That is definitely frustrating. I guess the best way to think about it is like this, "why are you putting your life on pause because he is not ready". You should tell him that too. Whether you want to get married, have kids or what not, tell him you have goals. You don't want to be in a situationship with no indication of things moving further. You have to put him on the line. I know it sucks, especially if he feels like "the one", but if he can stop you from moving forward but not take the next step for you guys, then he isn't worth it. Please don't put your life on hold for a person who doesn't even know what they're doing. So definitely speak with him about it. See if you can find out why he doesn't want to take the next step. But eventually, he is going to need to realise that it's either the both of you in it together, or you with an amazing man. He can't have best of both worlds.
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Not liking labels is definitely a red flag. If you really like this guy, I’d investigate what exactly is his motivation for not wanting to make it official. It’s definitely suspicious.
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