I seriously sympathize with you because I was also false accused by a woman of sexual harassment while we were in the elevator. She told a couple of friends of hers that I had touched her inappropriately and, on their goading, they wrote a letter to the authorities. But unluckily for her there was CCTV in that lift where it clearly showed that I was standing more than an arm's length away from her and with both hands working my phone. So, I decided to go on the offensive because what she did was gave an application to the authorities and not a formal complaint so the plan was that on receipt of the application it would be them who escalated it into a complaint, but on preliminary investigation it was found false. Now if the application had been disposed there and then, it would not have left a record and they would have been free to make another allegation, and this time make it seem that I really did do something. So, I filed a counter complaint.
The authorities were very hesitant and didn't want to register a complaint, but I forced them to, they didn't even call her in for questioning but called her and asked her what happened. She said that she had anxiety and depression and part of it was my fault and she realistically imagined that I had done something. Okay, so to make a long story short - all I got from the authorities was a letter saying that so and so had filed an application against me and it was found "unsubstantiated" on preliminary investigation. - Note that it said nothing about false allegation or registering a false complaint. Off the record they told me to not even be in the same room as her.
Now my advice to you is that the sexual marketplace and sexual interactions are absolutely brutal where advantage is held by nearly all women and a few high value men (genetically gifted, high socio-economic status, etc.) The only way to play this game is to become one of these men through your hard work and talent. There is no way around it. Else you're going to have to play with a severe handicap.
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@SolitarySolace You're hurting and so I understand the lack of logic here.
If you got mugged and beaten by a few white guys would you blame all white guys and say they are the same?
Because that is literally what you're saying but about women.
What kind of environment do you meet these women in?
You're simply picking the wrong ones and that may be a reflection of you. Maybe you are similar to them or maybe you don't know how to vet people. Perhaps you do it all based off emotions.
I have never had any girl do this to me. I also have never dated a party girl. The problem with society is we operate as if we are still animals living in a cave. Good looks don't mean anything anymore. Character is what matters but your outdated body will tell you otherwise. Character is everything and most people don't vet a persons character in any thorough manner or in any manner that isn't passive.
@SolitarySolace It's not about being a nice guy or any of that. Don't fall for that.
We gotta stop blaming other people. We are the problem. Most people don't vet the people they let into their lives because they don't even know how. They aren't even aware they should be doing it really.
@SolitarySolace The best advice you will ever get is: You are the problem and you are the only solution.
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I never really have. But I never really date hoping that it will turn into something serious and ensure the person I'm dating feels the same from the start. So it tends to be a fling that we both enjoy and part ways when it has ran it's course or when feelings start to get involved on one side or the other.
Their are hos and good girls. Almost every girl is a ho. Not every single one though so you got to pay attention and not just treat them all nasty. I don't know just I've dated so many women and they are all interchangeable. They have a pussy and they clean the house and cook me food. None are any different (except those who cannot cook or clean who are worse) except virgins who have something special to offer.
Never. All women are not the same. Everyone is different.
Just avoid:
College girls/women
Mentally ill women
Dramatic women
Attention seekers
Openly sexual or flirtatious
Those always on the phoneDude you look at all women being the same, and every woman you dated cheated on you. That says more about you than it does them. You need to take inventory of your life and see what it is you’re doing wrong
I never have... every woman is different. Sure, they have some common traits but I've never met two identical women.
Nah.. They're not all that same.. It's just that you're a nice and sensitive guy... And that's exactly the type of partner toxic and abusive people are looking for.. You gotta be smart...
I don't consider all the same but it doesn't affect me anyways because I'm good living with sanhui doll
Even though most women don't mind having a high body count, there are still those that are sweet and caring and don't. But good luck in finding them.
I never will, because in my experience, women are different
Yeah around 25. Sort of accepted my fate since.
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