Would you end it first?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating a coworker and I can feel him pulling away slowly. He's hinted that he's not looking for a serious relationship.

He used to text me all day and night and always responded to texts. Now, he can go a day, now and then , without texting and doesn't always respond to my last message, even though he's read it.

Should i end it before he does, or wait and enjoy it while it lasts? What would you do and why?

[EmmaMary]

Why continue suffering with misery... End it now and start enjoying life properly.

[Asker]

I've grown too attached to him and struggling to end it. But I know it's the right thing to do. Thank you

[EmmaMary]

Remember "No Pain No Gain".

Now take a deep breath darling, do it, and get it over and done with once and for all... Good Luck. x

[Asker]

Thank so much ❤x

[EmmaMary]

🤞🤞🤞❤

[Asker]

If he went out with friends he always texted me when he got home, even if it was 1am. He sent the last text yesterday, about 4pm. I responded right away, but he still hasn't texted and it's 11am now. It's an though he's deliberately slowly leaving it linger and linger before texting. I work with him, so it'll be award in word if I dint hear from him or if he hardly messages before I see him in work.😕

[Asker]

Longer*

[Asker]

Sorry for typos

[EmmaMary]

Forget the typos... You're now trying to making all the excuses under the sun... Sorry, but you know in your heart that I'm right.

Purely out of curiosity, just how long have you been "dating" and has it gone further than just this?

[Asker]

I do know you're right. 😩

We have been seeing each other for about 3 months. We've kissed but nothing more than that.

[EmmaMary]

In that case... PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... NOW.

Please don't get me wrong, I know, realise and appreciate that it's easier said than done... I'm just trying to get you being more confident and assertive. ❤

[Asker]

I'm going to reflect on what you've said and I know what I've got to do. No matter how much it hurts. Thank you for taking the time to help. I really do appreciate it ❤

[EmmaMary]

You are so very, very welcome indeed.

I do hope you will let me know, either here or in a PM, the outcome, and please do remember where I am. 🤞❤

[Asker]

thank you. I'll let you know.

He had been online and saw my message. So i messaged him to say good morning, and he did respond, but he's definitely ghosting me. I'll pull myself together over the weekend and I will end it because it's destroying me inside. I have a feeling he may be dating someone else and is trying to brush me off to let me down gently. I'll let you know what happens. I feel a little better venting to you. Thank you for listening

[EmmaMary]

That's good to know, and once again you are so very, very welcome. x

[Asker]

Just thought I'd give you an update

Feel heartbroken 😢he only texted me twice yesterday. So i asked him if everything is OK and he's met has starting to chat to a girl, and he wants to date her. So it's over between us. He said hell still keep on contact, but what's the point. I am going to phone in sick in work because I can't deal with seeing him in work just ust. In too heartbroken. I just can't eat or sleep at all. Just don't know why I wasn't good enough for him.

[Asker]

can i message you?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHGirl. x

[Asker]

I have followed you. I'd it OK if I message you. Just need someone to confide in

[EmmaMary]

I followed you back and I'm still awaiting to receive a PM from you.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Yes you should end it, and stop getting involved with co workers.

[In_Trance]

yeah