When you see a pretty girl at a party what do you do? For girls, a hot guy?

Question

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Say hi, introduce myself, chat her up a bit and find out about her, have a couple laughs. Just feel the chemistry or lack thereof and probably also spend a bit of time with other people at the party. I do enjoy a good engaging conversation, but at a party I also don't want to get stuck in one spot with one person for a long time, even if she's pretty.

If there was a great chemistry then that's awesome, let's find a place to pash. If it's just good or not sure, then build some tension and keep it relaxed. If there's no chemistry, no biggie. Maybe I can introduce her to a friend of mine or some random party goer, and make myself scarce.

When you see a pretty girl at a party what do you do? For girls, a hot guy?

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Nothing.

I don't go to parties, and if I ever found myself at one, I'd not be interested in strangers enough to approach them.

I'll stick to meeting women online, where I can filter out the taken ones and the ones who don't share my interests, hobbies, views, etc, and actually get to know them before meeting them in person.

far2gud4u · Accepted Answer

My situation I guess would usually be in a bar where I would smile at him and hope he smiles back. If I catch him looking again I would usually wait until his drink got low and wander to the bar hoping he follows. There because I am an independent girl I would either buy him whatever beer he is drinking as I beat him there or I would buy him a shot and make him join me in a fun game... x

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

I grab him by the dick and drag him away from his girlfriend

Anonymous · Answer

Majority of girls on here who answer what I post regarding "do women want to be approached", I often read no from y'all girls on this website... So why would I approach an attractive girl somewhere. For all I know she could be a psycho. I mean thats what girls think of every guy it's either "not interested with his physical traits" or "he must be a psycho" and that's fine women/girls can think that. But as a dude, I can think that about them as well. This may not be the 'politically correct' thing you may want to read but i'm just going based on my experiences.

James77777 · Answer

Are you kidding? Forgive someone that ghosted you after a 4 year relationship. One day my ex"s Grandma called and said she was scared living alone at night and would my ex stay with her for awhile I told my ex sure it's cool stay with your Grandma I still will see you Never heard from her again She did not answer my calls texts and because her Grandma lived in a gated community I was unable to knock on the door. I heard six months later from her telling me she was pregnant and that she was sorry Really sorry if you only knew how this effected me is an understatement I would not forgive her let alone ever see her again in my life She could of just told me she wanted space but ghosting me Really dont ever get back with someone who disrespected you like that Avoid them

PolarDip · Answer

Do absolutely nothing and then spend the rest of the night beating myself up for doing absolutely nothing.

dolemite89 · Answer

ignore them usually, and if we are introduced or start randomly talking I like starting funny fake arguments or tease them about something to make them laugh. Pretty girls are so used to guys kissing their ass so it’s better to be the guy who isn’t afraid to bust their balls 😂

Tiptoetamm · Answer

I'll go up and say hi to him. Feel it out, ask him to dance maybe get a drink and talk. I'm not to shy, I'll be a bit conservative until I get comfortable. It all depends on the person and if I feel like it's mutual

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

First of all , I have never been to a party before and I also will not join any in the future. Let's assume that I join one , so it does not even matter if she is pretty or not I just do not even mind about it at all and do nothing.

aliciafr · Answer

personally I’d just acknowledge that they are good looking. If I was single, maybe I’d go up to them and start a subtle conversation and see where it could take us. If within 2-5 minutes of the conversation, I don’t see a potential connection, I’d probably lose interest and simply move on.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd be around the area just scope out the situation. If I see that she's knee deep in guys, I'll see myself outta there.

Even though I know how attractive I am I still read the room. I'm in my early 30's and I know if she's in her early 20's she'd be more inclined to dance and give her attention with younger men as well.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nothing, cause i never went to a party to meet someone, I just wanna dance in peace lol

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

Take in their full image then go back to enjoying the party. I rarely go to parties but when I do its to focus on good conversations and music.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Go to the bathroom and rub one out... I mean hell, if you talk her into bed later at least you'll last longer.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

Sure I’d do nothing. If she’s really beautiful would have already her flock of admirers, sure better looking or taller than me 😂

hotwife98 · Answer

If I like him I'm going to make it known. I'll probably ly initiate the conversation and see what he's like.

fonduegirl · Answer

Wait for him to turn so I can look at his tight ass. I do the same with girls.

RicFlair312 · Answer

Check out her mannerisms & see if she's approachable in that particular environment. I might usually wait to chatt with her in a less populated area of the gathering and engage in small talk to Check out her vibe...

DS_Madking · Answer

the thing is i am cool with talking to girls and strangers but just if they start the convo cuz im too stupid to start an conversation with strangers

Avicenna · Answer

Talk to her. Just because she’s hot doesn’t mean you should be nervous. And she’s used to guys talking to her because she’s attractive.

raddisn · Answer

I guess talking to women the right way comes with age. As a young man I was too shy to talk to a lady. Now I'm older it seems more natural to strike up a chat and I find myself less nervous now and women are attracted to my conversations.

dragoblack · Answer

Usually nothing because my usual luck is she is with her boyfriend, has a boyfriend, has no interest in talking to me, or just doesn't find me attractive... im not kidding, im 30 and that has been constant since puberty

cth96190 · Answer

Treat her as though she is invisible. I do not want a sexual harassment complaint, or a false rape allegation.

Arwen06 · Answer

Depends how drunk I am

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Walk right up to her, give her tits a good squeeze and say, "Hey, Toots, let's fuck!"

Aphrodite801 · Answer

He’s gotta be super hot for me to do anything not ordinary hot

Freyke · Answer

Nothing. I am here to dance and have fun with my friends.

Subarugirl · Answer

The only parties I go to are birthday and wedding parties lol

Dax2512 · Answer

I wouldn’t do anything, I’m to nervous to just walk up to someone I don’t know and just start talking to them. I guess I’m a really sad and pathetic guy.

Babygirl_S · Answer

When I see a hot guy, I get nervous and just smile at him.

Table4YTwo · Answer

I like to offer them my special blend drink and and delicious Snack

ewright_1 · Answer

Im a mix between say nothing and say hi and be nervous

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t approach woman I wait for them to give me a signal or they can approach me

clampfan101 · Answer

I would attempt to do C, but even that’s still difficult for me… 😥

Jamesshinobi · Answer

dont pay any attention to her, give her winggirl all the attention.

Synikal · Answer

I'm an introvert. I say nothing and get more drinks and food or go home after 2 hours of being there.

anylolone · Answer

I always have too much on my mind to notice or care much.

constantine15 · Answer

Avoid her like the plague, since I already know she won’t be into me. Don’t want to scare her off.

Anonymous · Answer

If you approach her you might end up having to explain to a cop why you had the audacity to talk to a woman. Who needs that shit.

Better_off_here · Answer

i am gonna be honest on here and say hi to her but be nervous too.

Blackcosmo · Answer

Absolutely nothing. Looks alone can't attract me.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Nothing..

DermalPunch · Answer

No issue approaching sexy men.

Spotifyplaylist · Answer

I'd talk to her and use my gaydar.

alina112 · Answer

Get drunk probably and enjoy the party

Anonymous · Answer

nothing I do not even waste my time with parties anymore  women are garbage

serious · Answer

Absolutely nothing. Just mind my own business.

LonelyFox · Answer

Is the guy hotter than the girl?

Dkc123 · Answer

Ignore her. N find the easy target.

Valso · Answer

Nothing. It's pointless.

Dohbeieirjen · Answer

I dont chase men ever

Guanfei · Answer

Nothing, rejection makes me sad.

Wise4myage · Answer

Id say hi and hope she wants to chat.

DiDi1101 · Answer

Invite her for a dance

wiltonaimes · Answer

Scorn her since hot girl is s bitch

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nothing at all.

exitseven · Answer

I went with C.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I ignore her.

ALovely_Queen · Answer

Nun of the above

Anonymous · Answer

I finger her ass

When you see a pretty girl at a party what do you do? For girls, a hot guy?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Guys what do you do when you see an attractive girl?

When you see a pretty girl at a party what do you do? For girls, a hot guy?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Guys what do you do when you see an attractive girl?

We're glad to see you liked this post.