Are men still attracted to traditional women that are modest, feminine, and conservative? Why or why not?

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Wsx2wsx2ws · Accepted Answer

OMG yes. Here is why.
I feel and have experienced much of the modern trends are wrapped and disguised in selfishness.
I am not talking about traditional women but traditional family - where a traditional woman and man will fit best. Where a man sacrifices and pours all he has into this team and family unit. A woman does the same. We capitalize on our strengths and shore up each other's weakness. This is called team work.
A traditional roll for example is the stay home mom. Women excel significantly at social, caring, nurturing skills. Men can do them. But why not pick the best person for the job when it comes to your kids. What others think does not matter. Only what you 2 decide. And personally I think and have researched that having a mother with the child, not quality but quantity, makes a massive difference. And when there is quantity there will be quality no way around that truth. And in a child's eyes quantity rates far grander than quality.
If she has the better paying job then that could be revisited. I personally have no qualms about being the parent who stays home. And I can relate to you my experience in my broken family if you so desire.
As far as being feminine or masculine, I strongly believe that the desires of your mate should come first. It is something you think about when dating. How to please and gain the favor so you will be someone they chose to spend their life with. Is it just a lie, a game, a facade to get in, then drop all of it? How you act can kill all that vital trust you worked so hard to gain. That effort, thought, and constant consideration should be there always.
When fighting and arguing. Go the extra mile even when you don't want to, just for them. To find a solution. There will be rewards. But mostly it will show how much you care and sacrifice. This will never be ignored by a real man or woman.

In the modern world its be yourself - do what makes you happy. But when your married you have committed to not be a self, but a team. You don't belong on a team and will feel out of place, unwelcome, unhappy doing what does not belong on a team, thinking only of yourself. Your team will lose and all team mates will be angry all the time. Talking, agreeing, moving, together and finding success will build up a tremendous happy well oiled family team.

So, each person on a team has a roll. They can cover one another as well, but they do their primary roll most of the time. If a couple assigns and uses their strengths to the full they will do far better. This is one of many reasons why I believe in traditional women.

Cubus · Accepted Answer

Well, I am

alice55 · Accepted Answer

I guess it depend where you live but where I live most men don't like them cause they're liberal so they prefer liberal women an don't like conservative one also they prefer sexier clothes to modest.

Graci_e · Accepted Answer

Most guys I know would not be into that, especially considered the culture of where I’m from.  Of course someone who holds the same values as you would be, but it depends on the person.

MrOracle · Answer

Men who are serious about relationships certainly are. But I need to mention that the top 10% guys - the tall, good-looking, popular guys that most women want - might have sex with such women, but they aren't likely to offer a commitment to those girls, or any girls. Girls still need to pick the right guys - picking them based on their values, morals, and life goals - or things aren't likely to turn out well for her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am attracted to traditional, conservative, modest women. . . the kind who you WOULD take home to meet Mother! Why? I don't know.

rob119 · Answer

ABSOLUTELY NOT. I'm very liberal, modern, and a feminist. I also support equality for LGBTQ+ people, minorities, and people with disabilities. Some of the above terms by themselves are subject to some interpretation, but strung together like that they are a big NO for me.

I dated someone who was traditional, she came on strong and fast then reversed course saying "we need to just be friends until I see how you do with your computer classes, you have to earn at least as much if not more than I do so you can pay my bills if I become ill."

She only admitted "I wish I hadn't said that" when she was trying really hard to get laid (and she didn't give a damn when I said I felt nothing for her yet and wanted to wait)

My mother raised me to believe that anything a man could do, so could (and should) a woman. I am not threatened if someone earns more, is smarter or more capable, or even physically stronger. All anyone needs to know about my finances is that I'm not looking to THEM for anything- so it shouldn't matter if I'm affluent or living on disability.

I also am not interested in dating anyone who claims to be feminist yet simultaneously still holds men to traditional gender roles. (men must pay for the first so many dates, or must ALWAYS be the ones to pursue or initiate) And I believe I'm pretty fair and balanced here, because many men still do and say some pretty nasty things.

There are of course still things I am learning about such as emotional labor, and other things men do which I am not aware of.

Modesty is something I hold myself to, but by that I mean I don't want to brag. I'm not sure quite what it meant in the above synopsis.

I'm attracted to the modern, progressive, staunch feminist.

big_ben_007 · Answer

Men who work hard for their money in a skilled occupation would appreciate a woman like that. Men will even compromise on looks and not go for the prettiest woman, but for the most feminine and traditional woman to marry and build a family with. Because after years of hard work, no man wants to come home to drama and headaches. A traditional woman who is modest and conservative and helps her man theu the ups and downs will be spoiled for life because he'll appreciate her. Thats how my dad was with my mom in the 25 years they were married so I've seen it.

But then there's other men who have jobs where they dont have to work as hard as the construction guy, they get paid sick leave, vacations, they can work 2 days a week if they want to. They might have social media accounts with a big fanbase. I can't speak for them. They can be a little different.

ohshee · Answer

I I think you are absolutely right and I see that because that's kind of how we were brought up we only know what we experience but we see what we know the through our parents that's kind of it where they are There's Something Beautiful about that and pure about it
And even though we look for this in a woman we also want more there is a naughtiness a
Sexiness a confidence an openness that we are also looking for
I mean I can only speak for myself but you are right and I love the old tradition the old values but I also want it in a brand new way there has to be that spark of excitement that lust and connection that wildness of passion and desire and if it is truly who that person is and they are being honest . Then that's hard to find but for me that's what I'm looking for . So my answer is yes very much so but in a new and honest way

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

I'd say yes but not in general.
For two reasons:
1. Many especially younger guys don't share traditional values, they prefer adventurous relationship models with less responsibility. Many young guys don't plan to settle down and they won't cherish a woman like that.
They probably say they like it but not so much because they have in mind to settle down and have a family but because that sounds like a submissive woman that could be used.
2. Traditional women are said to be harder to get. The effort in dating lies solely on the man's shoulders.
Many of us guys don't like that because it either sounds risky like as a guy you have to give effort while she doesn't need to move a finger or because it takes time to get her.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes extremely. I’m not saying she has to be home all the time to cook my meals, wash my clothes, pop out babies but it is nice to come home to a living partner who is thankful for everything you do for the family. I can cook as well, I know how to wash clothes. I know how to do a lot of things that my mother taught me. But it just feels good to come home to a loving girlfriend or wife who welcomes you home w open arms, after 12-16 hour shifts w some love, a nice drink w a big sammich lol I will try to give her the world in return.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, we most definitely are. The hard part though, is actually finding one, let alone one that is single. These women do exist out there, but 99.99% of them are taken.

I just asked a similar question on here myself (yours may or may not have been inspired by that).

Guys: Are there ACTUALLY still good single women out there?

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Of course they are. Where I live I'd say it's the norm.

Although the word "feminine" can mean a lot of things. In traditional conservative relationships the woman isn't going to be some weak simpering helpless woman. She's going to be strong and quite capable of doing things for herself. She won't be afraid of getting her hands dirty (which means she's probably won't have long nails). She's very different than the stereotype a lot of people believe.

cth96190 · Answer

Yes, I am attracted to traditional women.
I gave up on women years ago, but I still enjoy looking.
Women, as collective, have made themselves to obnoxious and legally dangerous for any form of interaction with them to survive a cost/risk/benefit calculation.

Adronicus · Answer

Here's what happens IN MY EXPERIENCE 90% of the women I initially like..
I'll show interest, she either plays games or doesn't reciprocate, I move on until I find someone who does. Doesn't matter what she identifys as, my observation skills tell me the truth they hide regardless.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

The first two are ok.. the last one.. is kind of a red flag to me. Nothing wrong with being a conservative, if that’s what you believe. But I don’t like women that lean too far to the left or the right. I like a free thinking woman, that’s has room to grow, change and evolve in her world view.. not the “this is how we have done it, this is how it’s supposed to be…” type of women. That will always lead to something bad

Guy__ · Answer

I am attracted to a real human who is who she is meant to be. Not traditional in the sense of dress codes, dogmas and learned behaviors. But feminine from having a healthy female body.

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

Everyone has his/her own choice. Mine is a particular type of women but since I do not want to be critisezed I do not say whom I am almost always attracted to.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Men are DYING to find women like this! Naturally feminine women will have men lining up and willing to do anything for them. Modern women don't get it. Your innate femininity is the key to every man's heart.

mark000h · Answer

They are, but women as you've described are harder and harder to find. Most have been horribly poisoned by feminism nowadays.

SeekingVirginWife · Answer

Always, A wife of noble character, who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.

007kingifrit · Answer

yea it's literally the most desirable type of women. we are sick of these emotionally frail whiney hors with dyed hair and bad values constantly complaining about things that are just native to the world

LigmaBallsack · Answer

I like girlbosses take it or leave it lol. I am a right wing libertarian for reference, socially centrist (emphasis on civil liberties), economically conservative.

genericname85 · Answer

most men are actually. the media doesn't portray the sort of person actual men want. they show an idealized and highly ideological picture of women that nobody actually wants.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

It were compatible then yes. Ngl tho I have a very high sex drive and most of those women don’t so that might be a struggle but it we could make it work then definitly. Those traits are generally seen as desirable among men

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

"women that are modest, feminine, and conservative" When I hear or read that, this is what I think of...

ImJustSomeGuyLol · Answer

Just going to add another yes to this list. Don't listen to any man/woman who tells you otherwise!

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Yea I like women like that but I also like other kinds of women too.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Not sure. What do you mean by "feminine"? Because I'm a guy. I grew up as a guy, and I've been a guy my whole life. And no offense, but feminine stuff has always been annoying to me.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would say I am attracted more to traditional women. They know how to handle themselves with poise. They can set you straight when you're out of a line.

slatyb · Answer

What do you mean by "conservative?" If you mean "believes virginity is a virtue" then no.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Modest and feminine are my types but not one that is hold down by traditions as if she's a damn robot and must follow what society says and expects that right there is a turn off for me.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Of course. It’s the lack of said traditional women who have made a lot of men give up on dating.

Shamalien · Answer

Yeah, but they won’t get as much attention cause most men just wanna fuck

notwoke · Answer

Yes, this is the only thing on my radar. If there are any left. Any woman with any liberal or feminist cancer is just for one night stands.

IsoUser · Answer

I definitely am because of their personal morals having said that I grew up in an openly nudist household so go figure lol

NorthwestRider · Answer

Lol I do not like conservative religious submissive women

Waldoe · Answer

Yes, I am. I can't speak for others, because I don't care... lol

Raaj4you · Answer

Yes absolutely. Conservative girl is a good match for a long term commitment.

SuperToad · Answer

Definitely. That’s the most attractive type of girl. The why would be hard to explain because I’m not sure why anyone would want anything else

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

That was black women 100%. Then they were brainwashed to hate black men

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. They just don't really exist anymore though. Lol

RobEurope · Answer

I like traditional girls who respect themselves and masculinity.

Slim57 · Answer

Hell yeah, they make the best partners and aren't entitled little brats

Anonymous · Answer

They are the only good women, but sadly are unicorns

Anonymous · Answer

I am because I'm sick of women with a high body count and is covered in tattoos.

NathanDavis · Answer

some people from the 50's are still alive... yes

JSmuve · Answer

Yes, if she's physically attractive enough.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

As long as she's not a crazy nutjob Republicuck

TheFlak38 · Answer

there are millions of thirsty men who are.

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah I am , that’s what I prefer

Nahid1707 · Answer

Do you mean religious way Lucy?

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Absolutely yes. Just hardly any out there to date.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

such women does not exist in 2022.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes that's the only woman I want

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I definitely am because I’m the same way myself

TheAfrikan · Answer

I need one like that as soon as possible.

Arthur8 · Answer

Yes. But I don’t believe they exist

Avicenna · Answer

Very much so, yes

Anonymous · Answer

Sure in fact this is my ideal wifey type.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Absolutely

Fuentes · Answer

Some are

MrTaboo · Answer

Yes, very much

anylolone · Answer

Yes. They are.

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