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Have you ever heard of the Jeffrey Dahmer murder case.
I mean it's kind of the same idea except for it's not young women it's young men but it's the basic idea.
Jeffrey Dahmer went to a local gay bar and would pick up a gay men because he was gay and then he would commit to Acts before then murdering them.
The idea of people naively following strangers to their houses or inviting strangers into their houses is far from now I feel like there's been a few horror movie plots around that idea actually. Though that said it's a lot easier to do things online including dating and socializing and things like that and it feels safer so people let their guard down. But it doesn't just apply to the internet literally any place where people let down their guard is dangerous. You go to a gay bar as a gay man and you go over to someone's house you're thinking to get laid you're not thinking to get stabbed to death hey guess what your Jeffrey Dahmer's new victim.
Anyway you get the point bad people do bad things when people are too comfortable in a situation bad people have an easier time doing bad things to them.
You provide good evidence thank you. I never heard of that case. People are crazy we must stay safe.
There's actually a few horror movies which are based off of actual cases which follows similar concepts
“Back in my day” your 21 your day hasn’t come yet lmao.
It’s not trust in dating apps it’s that women think their untouchable. 5’ 4” woman slaps a 6’ 2” man and don’t expect consequences. They accuse men of rape because THEY had too much to drink and regret their decisions. They expect equality but special treatment. Claim to be victims while being oppressors.
They just don’t understand consequence anymore. Too many safety nets protecting women these days as a woman it’s almost impossible to fail completely. So when the time comes to be safe… they dress like whores and expect to be treated like ladies… They complain about the consequences but still commit the same acts like promiscuity and unsafe sex… They still act like uptight bitches not understanding men are not behind them protecting them. Disappointing.
Women today lack accountability. I don’t think it’s all women but it’s the women I see on social media, it’s women on tv, it’s women I’ve seen in my life save a few…
I'm actually 29 I was born in 1993.
If you meet a stranger at a bar you also can't tell if they're a murderer or not. Ted Bundy was also a very nice and a charismatic guy, everyone seemed to love him.
Just before covid I lost my first boyfriend and I wanted to date some new people because i was feeling lonely, but I didn't have any place to meet people because covid closed everything. That why I put my trust in dating apps.
I never had any issues with it. I just trust my gut when talking with someone, if it doesn't feel right I won't meet them. And I want to talk for a bit first before meeting them and maybe call them.
You have to meet a stranger to get to know them, be it online or in person the first time.
People should be safe, first several times for me is always a public place. Don't know why anyone would go for a private meeting with a stranger, that seems risky.
That's because our generation knows better and we were always self carious now a days 21 year olds are dating 40 year old teachers. Our generation would had gone to the counselor or principal office to file a complaint.
Your profile says your 21, so... little confused on that part.
I'm actually 29 this site can be crazy at times I must had punch a wrong key by accident.
Right, yeah if you contact them you can have your birthday changed one time only... FAQ's talk about it, if you feel like it. Thanks
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Because it´s where the guys went, like most young guys don´t approach a woman on a regular basis. So where do you wanna go for dating if all you don´t have a male friends and there aren´t social activities where you can get to know a guy.
Chances are low that it will happen randomly. Because guys learned that online dating is more comfortable and it puts the woman in a more pro-active role, most of us prefer that.
Back in our day I remember how girls went to Warped Tour with all of these amazing rock bands and or mutual friends would introduce us to their friends. Times had changed like crazy.
Warped tour was amazing. So were some of the other festivals. Too bad all that shits canceled and doesn't seem to be coming back.
@bamesjond0069 yes I agree 2005-2014 were awesome years. What bands did you like?
the internet gave both sides many more options to pick from outside of their local dating pool. since before it you had to travel to new places to meet other possible partners. so many couples would typically meet in middle school, high school or college and date for a number of years before settling down.
now they can just swipe right on someone's dating profile and meet up to have sex before never seeing them again.
Yes Sir, It is sad and ashamed younger woman had lost respect for them selfs. Back when you were in highschool woman did had class.
when I was in high school the internet was still mostly dial up or DSL. so online dating wasn't in full swing yet. because smart phones didn't come out until 5-10 years later.
there was a few dating sites or message boards but they got far less traffic then modern apps do.
also so many girls dress like street walkers these days due to the whole body positive movement being pushed by media and celebrities.
It's scary the outfit look like a 👙 swimming suit. Perhaps I'm not sure why I wasn't lien that. People teachers would called me an old soul .
I prefer a girl who wears more modest/conservative clothing that flatters her figure well out in public. She shouldn’t need to wear reveling clothes or show most of her skin to look/feel attractive. Best to save the reveling clothing for more private settings with her partner.
I agree with you I remembered a website called Kupika it was a playground for pedophiles on it, the site was disturbing as well also there was a male off of there
who did 10 years in prison for communicating with teenage females he got arrested after he was caught in the State of Georgia USA for trying to meet a 16-year-old female who was an undercover female police officer, they seized his computers, cell phones, emails all evidence to show all the teenage females he was talking to, now the website was taken down and the owner no longer had time to keep up with it, yes it makes you wonder why they want to show their body on the Internet and on these dating apps it makes no sense
There are dangers in EVERYTHING even meeting people in person.
I met this one chic with her friend who knew my two buddies one night in the city. Long story short, the blonde chic told my buddy Chris that she wanted to jump my bone. She and I started flirting and then we went back to her place. I even asked her if she was single on the way there and she said yes. After we had sex twice, her ex-bf came there drunk and he busted in the door. We were fighting and he was trying to hit me with his glass beer bottle. She started screaming and called the police, so he (and his drunk buddy) left real quick before the police got there.
The apps. don't put you in anymore danger than real life meet-ups. Don't live in fear and cower, just make sure you know the person better before you jump the gun.
Because this is how dating/meeting people works these days. Years ago before dating sites were a thing, people met at bars, clubs, restaurants etc. Online dating is convenient, quick, easy and most importantly…you can be whomever you want to be online. Build trust and make someone believe and fall for anything. A vulnerable persons sees this as the perfect match or fairytale and throw themselves into whatever game this is. And that’s how people come up missing or worse.
Becuase there isn't any other way to meet a match as an adult, and you can meet someone just as dangerous in the real world.
I'd trust some girl I met online in a gaming lobby far more than one I met in a bar (I don't trust anyone who drinks alcohol and thinks a good time is sitting there watching sports or getting wasted.
Because due to over exposure to online life they have lost faith in real life.
Yes girl I remember back when we were in highschool if a guy over texted us like 80 times we were like this guy is a red flag or we would file restraining order on jerks not these 21 year olds they love the attention.
Yes you took the words right out of my mouth. I agree these girl's even brag about it.
Many young girls are naive, the internet is not a very well regulated or always trustworthy way to communicate with people, even murderers will use it to find their victims.
Thank you exactly. Younger woman go all crazy about omg he is so cute and they put 100%trust on a stranger they don't know.
True. Sometimes. Brazilian Jiu-jitsu, level up in that and most women can make an educated guess weather they can afford to trust a stranger, but the nut cases out there have been known to use drugs as well, to subdue their victims.
If you use any online dating website, I can find
Your home address,
Your family members,
Your work location
Your financial information
Your active coordinates where you travel.
If you depend on websites to take care of your privacy, you deserve everything that's coming for you. The violence and suffering will continue until they take responsibility.
It's incredibly stupid, but all I can say is the youths hunger for thrill and adventure. I'm not exactly the settle down type of women, I'm also for having fun — but I'd not place my trust in someone I met on the internet. Too risky. I'd rather go for a friend, or a classmate, or even coworker. Somebody I know.
I know right. Nowadays such teen girls are like as if they don't have a brain. And they dress really inappropriate. My ex best friend was like that.
You act way more mature then a 21 year old good job. I see a bright future in you. Your smart girl.
Thank you :)
Naivety. A lot of women strongly overestimate their ability to feel a situation out.
Young women are typically really dumb that's why. Next question?🤣
I think I found best answer. 👍
🤣 It's frustrating being a guy and seeing them make mistakes. Young people in general do dumb things. Hopefully they're not life changing and hopefully they learn from them.
What's really aggravating is seeing the ones my age that continue to make the same mistakes. It's not cute anymore. If it ever was. 🤣
Mostly woman your age act more civilized and normal. Now a days younger woman nope they don't care at all I wouldn't be surprised if they ended up doing the same mistake when they are 80 years old 😂
You'd hope that older women act normal. But this site is proof that a lot still don't. 🤣
Trust and faith? Because the outside world is too hard. But to find love on an app seems MUCH easier... i bet
Because it’s the only way I can meet people or talk to people so online is my life.
I’m 30 and dating was pretty much the same in my early 20s. Girls used dating apps left and right when I was in college.
Honestly you look a lot more younger and better then a 21 year old.
That's true. Their recklessness will get them killed eventually.
You trusted your cab driver , neighbor, Dr they were all strangers too
Not really I have my own truck paid off. I live far from neighbors and the doctor I have I've know from years before a family friend doctor.
Possible childhood truama is fresh, the need for love and validation is high.
I miss the good old days. Back in my day we didn’t have dating apps.
Which days are you referring to? You were 16 when tinder came out.
@Subarugirl Elementary school
you mean back in like 2003? The first dating site came out in 1993... that would have been about 3 years before you were even born.
@Subarugirl smh my head
Lol then again I’ve never known a 7 year old to use a dating app
CT_CD hey I remember you , You been on this site for literally yearssss! Lol
CT_CD I bet your mom looks way more younger then a 25 year old.
More people are killed by people they know than by strangers when it comes to relationships.
Cuz they’re naive to this world. I went through this before that out so much trust in a guy I met on dating app then he cheated
what do you mean "trust"? are they putting their social security number up on dating sites?
Not really I mean as in going over to the people's apartments when they barely met them that same day.
i've never met a girl on a dating site who'd agree to go to "someones appartment" on the first date. I don't know. maybe cause i don't date dumb fucks. but the girls i date wanted to meet me in some public location for the first time, which i find perfectly reasonable.
Okay but they are well behaved woman your age that actually knows better let's be honestly all 20 year olds are stupid.
xD i've been using dating sites for quite some time. not just since i'm as old as i am today.
Okay but their is a difference your generation act way more mature and woman sure knew how to have self respect. Now a days 20 year olds have the mindset of a 3year old. They all act stupid.
and yeah sure. there's dumb fucks everywhere. specially on dating sites, cause normal people manage to find love in real live ( i'm fully aware that i'm part of the people i'm talking bad about here). so i'd expect some of those idiots to not have any standards and go home to someone in desparation. shit happens. not everyone can be intelligent. natural selection will sort those out. that's how i see it. not that i condone crime or violence or whatever. just saying. if you're dumb enough not to wera a seatbelt while driving, natural selection will likely sort you out. that's life.
I'm not jelous about younger woman but they're crazy they dress like hookers and yet they exposed them self into danger they have multiple sex partners. Back in the 90s you never seen woman going all that crazy.
you're 21 xD what are you talking about? you are that generation. you absolutely saw women go crazy like this in the 90s. you know what the difference was in the 90s actually? the media had not yet started their hate campeign on masculinity. so you wouldn't see some sensational news about some guy raping some girl from a dating site every other day, even though that certainly didn't happen any less then.
like the media is fear mongering about so much stupid shit that isn't even a "real" problem. i mean you probably heard about this bullshit thing about rape culture and how 1 in 5 girls is raped. this is utter bullshit. i'm in social science and i see this shit happening, where they "survey" people about if a man ever behaved sexually inappropriately in their presence and then spin that into rape, making their 1 in 5 claims. that shit can only survive in the media/social media cause nobody cares about actual statistic and science there. they just care for views.
I'm actually 29 but people always tell me I look 18. I look way more beautiful then a 21 year old.
ah ok. well anyway. i think problems didn't shift. just the attention to things did.
FYI Younger woman are the stupid ones of all generation history. Back in the 90s woman spend literally years dating the same guy now woman just bounce from dude to dude in days they aren't wife material what part did you not get? You know I don't understand what 30 year old men see in a stupid 21 year old when they can't cook , clean all they want to do is party still live at mommy and daddy and make mommy clean their room and cook for them. 21 year olds do not know what discipline means they all need a wipe in their slutty butts. I always cook and clean if I dare told my mom I didn't want to mop the floor I would get a huge smacks with the shoe.
i don't buy into this narrative. to me it seems like you're comparing modern outliers to the past average. i mean for one women today are as formally educated as they were never before inhistory. like they actually overtook men on campuses when it comes to performance. that wasn't the case back in the 90s. so i really don't know what you're basing this argument on other then the "in the past everything was better" crap xD which i'm certainly not a stranger to. but like if you really think rationally, i think things have not gotten worse. we've just grown old :D
My point is woman your generation had self respect they didn't go out all dressed like hookers at the time.
So this is why we get on the news about bad things happening to younger woman. Parents oh she's looks so cute. No grab that brat slapped her in the face tell her to dress appropriately. It's carzy.
yeah maybe the standards for decent dressed have changed. i don't see that as a negative thing or a bad thing. but i do observe that too.
i mean the thing is if you look at the numbers, rape of women in collage age has not risen. it has actually gone down since the 90s.
By the way you look 21 .
XD it's only a cropped picture. Maybe that's why.
Probably no worse than meeting a stranger in a bar or any of the other places people go to meet. You could meet someone dangerous in church.
Just because they dress to express themselves does NOT mean that don't have self respect or are dressing inappropriate. You are 21. Not much has changed so calm down
Child I'm actually 29.
Yet you act like you're 80. Calm down old woman
Old excuse me people always tell me I look 18. You know a 30 year old can be way more fit then a fat 21 year old. One of my friends she is 45 but she looks 25. So no I don't look 80.
Yeah and I'm called 15. Get over yourself
Whatever Karen.
You sound bitter because people look and act better than you
Not at all woman your age are the problem always breaking marriages and taking married men. Actually my 38 year old best friend I bet looks way more better and younger then you.
Sweetheart, it's not our fault you're so insecure your man will leave you for someone better. So once more, calm down old woman and settle for what you've got. If you're trying to claim you look better than it means you obviously don't. Just stop talking already and consider yourself washed up. No one wants a woman that smells like the sea like you ❤️ m'kay? Now hush
Besides, that's why Juan Longoria left you. Isn't it? You're really bitter about that because he doesn't find you attractive anymore. So once more, see ya toots!
Woman in their 49's look way more younger then a how your age. Sir your ass down.
Lol you're 21... back in your day was like 2019...
Well Ng I'm a lot older then you I am actually 29 . I was born in 1993
Then why do you have your profile set to 21? You think 4 years is a lot older? According to you you would have been 19 when Tinder started… 2011 wasn’t really all that different… You must not remember what Facebook was like back then.
The point here is woman your age and younger are nothing but spoiled brats you have no respect for much older people. I am glad I was raised right by my mom and glad I wasn't spoiled like people your age. Actually 21 and 29 is 8 years difference not 4 I am not sure where you got that from. Also woman your age hooking up with much older men breaking marriages home wrecker's. The way you younger woman dress it's scary you all dressed like hookers trash.
I bet you don't know how to cook or clean all you do is get drunk hit the clubs like the rest of woman your age do instead of taking care of housework.
you're 4 years older than me.. that's really not that much of an age gap. Im 25 years old, my husband and I own a house, my son attends a private school. I have been working for least decade, and in the automotive industry for nearly 7 years now and I would be willing to bet that my cooking, sewing and cleaning skills are better than yours... so take your superiority complex, and that ugly ass attitude and have a seat honey.
@Alwaysreckles93 If you dislike younger women so much, why are you posing as one?
@Jamie05rhs ooh valid point
@Jamie05rhs because I can.
Subarugirl Well he isn't talking to you now our is he? Are you trying to hook up with him? Yeah all women your age are sluts. A 45 year old woman looks much younger then you.
I said he had a valid point... because he does... and that made you think that I want to sleep with him? Then you try to insult me? Are you okay?
That's rich coming from a 29 year old divorced woman who is still working in retail and pretending to be a 21 year old... you should get back on your meds...
@Alwayreckles93 No, she's not trying to hook up with me. Geez! We are friends; that is all.
(Well, sometimes frienemies lol. But I'm trying to be nice when I can. 😅 )
And you didn't need to insult her, by the way.
(Plus, everything you said is false anyway.)
And nice burn, @Subarugirl. Lol
Most young people are naive, due to age.
U Karen can't accept that young woman r better 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
U r old!!!
Everyone thinks they are invincible.
They are attracted to criminals bruh
Back in your day... LOL! When was that, 2018?
That's what I said haha turns our she actually 29.. so back in her day would have been like 2011
@Subarugirl Good eye!
Anyone who does woman or man is hella stupid
Back in your day? Are you really 21 and divorced?
I'm about to be 30 actually.
Why does ANYONE put such loyalty in them
Lol ur username
And it says 21 but she says “back in my day”.
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for the same reason anyone else would
I could NEVER… lol
Young dumb and broke
good question lol
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