If he was truly interested, your date would be first priority. The fact that he only does this at night almost seems like he's trying to get lucky with you.
Cousin's first birthday? Please! This isn't a cousin he hangs out with! Lamest excuse I've EVER heard. And "I FORGOT." Also pathetic. If he forgot, it's not important.
Cut this dude loose and look elsewhere. He's just filling his time with you. Not planning to be with you on reasonable dates during normal hours. Something's off and you don't have time to figure out what it is.
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he's not ready to date or he's not all that into you but too sensitive to say so.
Either way. I dont ask, I give men 2-3 weeks from exchanging numbers to take me on a date or I block/delete them. Having that as a standard helps so you don't linger on time wasters.
Id focus on other men, ignore him dont respond to his messages..
It could be a valid reason IF he had brought it up and told you and rescheduled. By him saying nothing until after you asked him if you were still getting together it seems like he isn't putting much importance or thought into things or considering you. If you had said nothing would he have even told you or would you have just been waiting around all night waiting for a call?
You should try setting up a place to go out on a date when you're both available. If he bails then you should rethink about your relationship with him. It is possible that he forgot about the birthday party until the last minute. Give him the benefit of the doubt this time.
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As long as he told you ahead of time... Some things happen out of our control. If he does it all the time then ask him the question.
If he was interested he would show up as promised. A good guy won't leave you wondering what's happening.
What does he do for work? Days? Nights? How long have you known him? Did you already sleep together? These are just legitimate questions about his schedule. Does he have a good buzz going when you see him?
It could be legit. If he does it again it becomes a problem
Well if it's the first time then let it slide, make plans for another time
It doesn't sound like he's too keen on "dating" but more "hanging out".
If it becomes a more regular pattern then he definitely wouldn’t be interested however this is just one incident after all
Not valid, Id rather hang out with you all night than some Cousins birth day, lol.
totally he's interested
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