How can I meet guys if I'm too shy, and I don't like dance clubs or bars?

[Anonymous]

I also don't have friends that would introduce me someone. And I don't like much dating apps because it's too hard to find someone who doesn't want just sex, they don't take me enough seriously because I was found in an app. Anyways I'm very sad bc I fell in love very hard.. I have a deep connection with a guy I met in omegle and lives nearby, but I think he will never fall in love like me, because I'm too stupid that I fall in love with someone who I found on a stupid site, I didn't meant to.. I haven't fallen in love for five years before him but I'm trying to fall out of love because I know guys don't take seriously girls who they find on Omegle. So I don't have much of a chance to have a relationship right? Because I'm a fucking anti social , I go nowhere, I don't like dance clubs, bars , I go no place where I could meet a guy, like there's no chance , I just can't find a new place, I think there is no other right?

[Man-O-Metal]

For starters, you gotta go somewhere. You won't meet anybody if you never go anywhere. What about coffee shops, the mall, the gym? There are a ton of places that you aren't thinking of. I'm with you on the dating app thing. I don't like em either. I prefer asking out girls in real life. I've had WAY more success with that. I know you don't really want to hear this, but you HAVE TO go outside of your comfort zone. Asking out girls in public is completely outside my comfort zone. But I do it because I want to meet and go out with a nice girl. Yes it's nerve racking and embarrassing, but if I don't do it, nothing gets accomplished. Start off with places you feel most comfortable with. Watch videos on how to flirt with your crush. There's material out there for everyone. Just surf and find what works for you. And don't be afraid to get uncomfortable. If we all just did what made us feel cozy, the species would die out.

[Asker]

Yeah the thing is that I'm a girl and I'm very shy, I don't dare and will never dare to approach to guys , and guys don't approach to u at coffee shops or the mall, and I don't do gym. I should go to a bar they say but I hate bars, I would have to go alone because I have only guy friends, and with guy friends they don't dare to approach u. Then I don't like dance clubs. There is no other option apart of all the ones I've mentioned right? I guess I would have to stick to tinder till I have some luck

[Caliguy88]

It’s hard. I’ve moved around the country and it’s not easy to meet people everywhere. Dating has been tough. I’ve done the sites and even done the bars. The girls I meet at bars seem to always end up being trash. (Not surprised…) The sites I feel like they are just a mess and all the leftovers…. There just isn’t a great answer. I try to just befriend anyone I can. Start there. Go out. Meet their friends. I’m brand new to the NYC area and my realtor I used is throwing a party I’m going to attend. Might be a bust but I figure it’s a party for his clients so they can at least afford a house so they must have good jobs, and if they have good jobs they must be socially normal…. But we will find out. Also look for clubs or events.

[Twalli]

If you have an autism spectrum disorder then there might be social groups for people like you. Those can be extremely helpful. I found my girlfriend through one, but it definitely wasn't my intention to find her through that. I did intend for it bv to help me find a girlfriend. Oh, and I should mention I will probably marry this girlfriend. We're approaching 4 years and still love each other.

[mark000h]

Go on meetup. com and make a profile. Find a group to do a common activity. You'll meet other people socially as a group and perhaps one will be a guy or will become a friend who knows a guy.

[Avicenna]

You need to first decide what kind of guy s you want to meet. Lots of guys don’t frequent those places

[boggboss]

Seems u are preventing any chance to get a partner so clearly u need to change somthing

[PolarDip]

1. Join a local group/club/team and meet other people who share the same interests. Start by expanding your social circle, not by specifically looking for a date.
2. Don't be so hard on yourself.

[goodgirlsteven]

Library find a guy you like find out what he's reading then show interest in what he likes! then try and develop an interest in what he likes if he's working out.

[DevinAM]

I managed to meet someone on an app who Seems to be a potential long-term.

I have a similar don't get out much issue because I have social anxiety & don't have my own car yet.

[Asker]

U think it doesn't matter where u meet em even if it doesn't sound romantic? I would want to lie xd

[DevinAM]

If they're a good person I don't see why it matters where I met them & besides I'm not a liar.

[skeetskeetskeet]

If you have a pussy try going outside. . Someone is going to try and get at you

[Asker]

Well I know it's easy to have sex for me , I could if I want d everyday but what I really want is just one guy that could be a potential boyfriend , that's hard to find , I hope on the app or when I go to electronic parties I find bc there s no other place that I go apart from that

[skeetskeetskeet]

I think your putting to much thought into it..

[whiskeyontherocks]

I’d start with what I enjoy doing and meet someone that way

[Anonymous]

Join a bowling league. Go to church. Game nights at a local board game store.

[Guy13]

MertUp groups and like hobbies

[Guy13]

www.meetup.com

Soccer and a book club worked well for me…. I was able to crash a feminist book club full of cackling hens at a brewery…
I’m the only guy that they’ve allowed and I’m NOT Gender Equality/Equity or LGBT 💩.
—I’m like their token “gay friend” or “right-winger”. I never date any of the 20 BUT I use them as Femi-Nazi Detectors SO I stay clear of them-good times🥳🥳🥳

[Asker]

Well I don't think that works here I'm from south America and I don't read books , and my hobbies are dancing and I don't like to dance in public much , I prefer to dance alone or with someone at home. I also like singing , rapping and beatboxing but I do that all alone, I'm too shy. And I'm a cosmetologist and makeup artist but I don't meet guys in that way

[RuthlessAggression]

How do you expect to meet men, if you're shy

[In_Trance]

Meet them doing the things you like doing

[zagor]

What is Omegle?

[Asker]

Omegle. com is a site where you talk to stranger , you can put something in common in interests and so you match with a person with the same interest, I think he is very into me but also thinks like me that we met on a site that is used mostly by too horny guys , but I'm not a slut and I he respect that but well still it's not a romantic place to find someone

[Alex8736]

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