Told him that I wanted to be friends first instead of dating, and he said that he's fine with it and said that we will take it slowly. What he means?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

That means he eventually wants the friendship to turn into something. I had a guy do this to me the other day and I left him on read because to me it seems like he wants a reward for being a friend to me instead of just being a friend. I don’t blame him for wanting to be more than friends because that’s what he’s looking for but I also don’t want anyone expecting an automatic relationship for me because I gave them a friendship

[Anonymous]

He's agreeing with you, but you are shooting yourself in the foot. He might just find someone else so you are screwing up your chances with him.

[Anonymous]

He wants to date you, why the f would a guy want to be "just friends" with a girl?

[Asker]

I thought there's nothing wrong to be just friends?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys don't usually want to be "just friends", especially when they're attracted to the girl. It's better to leave altogether rather than be her friend while she f another guy.

[Asker]

What does he mean when he said that "we will take it slowly"?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to date you and he's willing to be your friend but eventually he wants it to become dating and boyfriend/girlfriend. If you're not interested, cut him loose because he's waiting expecting it to become more.

[Wise4myage]

It means he's willing to wait and be patient.