Guys, how do you feel about women making the first move to get with you? Is that a turn off/on? (Page 2)

Question

Ladies, would you make the first move if your eye candy is either too shy/clueless that you want him bad? What would you to let him know you want him? Or wait for him instead? Or just move on?

KostasKouvalis · Answer

That happened to me yesterday actually, and it's the greatest thing ever!

serious · Answer

Feel? Nothing to feel. I would appreciate her courage and effort. However, I would eventually decline it, I would refuse her politely.

GingerGuy · Answer

If it ever happened lol, it would be a huge turn on! Show CONFIDENCE! Which is attractive. I mean, you women like us to have that, same back at ya! lol

zagor · Answer

If it is genuine, it's great. It is so hard to try and figure things out otherwise.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Just let’s me know she in interested, how could that ever be a turn off?

grkmanga · Answer

If girls want to make the first move.. why not ! It's straight up so it's all good!

DWornock · Answer

It is a girl's responsibility to make the first move.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I am all for this. Come and make a move on me, and I’ll show you. ;)  It is incredibly flattering to a man to have a woman make the first move.

Paul09 · Answer

Id be surprised, impressed and blush lol. I actually wish more women would ask men out.

msc545 · Answer

I like it since it means I have a lot less work to do

ElvenMr · Answer

It's cool and it's a "turn on" actually. I always love it when it happens.

prosmind · Answer

Women making first move are definitely very confident.

TrillXHippy · Answer

For me that’s a turn on because it’s extremely rare for it to happen

luckyguy1998 · Answer

I would love it cause I've been making the first move so many time it would be very nice to have a woman make the first move

jbobbio57 · Answer

I feel fine about it. a lot of woman makes the moves and end up marrying the guy they want.

qwert1234 · Answer

I've had this when I was in high-school. She's not my type but it's fine. Felt like an asshole rejecting but hey, what else can I say.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I am fine with it. It's kind of a nice change being the one that is added out. It makes you feel wanted

KaDooKan · Answer

women that make the first move already hit the wall in my sxperience

Jltakk · Answer

I prefer it. Shows that they're honest about what they want.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I say go for it.  But it in the 29 years I’ve been around I’ve only ever seen one actually do it.

Berethor · Answer

It can be cool, but usually girls who are doing it are hos, and I don't like hos.

CountryWanderer · Answer

My now wife asked me out first

TheSissy · Answer

I prefer when women make the first move, huge turn on.

jonny9086 · Answer

Its a turn on, but playing games is a big turn off.

nerdbrain · Answer

A girl making the first move would be the biggest turn on for me because I'm very introverted.

ChrisMike1919 · Answer

For me it wouldn't be a turn off. If she's courageous, I admire and respect that.

kkc2018 · Answer

My wife is the only person who ever went first so obv that went well. She put in the work and effort to message me, ask me on a date, and have conversation. It was great and I loved her confidence and directness.

Kelly6 · Answer

I make first moves mostly

ColoradoKid · Answer

I would love it. It saves some of us the time and heart break 💔 of finding the woman that likes us.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

It's always been like that for me and I like it because why not

Staximus · Answer

I like it because I know where I stand with her. Too many women will not even act interested and then wonder why guys never ask them out.

Juxtapose · Answer

I only ever really get dates like that because I am autistic so I appreciate female initiative a fuckton!

jasco · Answer

I don't feel anything unless she's extremely beautiful talented which I would find odd that she ask me out

Better_off_here · Answer

i love it i as a shy guy would love if a woman made the move on me and let me know she is interested in me.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's definitely a turn-on. It makes me respect her SO much more!

bi-standard · Answer

id say that 75 percent of guys are oblivious and if you want him you better make the first move

nawtee_me · Answer

I am all for it, some girls are hard to read and her letting me know helps a lot.

MrTaboo · Answer

In today's world of false sexual harassment claims. Yes we would.

TallnBig · Answer

It's happened Was and am fine with it A lot less now that I'm older Stay young

Sixgunsound · Answer

If we’re both interested I don’t see why not.

MrJMM · Answer

Fine, but only if I know the person and I’m comfortable with that person.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I'd love it as long as She doesn't make me feel embarrassed.

lofii · Answer

It throws me off and makes me run for the hills lol

Jerre · Answer

That is a big turn-on for me. Would get me hard real quick.

dolemite89 · Answer

i respect when girls have the guts to make the first move

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

If a bitch comes up to me and offers the pussy, I will certainly take it.

RafaRodri · Answer

This would really make life considerably easier

Fa1con · Answer

Overwhelmingly it is a positive thing to me

Wajahat007 · Answer

A definite turn on for sure!

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

It feels so nice, mostly flattering

Hima_pareek · Answer

Yes it is a turn on because girls with guts is all we need

Slim57 · Answer

I think it's nonexistent for average guys but I'd be alright with it

jahaims · Answer

It's fine. That's how I met my wife

baserunner611 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it

StickStickity13 · Answer

Only if I think she's attractive

anton_dee · Answer

Girl makes the first move is a turn on

lawhawk · Answer

Its perfectly fine with me.

jirwin7979 · Answer

i think it is nice if it ever happens

bananathunder · Answer

i like it... it can be very sexy in my opinion

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