For starters, you gotta go somewhere. You won't meet anybody if you never go anywhere. What about coffee shops, the mall, the gym? There are a ton of places that you aren't thinking of. I'm with you on the dating app thing. I don't like em either. I prefer asking out girls in real life. I've had WAY more success with that. I know you don't really want to hear this, but you HAVE TO go outside of your comfort zone. Asking out girls in public is completely outside my comfort zone. But I do it because I want to meet and go out with a nice girl. Yes it's nerve racking and embarrassing, but if I don't do it, nothing gets accomplished. Start off with places you feel most comfortable with. Watch videos on how to flirt with your crush. There's material out there for everyone. Just surf and find what works for you. And don't be afraid to get uncomfortable. If we all just did what made us feel cozy, the species would die out.
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It’s hard. I’ve moved around the country and it’s not easy to meet people everywhere. Dating has been tough. I’ve done the sites and even done the bars. The girls I meet at bars seem to always end up being trash. (Not surprised…) The sites I feel like they are just a mess and all the leftovers…. There just isn’t a great answer. I try to just befriend anyone I can. Start there. Go out. Meet their friends. I’m brand new to the NYC area and my realtor I used is throwing a party I’m going to attend. Might be a bust but I figure it’s a party for his clients so they can at least afford a house so they must have good jobs, and if they have good jobs they must be socially normal…. But we will find out. Also look for clubs or events.
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If you have an autism spectrum disorder then there might be social groups for people like you. Those can be extremely helpful. I found my girlfriend through one, but it definitely wasn't my intention to find her through that. I did intend for it bv to help me find a girlfriend. Oh, and I should mention I will probably marry this girlfriend. We're approaching 4 years and still love each other.
Go on meetup. com and make a profile. Find a group to do a common activity. You'll meet other people socially as a group and perhaps one will be a guy or will become a friend who knows a guy.
You need to first decide what kind of guy s you want to meet. Lots of guys don’t frequent those places
1. Join a local group/club/team and meet other people who share the same interests. Start by expanding your social circle, not by specifically looking for a date.
2. Don't be so hard on yourself.- u
Seems u are preventing any chance to get a partner so clearly u need to change somthing
Library find a guy you like find out what he's reading then show interest in what he likes! then try and develop an interest in what he likes if he's working out.
I managed to meet someone on an app who Seems to be a potential long-term.
I have a similar don't get out much issue because I have social anxiety & don't have my own car yet.I’d start with what I enjoy doing and meet someone that way
If you have a pussy try going outside. . Someone is going to try and get at you
Join a bowling league. Go to church. Game nights at a local board game store.
MertUp groups and like hobbies
How do you expect to meet men, if you're shy
Meet them doing the things you like doing
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