Should I keep trying, or should I get over her?

[Anonymous]

There's this one lady that works at my store (different departments) that I asked out about a month ago. At the time, she told me yes, but it would be a few weeks until she could, as she was busy helping her sisters. But then we could get a coffee or something. I did give her my number, but she never texted me or anything. At times since then, I would ask if she had weekend plans, and she would. She never mentioned the coffee idea or hanging with me at all. Granted, one of those weeks I was on vacation, and another one, this one, I was out with Covid. But I'm starting to think she's not interested anymore. The only argument against that I'd say is that her mom went through my lane once and told me she was told a lot about me. That was a few weeks ago though. What do you think? I'm fine if she's not interested. I got plenty of other things going on, and I don't really need her. I just figured I'd give it a shot since we do get along really well and I like her personality.

[Notcreativenough]

It's important to know your intentions here. Is this a girl you want to date or just friends with benefits type thing? If you're looking for love in my opinion I would keep looking, you deserve to be a higher priority in a potential mates life than what she has led on, by the sounds of things you both know at least a little bit about each other, probably enough to know if you would be good together, if this hasn't captured her attention enough I wouldn't waste anymore time no matter how hard it might be to let go. If you're looking for a hookup then yeah keep the fight going, best case scenario here is you might discover a sexual chemistry that gets the relationship ball rolling in a way that hasn't peaked her interest enough thus far. Just a thought, good luck buddy!

[Asker]

I was looking to date her. I never got to know her that well, but I wanted to, and I told her that. I think you may be right though.

[In_Trance]

move on