciate you for who you are.

[Chiarac2003]

Wouldn’t hurt…. But absolutely not. You need to be a good person with mens underwear on.

[Asker]

I am a good cook and sometimes cook in his underwear.

[Chiarac2003]

Omg I was joking 😂 enjoy

[alice55]

Elliot Rodgers had both but still didn't get any girls so I doubt that's going to help.

[Asker]

Did he had depression?

[alice55]

Possible but apparently he most likely had asperger or some light autism. Which made him appear weird and overthinking the tiniest reaction of people. He most likely didn't had good conversation skills, etc... which made him awkward in social situation and people are not very kind to shy / introverted people especial in America.

[Asker]

I used to be very shy back in high school. I’m still can be shy but not very badly. I do have struggle on meeting new people. If I do have serious trouble i seek help immediately. Some girls in America likes sky guys but not a lot. It’s rare to find somebody good nowadays

[alice55]

Most people don't like shy people cause they can't get a good conversation with them right away. Usually if you're bad at small talk it's going to be hard. I'm bad at small talk for example but good on in depth conversation so I just have to find someone like me, not a lot but those people exist and they make much better friends than those who like small talk.

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't know whether you need that kind of a boost but I have never had a problem getting dates without flashing a wad of cash and a flashy car.

[Asker]

It’s my looks that people have problems with

[OlderAndWiser]

Wouldn't know without seeing a picture.

[Asker]

I think you have…

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps, but I cannot now associate a photo from the past with an Anonymous post.

[Asker]

Understandable. If this question wasn’t under anonymous there could of been a chance you probably wouldn’t answer.

[jennifer_bloom]

I just need a guy who is charming

[Asker]

I simply can’t press the right buttons then other people can do. Also I’m not black or Mexican

[jennifer_bloom]

Blacks and Mexicans are not as popular as white people to girls - and people say Asian men are ugly but have you noticed that Asian men are rich?

[Asker]

I’m definitely not Jackie Chan either or charming like James Bond

[jennifer_bloom]

If your kind, you can attract girls - and charm can be learned

[Asker]

I am kind but perhaps too kind but I am a really good cook both on the stove and on the ninja foodie

[jennifer_bloom]

Girls love nice guys, at least the good ones

[Asker]

I know they do just can’t find the right spots to find them

[Guy13]

Noooo BUT a property owner would be helpful. Women will not fall in love and remain unless there is Integrity and Financial reasonableness involved.
—Making a woman comatose from Laughing and Jokes, of a proper manner, will get you laid-a lot forever
BUT
Beater cars, 2/3 jobs-70hrs work week in 4 years gets you to Property Owner…Wives/Women want to see Achievements in their Man. Their babies won’t achieve if their man doesn’t Achieve.

[Asker]

I don’t have the good looks or have lots money but I’m a good cook

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Lots of money & a sports car will probably get you a gold digger & if you think you need all that to get a girlfriend do yourself a favor & buy a golden shovel right now.

[Anonymous]

Money sure but a sports car just gets you fanboys and distainful looks from any chick of legal age excluding the gold diggers

[Birbman]

No and a sports car is a pain to maintain, I have seen

[exitseven]

You don't but it might help.

[Asker]

Money like Elon musk

[slatyb]

$10 million and at least seven sports cars or women won't talk to you.

[driven159]

That kind of woman would not be my type I want one that is interested in me not what I have

[Asker]

I been rejected from not having 401k’s, certain insurances, investments or not even a single dime saved up in a savings account

[Anonymous]

Not if she's young, you just need a working car and some money

[Anonymous]

who actually thinks relationships are real

society has no CHRIST

they reject him

[NathanDavis]

not me... I didn't have a car at all, lmao...

[Asker]

I had lots of women who wanted men with sports car, money, looks and sometimes bigger wieners as a perk. If your fat then your out of luck

[NathanDavis]

are you implying that you are rich...

or that you are fat?

[Asker]

I should of said your overweight then your out of luck…

Shit! If I had money I wouldn’t be on gag and I’ll be in the Bahamas living life there

[Asker]

I should of said if* your overweight then your out of luck…

Shit! If I had money I wouldn’t be on gag and I’ll be in the Bahamas living life there

[NathanDavis]

then I guess I just lucked out

[Asker]

Maybe if you make some Texas chili or 5 alarm chili. that could attract someone. Start cooking

[NathanDavis]

I have no idea about chili to be honest... never had it before

[Asker]

Your missing out on chili soup. Sounds like your a picky eater

[NathanDavis]

there's so many other things... not just chili

[Redstang88]

No..

[MountAverage]

Is this even a serious question?

[jahaims]

Nope

[In_Trance]

no you don't

[Anonymous]

It helps.