For girls who use dating apps like tinder and bumble, any others? how honest should the guy be there with you and for you? was my message bad?

[Anonymous]

Let me guess that was overwhelming to much?

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Help with that question pls

How to move on from a girl you known as a friend? is it normal to struggle with this specially if you two connected and get along very well? ↗

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

Ok so I read what was shared in the screenshot and I reflexively giggled and uttered, " I know this man did not just shared that he's on a dating app RIGHT after a break up?" that's like waving a huge, " please dont date me" flag. 😬

Dont be to eager to give out personal information like that unless its asked and fits the mood. Being overly open like that is a turn off most of the time. As it signals a lack of boundaries and that no one has to put in the necessary amount of work to get to know you more which they should. Since getting to know a person is a give and take dance/street/etc.

Next time just comment on the persons pics like " I really like your smile" or something and comment on whatever they shared in their bio with an addition of a question regarding it to open the floor for some open dialogue. Baby steps ok, TAKE BABY STEPS and good luck.

[KC203]

Honestly I never know what to say and usually strike out myself. I understand your pain.

[Asker]

I understand I was to much

I was as honest as I could been
I was looking for a relationship and dates actually

I can’t force any relationship to happen with a girl

[KC203]

Right. I have the same problem of being brutally honest even though that is what scares people off.

[Asker]

I’m glad we are similar with that. Could you answer the question in link at least?
Dating and relationships is so much more complicated and difficult these days

It actually was my first day on tinder app again a few days ago

Anyway, I appreciate everybody who has replied to the question

Next time I’ll say simple “hello “ i think even though that is boring you know?

[KC203]

Sure I don’t mind.
Also I agree hello is boring but the headache of worrying over writing more isn’t worth it lol

[Asker]

Some girls who replied simply wouldn’t like that

Do you think true love exists as of 2022?😊

[KC203]

Fr a lot of guys are like that too. I have the problem of things going seemingly well and then being ghosted.

Honestly I do.
Do you or are you losing hope?😢

[Asker]

i appreciate the honesty and yea i still think it does.
i hope you do find a good relationship, you seem smart for being 18 you are
You’ll find a good fun relationship 💜

[KC203]

Aw thank you
You seem like a nice and cool guy. I wish you all the best and happiness
If you’d like to continue talking or need someone to talk to feel free to message me 😁

[Asker]

You’re welcome and thanks

[DizzyDesii]

Its good he was honest but he probably shouldve specified if he's just looking for a rebound to have fun with since he just broke up

[Asker]

Thanks but I wasn’t
A relationship is preferred

[Texasgal95]

You should be your self. Being yourself you’re gonna get the right people if you start putting things that you know are true about yourself right now you’re going to get the wrong kind

[FictionalCharacter]

Um, that’s a nice honesty. But don’t use your baggage to break the ice.

[Asker]

I definitely won’t say that again 😂
It is a little embarrassing now tbh

[JosyJosy]

First day of tinder =/= made a new account. That's not honest at all

[Asker]

It actually was 😂
I had no idea what I was doing
I will give the app a go for a few weeks

[JosyJosy]

For your question. I prefer honesty, from the start, as polite and considerate as possible. That way we don't have to waste eachother's time and I get the impression that not all horny men are cavemen throwing rocks at eachother.

[Asker]

I felt I did to much with the greeting

What greeting should I say next time? Thanks

[JosyJosy]

Maybe comment on something you liked about my profile.

[Asker]

I’ll do that next time
Thank you

What should a guys bio have?😊

[JosyJosy]

What your looking for, what your hobbies are, things like that would be nice.

[Asker]

Ok I’ll give it a go and continue to give it a go

[WhitneySnow]

Your message isn’t too overwhelming

[Asker]

Thank you, i felt it was