Why do some attractive people with good personalities have such a boring sex life?

[adrianaduncan33]

[steveguitar]

Well fist a lot of people don't go out and just have sex.

So. e are super shy, or very socially unsuccessful. Like me, I've never dated, and part of that is that my social confidence is very low and it takes me a long time to get used to somebody. And I have never had any girl ever really get into me. And lastly I don't have much to offer, I don't have a good job, I don't know anything about fun things to do, or what to talk about.

Besides who is telling you about their sex life?

[Anonymous]

1. Naturally low sex drive
2. They're busy doing other things
3. Sexual repression from parents or religion or trauma
4. Low self-esteem
5. They choose that kind of sex life
6. Boring sexual partners
And probably lots more. I'd go so far to say the majority of people no matter thier looks or personality have a boring sex life and pretty much everyone has a boring sex life compared to someone else. Your exciting can easily be considered someone else's mundane.

[SuomiSam]

because the way you look it's not attached to your sexuality, you can be even asexual bombshell

[SuomiSam]

or you think "damn if i was as hot as Bey, I'd screw so many guys..." ? lol

[TheDevilInside]

Because life, in it's own fucked up way, is fair. You can't have everything

[KitKat93]

Some people like their boring sex lives and are fulfilled with just that.

[EarthToKepler]

Because they think their looks are enough to satisfy.

Same goes with men with big dicks.. They think they're awesome in bed when in fact they most likely aren't

[serp777]

Good question except in my case its a non existent sex life.

[dakraziest]

Because they don't know how to take risks and try new things

[justbanANNAz]

maybe they don't all want a crazy sex life.

[Anonymous]

I have never met an attractive person with a good personality.

[jacquesvol]

Do they? How do you know?

[jacquesvol]

in my opinion, attractive people think being attractive should be enough and they don't have to put out. That's an error, of course.

[vouge]

thats how the cookie crumbles my friend

[Anonymous]

I don't know why I have such a boring sex life.