How come there is people who live boring lifes and don't stay in good shape somehow get in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I'm trying so hard to get a guy I'm always busting my ass in the gym to keep a good physique, learning skills and kntersting hobbies.

[serious]

If a person gets a girl/guy then there are various factors behind that. A lot of things have to work together well in order for that to happen.

Yes, physical beauty, looks and physique are also important. There is no denying that but what is more important is the compatibility factor, the likeness in thinking, having similar interests etc.

Coming back to you. Whatever you are doing is great. The fact that you are working hard to maintain your physique and look attractive is a great thing. You should continue doing that. You should know that men are visual creatures. Physical beauty and looks matters to us (men). However depending on the guy some guy may give more importance to physical beauty and some may slightly less importance to that but we also care about compatibility so keep that in mind too.

It is great that you are working out in the gym, it is a very admirable thing that you are doing. However, you should keep doing this because you love to be fit, you love it when you are fit and that you can wear everything. You should do because you get a sense of pride when you see yourself in the mirror knowing how good looking you.

Don't do it because you want men to look at you and appreciate your beauty. If a man notices you and compliments then accept that otherwise you should do what you do best.

I hope this helps.

[Asker]

I do like this guy but I'm not sure he will that's why I haven't asked him. We both don't drink, we are both into sports fitness and into gaming so we have something but I'm not sure lol

[serious]

It seems good then.

[ChrisMaster69]

Because just socialising and being realistic about life means the average person dates, gets married and has kids.

There is too much on social media that just is not the real world.

poor people date.
fat people date
people with disabilities date
average and below average date (whatever average and below is).

that date could also be Marry and have kids.

Not everyone can afford the gym or interesting hobbies, they still manage to get married.

being out socialising and meeting people in real world is best way.

[MrHopper]

You will as you go on, but you got to talk to people too, a lot of women wait for men to make the first move but it need to go both ways really as a lot of men dont have that confidence, especially if the woman is very attractive

[Anonymous]

Maybe you got the personality of a bowl of plain oatmeal.

[Asker]

I dunno I got told I seemed fun with a lot of strangers i meet

[Asker]

Maybe I need to approach the guys

[Opinion Owner]

That would definitely help. Lol

[Anonymous]

They must be self confident?