The financial side is irrelevant. My partner and I met while at uni doing our doctorates. We have the same intellect, the same sense of humour, have so much in common. As students for 7 1/2 years, we were almost destitute. An unsolicited act of kindness won my heart instantly. Looks and wealth are not important. Being soul mates is. He would be the first to admit he is average in looks, but his heart of gold trumps anything else.
It definitely helps, there's a reason why most girls have a standard for how much a man should make.
Pretty much all of that is less relevant than the question of how much is he trying and being smart about how he's trying.
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