Should I dump him?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and I were arguing, and he started to freak out and said, "Don't treat me like I'm a dime a dozen, I'm a catch, I'm a prize, I'm the most loyal person you'll ever meet" keep in mind he got himself thrown out of the marine corps, is verbally abusive and will mimick, mock, ridicule, insult, berate, scold, yell at you name it towards me whenever he is bothered by me at all, and he has a below average job, no education, and his family is not the best so he truly had no substance to back up these claims, except the loyalty part except I consider loyalty to be also when you are still kind to the person when mad, don't call other people pretty to them and when he used to get mad he would tell me people like kate beckinsale are hot etc to try to hurt and tear me down. In response to what he said, I said "do you think I'm a dime a dozen?" and he said "I don't know" and then he said "I don't know a dozen girls, so I couldn't tell you" which I found to be such a degrading, disgusting thing to say to me, and also very messed up to hype himself up like that and say oh im so great, dont treat me like im average but hmm i dont know, you're not that special. sounds like he's got problems right? He also claimed he loves me but "I dont love you when were fighting and arguing"
keep in mind also, I would say something to him like "I am not excited to have to get up in the middle of the night for work" (aka 3:30 tonight) and he immediately said "that isn't the middle of the night. I would love to get up early and get home early." While I understand his view, I was not complaining, I am not the one who complains about work it is him 99.9 percent of the time he mopes and says "I dont wanna go to workkkk" in this bratty tone and I thought it was very ironic that he says I love to argue, yet he started arguing with me over what time is considered the middle of the night, so he was just wanting to be right over something stupid and meaningless. thoughts on him?

[Guy__]

In every sentence you wrote he pretty much does the exact opposite of what a good man does.

[Asker]

thank you for saying that. he acted super nice to me in the beginning, and over time has turned into a raging asshole. if you have time to read my other recent experiences my account is rachvartannn. I am sick of his shit, finally beginning to realize I do have value and he is in the wrong much more than I am, I may not be perfect but I never say things like that or lash out the way he does.

[MTC29]

No need to read beyond the first few sentences... dump him.

[historectomy]

i'm not even reading all that cause i could tell by the beginning you were gonna flame the hell out of him, yes break up lol

[Guy__]

I was about to write the same then decided to read the rest.

I wonder how do these people even attract girlfriends.

[historectomy]

I don't know man lol

[Asker]

@Guy__ they act mature and kind at first, in order to get what they want and then as they are more comfortable the girl won't leave it seems like their true self comes out.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like your relationship is on shaky ground and not so much because of you. he does sound a bit... Unstable.

[Asker]

yeah, I know I am imperfect and I know sometimes girls and people in general can say or do dumb stuff, but he overrreacts and he gets angry very fast to the point where he sees red and then is on a mission to verbally destroy me. he does come from a bad family tho, everyone is divorced and hates each other, and his grandpa is married to a gold digger 30 years younger than him and he has said before when mad to me "I swear, you want me to hit you" and makes jokes sometimes like "dont make me hit you" as if domestic abuse is something to laugh over. what a joke.

[one1wild00]

I'd get out of that relationship before you are in too deep for your own health and safety.