If you’re on a dating app, what would you describe yourself to entice people to match with you?

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ZackBan · Accepted Answer

I would say something funny and witty but at thr same time sexual and polarizing.

When you have one second to get someone's attention you cannot afford play it too safe but then you can't be trashy either it's a delicate balance but it's an intersting social concept as well

Fuentes · Accepted Answer

I would say just say im tryna bust a nutt

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have been on dating apps and I always tried to describe myself honestly because I think most women can perceive sincerity and that counts for a lot!

Apope16 · Answer

My name is ____ I am an heir to a largw fortune. Just here to see whats out there."

MCheetah · Answer

(I'm not going to do that. Instead, what I will do is just show you what my last dating profile said. Okay?)

"I'm unlike anyone you'll ever meet before. Sometimes rarity can be cool, but without purpose. This isn't one of those times. Most of you won't be compatible with me. Some of you might be intrigued by me. Only a few of you will click with me. But all of you are welcome to message me.

I'm a [age] year old male. Originally from the East Coast US. I'm an English teacher for Korean kids, teens, and adults. I am dark skinned and have black hair and a husky build. I'm agnostic. I hate, hate, HATE politics! They're toxic and bring out the worst in people (especially on the more powerful side in the US right now.) And for the record, I'm an Independent and Centrist. I don't follow political ideologies and cults.

I have no kids myself (don't want any right now, but in the future, perhaps). Never married. I'm an INTJ if it matters, and an introvert. I liked nerdy things before "nerdy" became cool and infested with hipsters. I'm also a writer. I love gaming and I LOVED Mass Effect, back in the day. I like Pokemon. I like Saints Row and GTA. I like many Resident Evil games too (except RE6; please not RE6!).

The only requirements I have is that a girl is heterosexual, monogamous, and not hateful/woke. I am not attracted to queer women in any way, nor am I attracted to polyamorous/open relationship women.

Anyway, I am not much of a looker, by any means. But I look like this.

[pic links]

Oh, and by the way, I'm short for a man. Like 180cm. Sorry.

Anyway, nice to meet you."

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

At this point I don't even know... I've gotten a lot of matches without writing anything, few matches with a gym buddy type bio, a lot from "my enemies are after me," but it's all hit or miss. Most of your success at this app is based upon having quality photographs (not selfies), being in a populated area, and starting the app on a day that is heavily trafficked (Sunday)- your queue priority drops off after a week on Tinder.

To the last factor (queue priority/ position), the app gives you preference for the first few days meaning a girl you like will see your bio before other guys who swiped before you (otherwise it's in order, and a pretty girl will be swiping through hundreds before she even sees you).

As a guy, even if you're good looking, have good pics, and are in a city, I would strongly suggest splurging on Tinder Platinum simply for getting higher priority in the queue.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I am, and I don't
I fill out the bio, post my pics that is it.
Most women do not read profiles. At one time I had a very in depth description of who I was. After a few months of minimal responses. I erased my description, changed my pics, and the result responses was a good 5 times what I was getting before. Still every woman I met in person lied about virtually everything on their bios.
I'm not angry or bitter, I just find it best to not get your hopes up for online dating. I don't think most people are that serious about online dating. It's the equivalent of a drive through window. You're not getting a gourmet meal. You're just trying to satisfy hunger. 😆 I know that's a horrible analogy.

Sour-rose · Answer

O hell no. There's a reason I'm in a rose. Because the inside is something not many can handle or understand... sooo I'd let my name do it for me. And I'm lactose intolerant and different. That's all you need to know. The rest, we'll see how long you last

PJH359 · Answer

I don’t see any point in exaggerating anything or stretching the truth. It would only make things more difficult when you finally meet in person. Just be truthful and let the cards fall where they may. They’re either going to like you or not like you based on truth.

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

Hmm, I usually leave my pictures there to entice people on dating apps and no, I'm dont put up thirst traps. Too scared of people screenshotting them to save to do weird stuff to them or whatever. But I usually just answer the questions given on those apps to fill out the profile. For the BIO section I just simply share my intent dating-wise, two highlights of my personality, and one flaw I'm working on to prevent any potential grandiose sense of energy I may unintentionally emit.

hellomellow7 · Answer

Honestly your photos matter most. A lot of people don’t read your whole bio. But something eye catching.. like if you have a famous relative that everyone knows.. a hobby that makes you stand out.

Like for example these are ones unique to me:
I’m related to 4 presidents, and I like to work on cars :)

Crafteroon · Answer

Since saying you're tall is a poor description, I'd rather ask questions that show my interests. Favorite Wes Anderson film, favorite things to do in water, favorite dog breed, place to visit before you die, best book to revisit on a rainy day, most anticipated thing to do with a future partner, etc.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, you want to tailor it to your intended audience, the people you really want to date, not everyone. So I’m going to mention my interests, what I’ve gone for fun and show my sense of humor.

slatyb · Answer

I didn't describe myself to entice people to match with me. I tried to describe myself and my life honestly, so that the people who match with me are likely to be happy with like the real me, not someone I'm pretending to be.

Man-O-Metal · Answer

One time I tried thinking of things to make more girls interested in me on hinge… then I said, “well, if they don’t like who I really am, then they’ll hate me when they find out I exaggerated” 😂 I don’t use apps anymore. I prefer the natural approach.

Turtlewax1994 · Answer

I’d put this lol “Music enthusiast  Sports enthusiast Disneyland goer Traveler P. s. - Pineapples don’t belong on pizza” Can you please answer my most recent question?

Thecubs22 · Answer

I'm just a mellow chillfull guy, who loves to meet new people. I also try to entertain with being goffy and stupid humor. Hey I just be myself and just enjoy life. When it comes to challenges, I just make lemonade, and try to hit the curve balls. When I pass in the world, I'd rather be remembered as the funny soul, instead of being an asshole. Because the world is full of them, and negativity!

Slim57 · Answer

Hell if I know, women on them want too damn much, and then some more. My days with those are done, I found a girl off of them that grew up with me in my home town I never knew about and she's the complete opposite of all the women I've ever dealt with on dating apps. They're nothing but a waste of time and effort for average men

Slartybartfast · Answer

From my experience , it's really doesn't matter what a guy puts in his bio.. most women do not even fill them out.

asomeone · Answer

There are really only two considerations to keep in mind at all times:  1. Who do I want to date? 2. Am I being authentic?

bubblegunnn · Answer

Im stronger than the strongest drug you've ever had, you can mix them all together and I would still be twice as bad

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Maybe what you see is what you get lol. If you don't like it might as well leave now you aren't going to change me

Likes2drive · Answer

Is that you? I don’t really entice people, I’m just myself on there but still looking

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest I have never been on a quote " Dating App " Lol I guess I'm a Virgin "

sheikalana · Answer

When I was on dating apps I didn't have any bio description. I just had one photo and still managed to have plenty of matches.

NathanDavis · Answer

never ever tried online dating...  but my description would be absolute bait... and it would say  "I have cheesecake, message me for details..."  and then I would work it out from there, lol

Mitt15 · Answer

I would try to be myself , rather than faking and showing someone who i am not.

me112 · Answer

I"ll never chat with her/him on dating app i will just directly ask her/him to meet at genuine place and have nice talk about everything things.

GingerGuy · Answer

It doesn't seem to matter what I say, I still get nothing lol.

Shehnaz · Answer

After 31 replies from males and me being the first and only female to respond to this question, you could understand, that's a secret that girls usually wouldn't want to share or else it would make their profiles sound unnatural and made up.

Panzer21 · Answer

6'3. 3+ hour sessions in bed will not be uncommon. Maintains big spoon position throughout night.

dolemite89 · Answer

id put stupid cliche shit that bitter women in their 30’s put like “i’ve had my fun” and “if you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve my best” 🤣🤣🤣

Chthou95 · Answer

Why tf would i waste my time on a dating app to begin with? They suck for most men

Jackson619 · Answer

Wow your beautiful can I ask you something about your pix

Chris_u006 · Answer

Kind good looking guy with sense of humor. Looking for a casually cute woman in her best age (which could be any age from 25-35).

loveslongnails · Answer

Adventurous, kinky, affectionate and colors outside of the line. If you want "totally normal", keep looking. LOL

Freyke · Answer

A picture of me with the text 'I prefer talking instead of swiping'

Deku2009 · Answer

I am kind hearted, curious, shy , open minded, laidback, optimistic , hyperactive person , anime lover, video games lover , and flexible

Hanrej · Answer

"Imagine having all the benefits of a relationship with the same thrill and freedom of being single".

FrozenBanana · Answer

I don't put one and I don't read them. Tbh it probably lowers my chances of matching but I'd rather get to know someone through the chat or in person. It also leaves things opened to be talked about.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

Not sure but I’d definitely make my profile unappealing to home bodies.

Better_off_here · Answer

I would be say i am outgoing, i love to have fun and to laugh, i am a optimist and i am ready to try anything new :)

TrillXHippy · Answer

When I describe myself it’s most likely going to be negative so I’d rather not say. Staying positive

shortster · Answer

I am open and honest. Why waste time with someone who won't work?

Waldoe · Answer

I would say "Wealthy older gentleman, seeking exciting young companion that likes to travel"

ACR130 · Answer

I'm honest and straight forward. Seems to make girls run away

MrPickles13 · Answer

Gonna be honest i have tried with little to no success with that.

In_Trance · Answer

Don't use phrases like "looking for a relationship"

Jltakk · Answer

I just describe myself honestly. I don't treat dating like marketing

Jouth · Answer

I pretty cool and my dick is really really small. Always good to have a surprise.

dragoblack · Answer

I usually give basic info like height, sexuality (I'm demisexual/DemiRomantic), a few of my hobbies, and some positive aspects about myself, along with some deal breakers... sadly I'm rarely getting matches since I'm not looking for hookups.

rebeliouse · Answer

@pinay_ako dont need to go on dating app found my perfect match in that pic she's amazing :D

DevinAM · Answer

If I knew what to write I'd probably be doing better.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

My profile description isn't meant to attract people. It's meant to turn them away. It's how I filter them out.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

So what are you looking for then, at 40? (yes, you said not yet, but lets call a spade a spade here, troll) Uhhh, I don't know what I would say

jamesgoldman · Answer

Think the term I used at the time was silveroholic

Crankor · Answer

I was never good at advertising myself. For a guy it seems to matter more about what you say in a message than it does in your profile anyways

maximumpower · Answer

verbal, mental, then visual. jump straight to the latter and you send a very strong signal that you're desperate.

Nahid1707 · Answer

i would prefer dating in real life sorry not sorry 😊

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Depends on what your profile says.

bepis_ · Answer

I can touch my nose with my tongue

sp33d · Answer

"Signed up due to a side ad on PornHub"

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