It’s better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

[Leah_Monet]

What you guys think?
Any comments

[Ευδεμονια]

I’ve loved and lost every time. I think that is a true suffering also because I never felt loved, these negative experiences made me feel discouraged and demotivated towards new dating adventures. So I can say that never loved at all would be the best.

On the other hand, I couldn’t say this without having experienced the rejectionof my love, I wouldn’t have grown and I wouldn’t have changed.

[Jamie05rhs]

That depends how far you went. I won't get married to someone unless I know they're The One. But I'm pretty open to going on dates with just about anyone, as long as I think there's a reasonable possibility of us maybe being good together. And if we go on a few dates and then decide to not go on any more dates, no biggie!

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Anonymous]

Hmm I don't know for me I became co dependent on my feelings ever since getting with my first guy.
I was just thinking about this today if I was better before getting with someone and I would say more so then not. But do I regret the experience no there was beautiful times and I'm thankful to have had them.

[Anonymous]

For me yeah. I learned a lot about myself and about other people from being in love and losing the person that I love.

[WindAtMyBack]

My lost loves are some of my best memories. I might have lost, but I would not give up those memories.

To never have loved at all... I can't imagine that.

[serious]

It is better never to have loved at all. In fact the best.

[Crankor]

Id say yes. Even if it doesn't work out. It's better to know what it is from experience. But if you continually go through that then that's not the fault of the experience which people tend to blame

[Passing_by]

I'd say the former. It's been a wonderful experience for me but no matter how unfortunate parting ways was, it's still something I wouldn't want to miss at all.

[Anonymous]

Disagree.
I never love, ergo I can never lose.
I think it's by far preferrable. When you come right down to it everyone is a disappointment. It's much better to be alone with no surprises.🙂

[lofii]

Nah.

Your experience could have been toxic and subsequently you could translate some new toxic traits in your new relationships